Name's James, 23 from Brooklyn, New York.
I grew up in a Roman Catholic household; went to Catholic school from Pre-K - Senior year in High School. I was an altar server for about 8 years.
I guess I can say I "left the faith" when I was 16. I realized as I was getting older that my spiritual, political, and sexual ways were not agreeing with that of the Church so I left. It was on Good Friday in 2002 and I have never set foot in a Church again; not even for family members' weddings/funerals.
Never was really into sports but I was a good bowler and in high school I played for my Varsity bowling team. Highest score to date is a 260.
I have a HUGE phobia of needles and I still dread getting shots; to the point of passing out. I have been to therapy for it, learned meditation methods.. things like that and it has gotten better. But still whenever I see one on tv or anything at all I can't look at it.
For tickling, I can say that I always loved being tickled. It didn't click with me as being a fetish or related to anything sexual until I was about maybe 15-16 when a relative pinned me down and tickled me (my first post here). I knew at that point that I liked being in that situation; being controlled, being tickled, being humiliated by a bigger woman (bigger than me at the time)... and I felt that that moment was my "revelation" sort to speak.
It was a horrible time in high school without being able to relate to anyone about my feelings and what I was going through. Thankfully that has changed.
I am a full 'lee with no 'ler tendencies; into f/m and m/m
Around that time I felt that I was into more things besides tickling and gradually via the internet I discovered BDSM related things; trampling, whipping, foot worshipping, spanking... etc
I can say that I am a bottom/submissive who is not a masochist. I am not into heavy pain; like beating me to the point that I bleed, or cutting.. etc. To me I find being spanked over the knee of a Dominant is very relaxing.
I discovered the TMF through a Google search and joined in 2005. I was a lurker here for 2 years and I officially started posting in 2007. I hope to be able to attend one of Baladonis's NYC munches and am glad one is shortly coming up.
Random Facts
- horror film lover
- smoker of cigars/pipe tobacco/hookah
- lost most of my hair at 20
- lover of Asian food; Japanese and Thai
- 1/2 Italian and 1/2 Irish
- autograph collector
- was a huge Wrestling fan (WWF), as I got older the interest died down
- Tae Kwon Do student for 7 years
- witnessed my neighbor die of a heart attack from my window on the street; never forgot the image
- huge "24" fan
- huge fan of NICKELODEON as a kid
I grew up in a Roman Catholic household; went to Catholic school from Pre-K - Senior year in High School. I was an altar server for about 8 years.
I guess I can say I "left the faith" when I was 16. I realized as I was getting older that my spiritual, political, and sexual ways were not agreeing with that of the Church so I left. It was on Good Friday in 2002 and I have never set foot in a Church again; not even for family members' weddings/funerals.
Never was really into sports but I was a good bowler and in high school I played for my Varsity bowling team. Highest score to date is a 260.
I have a HUGE phobia of needles and I still dread getting shots; to the point of passing out. I have been to therapy for it, learned meditation methods.. things like that and it has gotten better. But still whenever I see one on tv or anything at all I can't look at it.
For tickling, I can say that I always loved being tickled. It didn't click with me as being a fetish or related to anything sexual until I was about maybe 15-16 when a relative pinned me down and tickled me (my first post here). I knew at that point that I liked being in that situation; being controlled, being tickled, being humiliated by a bigger woman (bigger than me at the time)... and I felt that that moment was my "revelation" sort to speak.
It was a horrible time in high school without being able to relate to anyone about my feelings and what I was going through. Thankfully that has changed.
I am a full 'lee with no 'ler tendencies; into f/m and m/m
Around that time I felt that I was into more things besides tickling and gradually via the internet I discovered BDSM related things; trampling, whipping, foot worshipping, spanking... etc
I can say that I am a bottom/submissive who is not a masochist. I am not into heavy pain; like beating me to the point that I bleed, or cutting.. etc. To me I find being spanked over the knee of a Dominant is very relaxing.
I discovered the TMF through a Google search and joined in 2005. I was a lurker here for 2 years and I officially started posting in 2007. I hope to be able to attend one of Baladonis's NYC munches and am glad one is shortly coming up.
Random Facts
- horror film lover
- smoker of cigars/pipe tobacco/hookah
- lost most of my hair at 20
- lover of Asian food; Japanese and Thai
- 1/2 Italian and 1/2 Irish
- autograph collector
- was a huge Wrestling fan (WWF), as I got older the interest died down
- Tae Kwon Do student for 7 years
- witnessed my neighbor die of a heart attack from my window on the street; never forgot the image
- huge "24" fan
- huge fan of NICKELODEON as a kid
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