Okay, so I probably could have come up with some better thread name!
I'm a 'ler. That just hit me a little while ago, when I realized there were titles associated with the practitioner and the receiver; I'm a 'ler, and that puts me in what appears (according my very limited knowledge) to be a very specific role. Responsibilities! A need to learn. A need to provide.
I know next to nothing, but I want to know more. This forum is a font of information, but I'm still just starting to sift through, so I thought I'll present this question:
According to your own personal preferences, what should a 'ler be good at? What should a 'ler focus on, and what should they avoid? What kind of cool things can you do that involve tickling the hell out of the 'lee? Any ideas, suggestions, or references for me as somebody who's just learning and wants to be super open-minded?
I know that the answers to these things vary depending on the 'ler and the 'lee. I know that this post is also immensely ambiguous! At this point, I want to begin gathering as much info as I can so I can break down the specifics and help define my own identity as a 'ler.
I'm a 'ler. That just hit me a little while ago, when I realized there were titles associated with the practitioner and the receiver; I'm a 'ler, and that puts me in what appears (according my very limited knowledge) to be a very specific role. Responsibilities! A need to learn. A need to provide.
I know next to nothing, but I want to know more. This forum is a font of information, but I'm still just starting to sift through, so I thought I'll present this question:
According to your own personal preferences, what should a 'ler be good at? What should a 'ler focus on, and what should they avoid? What kind of cool things can you do that involve tickling the hell out of the 'lee? Any ideas, suggestions, or references for me as somebody who's just learning and wants to be super open-minded?
I know that the answers to these things vary depending on the 'ler and the 'lee. I know that this post is also immensely ambiguous! At this point, I want to begin gathering as much info as I can so I can break down the specifics and help define my own identity as a 'ler.