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Gagged or not?

Bound AND gagged?

  • Yes! Go all the way!

    Votes: 14 22.6%

  • Nahhh...I wanna here some begging here...

    Votes: 48 77.4%
  • Total voters
    62
Dave2112

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Curious as to the general concensus here. Do any of you use gags in your bondage play when tickling is included? There are a ton of pros and cons either way, from the need to hear a 'lees laughter to the 'lers love of absolute control. What do you think?
 
Nope

No gag for me!! I like to hear em beg!! :devil:
 
Gagged?

I dont get the concept of gagging. I wanna hear the sweet laughter and pleas for mercy!:devil:
 
In practice, I've found that I don't have the nerves of steel I'd like when I finally get some silly woman to agree to let me tie her down. I can hardly go through with the tickling as it is. I can't imagine gagging her too!

Anyone seen my balls around here?

Laughter
 
Gave ya a yes on that, Dave. As a 'ler, I'm lucky to have a 'lee who likes breath control because being tickled while gagged quickly depletes one's air supply. I find it very entertaining to watch him laugh and splutter around a big ball gag.

I too enjoy a good gag :) but when I'm gagged and tickled it needs to be a breathable gag. Usually some kind of fabric (use your imagination) packed in the mouth and tied with a scarf works well.

My favorite breathable gag is a nerf ball. You squeeze it tight in your hand and then push it in, then wrap it in place with ace bandages. Cut one in half if a whole one is too much. As it expands in her mouth, the ticklee's natural urge will be to control it with clenched jaws. But once she's forced to laugh she loses the fight, and with her jaw stretched she can't control her laughter.
 
I've used the nerf ball thing, Evilqueen, and you're right, it's a great tool.

GOD, you're evil!! I think I'm in looooooooovvvveeee:D
 
Well, Dave,

...as the poll clearly confirms, gagging and tickling are NOT a match. Laughter is at the heart of the tickling biz---let it flow!!!

ddd
 
DDD, I don't really think that tickling and gags are NOT a match per se. I think that it depends on your mindset and why you are tickling in the first place.

For playful tickling and fun, I never use gags. I love the verbal interplay and the screaming, etc.

But there are those of us who simply use tickling in a D/S setting as opposed to whipping, spanking or what have you. When you get completely into the bondage aspect, gags are sure to creep in.

But, as with everything else...it's up to the individual. There are no "rights" or "wrongs".

Thanks to everyone who participated, this was a good thread, I think.:cool:
 
Dear Dave,

May I respectfully continue the discussion, you worthy interlocutor? Without entering into the deeper philosophical question about whether there are rights and wrongs (no quotation marks!), let me say this:

I agree with your distinction. Some people, apparently, are into dominance per se and just use tickling as a means to that end--exactly as you said, instead of "whipping or spanking". Let's call these folks "Secondary Ticklers". NOT secondary in value or importance, but secondary in relation to the place of tickling in their sexuality.

My previous post really concerned those of us who are "Primary Ticklers" for whom "the tickling's the thing" and most other methods of exerting control are either not appealing or are even appalling (again--no offense to those who love them). Primary Ticklers (and Ticklees) are not simply "having fun" with laughter-based tickling, it is "serious" sexual stuff.

I believe that for Primary Ticklers laughter is crucial--it's almost the very definition of tickling. It is the "orgasm" of tickling (along with a bit of squirming). Gagging a ticklee is the equivalent--for us Primaries--of dancing with a partner who's wearing a straightjacket.

Good thread, Dave, and thanks a lot for listening.

dig dug dog
 
DDD, I respectfully agree with your comments. To a point. Everything you said makes sense and actually goes along with my own point. My only problem (again respectfully) is your distinction of "Primary" and "Secondary" ticklers. People like myself who are heavily into the bondage scene are not always secondary ticklers. It's the ONLY form of discipline or play I use. The tickling is first and foremost. Again, I don't use them all the time, but they add some bubbles to the champagne when that's the type of scene I'm going for.

But I understand what you are trying to say, and your arguement has it's merits. I am fully aware that most into tickling don't use gags. My point was not to make a case for their use, but simply to see if anyone else out there enjoyed mixing these two unlikely matched activities.

Truth be told, I fully expected the 'nays' to outweigh the 'yays'. Thank you both for your input (which I don't totally disagree with), and the maturity with which you responded.

(And by the way...what's wrong with your dance partner wearing a straightjacket? It's funny as hell....:D )

:cool2:
 
LOL..."staightjacket dancing", yeah, it might even tickle the funnybone...

For the most part, I was using the opportunity you generously provided to introduce some interesting (I hope) tickling thoughts.

Dave, enjoy the champagne! Bubbles do tickle, they say. Given the nature of the discussion, perhaps an appropriate toast for the occasion would be: "Bottoms up!"

(I believe the term I should now invoke is--My bad.)

dig dug
 
Thanks for the comments DDD. This has been an interesting thread. I've even learned a thing or two.

The whole thing is really a matter of personal taste, but it's nice to see things from another viewpoint.:cool:
 
me and thr majoriy..

say no gag, u want to hear your ticklee squeal and plead for mercy why you helplessly tickle them! its part of the fun!
 
Another fem's view..

I voted for gags because like Dave mentioned, some like the D/s lifestyle more than others. However, I would have voted for a 'both' option. Depending on how the situation is going, it may be benefitial for the ler to hear pleas etc., as it would be equally benefitial for the lee to gasp for air. Yet, I've found you can still hear the moans, screams and pleas from the lee using a gag. In some cases, it's much more amusing for the ler - just adds another level of control. ;)
 
Well said, Tamz. In hindsight, I should have added a "sometimes" option to the poll. As I said before, it's a sometimes thing. But you're right about the control thing. With a gag, you've removed the last form of release a 'lee has, adding to the torment.

Mutually acceptable torment, of course...he he he:devil:
 
"Mutually acceptable torment" - but of course! You know, a gag may cut off the last form of release for the lee, but I'd be interested in hearing feedback on the use of a blindfold. Either with the gag, or by itself, a blindfold can also be a great addition to a tickle torment scene. I know some enjoy seeing the ler's movements, for it adds to anticipation, but not being able to see brings new meaning to tickle torture. Perhaps another poll should be implemented.. (if the subject of blindfolds have not been questioned before of course).. ;)
 
I totally agree, Tamz. Blindfolds are a must if you wish to push the envelope on anticipation. And if you REALLY want to get sadistic (and I often do...he he he), try a set of earplugs or headphones as well.

Drop me an E-Mail if you'd like to exchange thoughts.:cool:
 
I've never thought about earplugs.. hmmm.. I think we've restricted almost all the major senses here. Since you have characterized yourself as a sadist, please feel free to share any more additions that you have found to be successful... :angel:
 
Well, let's see....jumper cables can exponentially heighten the experience, as can flaming wax, a beard of bees, An Imperial Interrogation Droid, Strychnine, and Gammorean Feather Beetles.

:D :D :D

I like this one...my kinda people!:cool:
 
:scared: All I got was bees and beetles :eek:
However, jumper cables may have struck my curiousity. Dave, you must explain this one! :)
 
Well, first you need a set of jumper cables. Then an arc welder...oh, and a couple of wet sponges.....

Ok, you know I'm kidding about the electrocution thing, right? (Right, Dave!)

Seriously though, get yourself a violet wand if you'd like to "spark" up your love life.:devil:

Anything else? Feel free to ask

:D ;) :D
 
the giggles are part of the magic!

I'm not one for gags, her giggles are part of the magic. I don't even restrain the hands, it's fun trying to work around her fingers as she tries to stop you. BUT, for personal safety, I gotta go with light ankle bonds... been kicked too many times to not tie the ankles (securely but loosely) Sometimes I'll go as far as tying the toes of the nylons together AND binding the ankles, but usually only when using a plastic hairbrush or electric toothbrush. It would be interesting just once to have her fully restrained, but even then I'd skip the gag... to me, my wife's giggles are better than viagra ;-)
 
My kind of woman

evilqueen,
My favorite gag is a nerf ball. You squeeze it tight in your hand and then push it in, then wrap it in place with ace bandage.
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A nerf ball is the only thing I have ever used, on myself or someone else. Aside from the fact that it allows more air through, it also allows more muffled pleas through. I couldn't enjoy a bondage-tickle session if I couldn't hear anything. I would worry to much to really get into it and enjoy myself.
 
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