more open and vocal

[shylittleme]

who do you think is More open and vocal when it comes to there fetish for tickling and there love for it?

Men or Woman?


i'd have to say Men just because were pretty much open ingeneral about things no matter what.

[Neutron]

Exactly how much experience do you have with women? I find most women as being far more vocal and open.
Most men think a big game, but never actually go out and do anything.

Tron

[kis123]

I would be inclined to agree that the guys have little to no problem expressing their needs and desires. It's the old men being raised to be aggressive and women are still trying to break out of the old "nice girls don't" mold!

Just my opinion. I could be wrong, but I don't think so!:cool:

[ticklishmike25]

Men are always more open about anything fetish or sexual related its in our blood LOL sorry neutron,will we ever agree? LOL

[Neutron]

Men are more brazen among themselves. They're more worried about being shot down.

Guys like me, who are bold and just don't give a fuck are few and far between, which is why we usually do damn well.

Women on the other hand... At least in the circles I run in are a OT more open.

Tron

[derkitzelnkonig]

Id have to say men are. I am a man and I am definitely vocal when it comes to my tickling needs. My girlfriend however can never tell me what she likes! Then she says "you dont do what I want" and I say "what is it" and she says "I dunno know" Ive asked her so many times what turns her on and she always says "I dunno" How can you not know!! Then she claims cuddling, but thats boring in my opinion! and Then when I try to cuddle with her she wont do nothing and I say "I thought you like it" and she goes "uhh just lay still"
AHHHHHHHH!!!

[Neutron]

I didn't think we were talking about relationships. I thought we meant in general.
If you aren't open with each other in a relationship you have other problems to begin with, AND if tickling is a criteria for a long term relationship you have HUGE problems and need to talk with Dr Darth Neutron

Tron

[shylittleme]

Originally posted by derkitzelnkonig
Id have to say men are. I am a man and I am definitely vocal when it comes to my tickling needs. My girlfriend however can never tell me what she likes! Then she says "you dont do what I want" and I say "what is it" and she says "I dunno know" Ive asked her so many times what turns her on and she always says "I dunno" How can you not know!! Then she claims cuddling, but thats boring in my opinion! and Then when I try to cuddle with her she wont do nothing and I say "I thought you like it" and she goes "uhh just lay still"
AHHHHHHHH!!!


i don't like people like that. there so very frustrating! its like you have a brain and you have opinions and wants and needs. so USE THEM already

[ticklishmike25]

neutron your way off base on this,a man when it comes to fetishes will always have more and be more open about them then women. with men its all about looks bodyparts that kind of stuff thats fetish related. has a women ever come up to you anywhere and started talking tickle fetish with you? but i am sure you went up to women and started talking fetish stuff with them. I dont think one guy in here has ever had a girl out of nowhere come up to them and say that she had a tickling fetish,guys are a lot more open about fetishes.

[Neutron]

Not just tickling either, then again I've had lots more expewrience with women than you. That's not a shot, that's a simple fact.

Tron

[ticklishmike25]

when it comes to fetishes men are without a doubt more open. with men its all about looks bodyparts thats all FETISH related neutron your way off base on this. has a women ever anywhere come up to you and start talking tickle fetish with you? but I bet you have gone up to many women and brought the subject up. I am sure no guy in the forum has ever on the outside had a women out of the blue say they have a tickle fetish,guys always start those conversations.

[shylittleme]

Originally posted by Neutron
Not just tickling either, then again I've had lots more expewrience with women than you. That's not a shot, that's a simple fact.

Tron

That kinda sounds like a shot to me. but i could be wrong?

thats almost like saying that you get more pussy then 50 Cent

[ticklishmike25]

The original question was who is more open about their tickling fetish men or women. it wasnt who is more open neutron or women,your answer is from your own personal history,but what about everyone else? your one guy,thats all!!!!!!!

[chrisheaven]

don't really think one can generalise about this

[TickledToDeath]

As far as fetishes and tickling, men usually are more open and vocal about it. Quicker to take chances and express these desires on a verbal level while Women I feel will will be more physically open with actions and not words and hope we guys will just catch on and read the hints dropped.

TTD

[steph]

As the second gal to weigh in here, I agree with kis. Those of us who are open about loving it, I think, are judged and looked down upon for being so "naughty." Do I care? Nope! :p

XOXO

Originally posted by kis123
I would be inclined to agree that the guys have little to no problem expressing their needs and desires. It's the old men being raised to be aggressive and women are still trying to break out of the old "nice girls don't" mold!

Just my opinion. I could be wrong, but I don't think so!:cool:

[IwillTickleU]

In all honesty and with me being a guy I think guys admit it more. Just about everyone that knows me does know about my fetish for womens feet and for tickling. I dont think I can remember personally knowing a girl who shares the same interests as i do

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

...but I LOVE this woman!
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As the second gal to weigh in here, I agree with kis. Those of us who are open about loving it, I think, are judged and looked down upon for being so "naughty." Do I care? Nope! --Steph

[steph]

(REALLY blushing now....) :blush: :blush: :blush:

Well, ya know hon, the life I've led and my patients teach me that it can all end in a second. I just got fed up with feeling guilty about shit all the time~raised a good Italian Catholic girl~Now I live each day like it's the last, and I apologize for none of it (except that I didn't figure things out sooner, but no point in wasting time on THAT!)It's very liberating and I feel very lucky.

Thanks for the compliment, BTW, you're very sweet.

XOXO

[fitnesstickle]

Originally posted by steph
As the second gal to weigh in here, I agree with kis. Those of us who are open about loving it, I think, are judged and looked down upon for being so "naughty." Do I care? Nope! :p

XOXO
And we love you for it My Muse. :D

[steph]

:justlips:

[MsDivaNYC]

In the words of Motley Crue:

"GIRLS, GIRLS, GIIIIRLS!"

Don't get Me wrong, some guys can laugh their heads off and shiver and convulse during a tickle session, but girls just giggle and shake and laugh SO much more. Yah--I guess it's the girly giggle which makes it more special and noticeable.