I'm thinking of Lee'ing it at NEST....

[St. Louie]

This will be my first NEST...and I think it will be great. I can't wait to meet some people as well as seeing some old friends. This is such a good group. Anyway....I am, without a doubt a Ler. I always have been and will probably always remain...but I will admit I have thought about dipping into the Lee side....maybe once. By the sounds of things, this could be the one place I'd feel safe enough to try being on the Lee side....without having to risk wetting my pants in front of strangers! lol!

Anyway, has anyone else been in this situation? And if so, was it a good decision? And I know this may sound horrible (and I hope it doesn't) but if I am a Male could I be safe in assuming no other males would spontanioulsy jump in as a Ler? Does that sound bad? God, I'm sorry if i offend anyone.

Anyway, I think this could be a great weekend.....can't wait to see you all!

-Louie

[terorizer]

Louie -

You're probably correct in assuming NEST would be a good place to try being a Lee. The good thing about gatherings like NEST and other safe and sane type of events is that as the Lee, you decide who, what, when, where and how. And how long. There are plenty of experienced folk to help you along the journey and your comfort level is the number one priority. You may find you enjoy bottoming, you may find you don't enjoy it so much, but one thing is certain, if you don't enjoy it, it won't be because you tried it at NEST.

And no, it doesn't sound horrible that you would only want female lers. Everyone has their preferences and nobody's going to judge you for them. Plus, I don't believe there'll be any shortage of lady lers willing to accomodate ya on your first time... they'll be reeeeeaaaallll gentle too! :- )