Actually, dtrell, what a lady will do is not up to you, nor is it up to me, the moderating staff, a political party, the social club up the street, or anyone else.
She, like other people on the planet, has free will. She also has the possibilities of a background, history and behavioral makeup that's different than either of us, sir.
Right now, you've alienated this person. I'm leaving the post up, so it's clear what behavior you intend to show to the populace.
When you want to remove this example of accusatory behavior, and show that you DON'T know everything about everyone's every move, do let the moderating staff know.
In the mean time, the damage was done the moment you replied, as whomever posted this saw your call and bailed.
Might've been accurage. Might not. If not, pray she has no friends here. Women are FAR more social than men, and compare notes on behaviors received.
You're correct about one thing. I *don't* know what you keep for your list. I actually don't care. It's none of my business. I care to show that implication with such a statement can't be taken for positive in the way it was used.
You and I have several differences, here. One big one is that I actually KNOW several women from this forum. I hear, from them, about men accusing them of a variety of things, including gender fraud.
Generally, it happens when they're not doing what the male wants.
She's not replying to you. You're running thread to thread, and when you don't get what you want, you're standing up and shouting "Male!"
Looks less than desireable, sir.
Personally, given the volume of threads in which you've participated, I would figure you'd know this sort of thing. I'm actually surprised at your behavior. It's now public record, though, until you request it's removal.
But that would be saying I'm right, wouldn't it?
Or am I just making some sort of grand assumption?
Do you see what I'm showing you?
It's not pleasant, is it?
Now imagine for a moment that she's a she, and she's getting your vehemence in a thread that took her hours, days or weeks to motivate to post. You just skewered her. Think she'll post again?
What about the countless women who saw this? Think they'll post?
Doubt it.
No, you've just done the men and Lesbians of this forum a great favor. You've freed countless hours of their time. Nobody from this area will be cluttering their time with social desires or play.
Only reason it's a big problem for me is the quandry of it. Do I yank a post that's going to witch hunt a woman, telling all other women that a known frequent poster will doubt ANYONE who doesn't behave as he wishes? Can't say that would solve much. Easier to simply discuss it openly, too. Gives others a chance to understand what's at stake with such gestures.
The person that posted originally COULD have done anything. They didn't. That's a shame.
You could have avoided alienating all but the bravest of the brave (as women don't generally post, statistically, in large amounts). You didn't. For you single folk, that's a shame.
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