I am so tickle deprived!

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I know that I have already posted about me being an only child and how I have had limited tickling experiences but I want to expand on that. Before joining this website, I have never heard of so many tickling stories in my life! Of course that is mostly because there are so many members. I will try to make this as brief as possible without rambling. I know everyone has had different experiences in life but I feel like I am the only person out there who has had very little tickling experiences for someone who is 33. When I read posts about stories about people getting tickled, I can't help but get soooo jealous about it and it makes me sad :sadcry:. So, I guess I'll pick and choose what posts I will read. I mean I basically had a good childhood and I had friends but they really weren't into tickling. I grew up on a busy street and there was one kid who lived on my block my age but he was a troublemaker so I didn't see him often, my Dad's brother had no children, all my other cousins were much older than me and I wasn't close with them. I was tickled by my Mom a couple of times, once by a babysitter (and I had to ask her to tickle me), and a few other times by other people.
Just want people to know that I am not mad or anything but when I read posts where people describe their tickling experiences it just makes me jealous and like I said above, I will pick choose what I read from now on. I still like this website and I have met a few guys who I have met up with and have had tickling play with and it was fun :veryhappy. My major point is that I want to be tickled so bad it's driving me crazy!:whip: I really wish someone would come over and tickle me right now. Anyway, I just really needed to get that out in the open. Please respond if you want.

[Adam]

Hey Jen. It's easy to get frustrated sometimes, I know. I fall into the deprived category myself. I'm hear for ya. If you still have my number, feel free to give me a call. :)

[Lttg]

If it makes you feel better, id say 50% of the stories/experiances told on this forum are made up or embelished :).

im a fair bit younger than you, but havnt really done much tickling either, few ex gfs.. nothing extraordinary. guess the only thing you can do is get tickled a lot more starting from now to make up for it ^^. im sure youll have no problems finding someone to tickle you here.

[GoForTheLaugh]

Hey there, ticklejen, I hear you. Just wanted to show some support. I'm only a tiny bit older than you, and I have not had all that many tickling experiences either. A board like this should be a place where you can let out tickle-related frustration, and I am sure this thread will fill up with comments from fellow posters wishing you the best. :)

[He-Man]

tickle deprived here, too, even after trying adult personals sites, tickling groups, etc

Only time I ever get any tickling is when the doctor accidentally tickles me by poking me with her nails while checking for...whatever it is..(I swear it gets harder to keep still each time...man, one day she wont be able to examine me without me being restrained lol)

I'm almost ready to suggest they do some kinda study to see how/if laughter improves the lungs of a person with Cystic Fibrosis...and I'd gladly be the victim..er, volunteer..for that. (after all, I seem to be able to breathe better after watching Comedy Central Presents or "Who's Line is it Anyway?"...so the laughing has to be doing SOMETHING good for me)...seems like I'm not gonna get tickle-tortured any other way

[chrisheaven]

you'll find someone to tickle you, Jen--------it will happen

[toneus79]

I'll be over in an hour.

[ShadowTklr]

I'll be over in an hour.


Ha ha. I live closer. :blaugh:
(grabbing keys on way out door)

[luvgirlsfeet]

I would love to tickle you Jen I wish I had lived closer to you so I could make the trip. I live in Massachusetts. ( Just south of Boston ) I'd be there in a heartbeat for you. If you are willing to travel I work in a Hotel I could get a free night and of course meals that you'd want. your welcome to email me at smw22771@aol.com if you are interested :cool2:

Steve

[isabeau]

like yourself jen i have had little to no experience at being tickled. and i am older than you so there. hehe. not by much but still... i even have a husband who i have asked to tickle my feet and he refuses sighs. aint life strange that way?// i dont get jealous however at the posts. i try to picture myself in their situation and it almost but not quite satisfies me for a while. anyway stick in there i believe your time will come, as will my own.

isabeau :imouttahe

[the_Baron]

so why oh why have U not written more to me? and i was just in center city over the weekend. not only could we have possibly enjoyed tickles.....there was baseball and food to be had!

drop me a PM.

no really!!!

[featherfingers]

Jen, I have a recommendation but it's a little weird. Now, we pretty much know that the majority of tickle freaks are male. I've seen the statistics and guys outnumber the ladies by a large percentage.

First of all, get a kick ass pedicure. Now, I don't promise you that what I'm about to describe will happen, but why don't you go to a college library, kick off your sandals and lie on a couch with a book covering your face. Pretend to be asleep. Have your feet propped up in such a way that even the janitor won't be able to resist a tickle. Chances are good that a full blown tickle freak will not pass up a chance to tickle a lady whose feet are out in the open like that. If that fails you, then you could always go to a crowded movie theater and prop your bare feet up on the seat in front of you. Some lucky guy may see them and sit close enough to give you a tickle or two. (I've done that before!) (I'm using feet in this scenario because if you remove your blouse in order to have your tummy tickled a full blown riot may ensue)

Obviously, the best thing you can do is meet new people and then eventually you'll let them in on your 'secret.' If they aren't into tickling, I'm sure they'll know someone who is.

The next best thing to do would be to move to Tucson and allow me the honor of giving you that which you desire. Judging from the replies this thread has received, you've definitely got some ticklers interested in helping you solve your dilemma.

[booberrytickle]

I've been lurking here for years now, but this thread (in particular Jen's post and Isabeau's reply) struck a cord and prompted my first actual post. I'm a male 'ler (feet especially...I know, there are a lot of us here), turned 40 recently and am married to a wonderful woman who, while very supportive, doesn't share my love for tickling (and sadly is not ticklish at all). I also feel a bit deprived on occasion, as I lurk on-line to satisfy my lifelong fascination. I completely understand feelings of isolation and wishing that my desire to tickle feet could me more readily and easily satisfied. I also have not had a lot of tickle experiences, other than a couple of girlfriends over the years who were coincidentally ticklish and didn't mind it.

Jen's post mirrors my often frustrating desire to tickle without a readily available outlet, while Isabeau's post further mirrors the lack of a tickling element in an otherwise wonderful commited relationship.

The real point is that, despite those issues, this website has shown me these issues are not unique to me, which, oddly enough, helps me cope. While I have no easy solutions, it helps to know that there are others similarly situated and that there is an outlet to discuss or otherwise share common issue. Thanks for listening. I hope to participate more in this forum in the future. But for now I just wanted to share a little and let Jen and Isabeau know that their situtations and frustrations are not isolated or unique and that this forum has been a valuable coping mechanism for me. Thanks for listening.

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I just want to thank you all for your responses so far. As for you, the_Baron you had e-mailed me a while ago because I received a message from you in my private inbox. I e-mailed you back but I haven't heard from you so I didn't think you were interested in tickle play with me. I need your regular e-mail address. Thanks for your advice featherfingers. I'll try it, although propping my bare feet up on a seat in a theater sounds fun but people might think it's strange. What exactly do you mean toneus79? What would be over? I don't quite get that. I am flattered luvgirlsfeet that you'd like to tickle me. I am quite surprised that there are more men that are members on TMF than women. Are men more comfortable with tickling or something? Go figure.

Chrisheaven like I had said before I have been tickled here and there. I have even been tickled by few guys I met from this website. But I crave more! It's good to know I am in good company. :grouphug:

[isabeau]

see jen at least you have been tickled which is more than i can say. and thanks to booberry for responding and sympathizing with my plight. one of these days i vow to fulfill my fantasy somehow somewhere, until then i dream on.

isabeau

[doctor tickle]

jen if a lived closer to you I would love to help you not feel so tickled deprived. Good luck on finding some tickles.

[stdave]

Yes Ticklejen I feel for you too. I haven't been tickled or tickled anybody in over a year and its driving me crazy.

[the_Baron]

oh wonderful Jen......

it was an oversight of EPIC proportion that i did not follow-up with U.

i have already begun the regular email route of communication....appropriate heads of state have been given advanced notice.....

....and the Baron tickle choo choo is chugging down the giggle tracks......

all aboard.......NO....just you Jen !!!

[MAJ0718]

Hello again, Jen. I know how you feel about being starved for tickling, since I myself am also starving to tickle a willing lady. I met you at this past NEST, and was willing to tickle you then, but alas, we didn't know each other very well. I would like to get to know you a little better and possibly become friends with you. Believe me, it would be such an honor to tickle you and have you laughing with sheer delight. :) In the meantime, I hope your hopes and dreams do come true......

[Gothmog]

I am younger than you,but I have NEVER had any tickling experiences,and have never even been in a relationship.I hope that shows you that you are not the only one.

[GoForTheLaugh]

It really makes me feel good when I see a member getting support. All the straight tickle-deprived folks here should start exchanging information; this board ought to be a gold mine for men and women looking to tickle each other, and I do not see any of you keeping your hands to yourselves for much longer. <<<<----

[He-Man]

All the straight tickle-deprived folks here should start exchanging information; this board ought to be a gold mine for men and women looking to tickle each other, and I do not see any of you keeping your hands to yourselves for much longer. <<<<----


Hey, maybe what we need is a "tickled-deprived-people" gathering ,maybe held in a state where there's usually not gatherings....nah, that probably wouldn't work...(damn, well there goes my chance of gettin tickle-tortured...)

[Elf_Song]

Yeah Jen, I know what it feels like to be tickle deprived. I'm sure we could find just anyone to tickle us, but to find someone who is mentally stable (you'd be surprised how few manage to meet that criteria), caring, and considerate to experience this wonderful feeling with would be a dream come true. I don't think it's even possible in my case, but I trust you will find someone very special and respectful, as you are a good person yourself. Good luck, I hope you are able to find some release soon, and more importantly someone to have fun with, and to treat you as well as you deserve to be treated.

[toneus79]

What exactly do you mean toneus79? What would be over? I don't quite get that.

Oh dear yet another english expression, sinks like the Titanic whilst crossing the Atlantic.

Thanks Shadow Tklr for stopping me from feeling so isolated and alone, because of my quaint little colonial phrases.

[mkeemer]

[QUOTE=ticklejen]I just want to thank you all for your responses so far. As for you, the_Baron you had e-mailed me a while ago because I received a message from you in my private inbox. I e-mailed you back but I haven't heard from you so I didn't think you were interested in tickle play with me. I need your regular e-mail address. Thanks for your advice featherfingers. I'll try it, although propping my bare feet up on a seat in a theater sounds fun but people might think it's strange.

I would love to go to the movies with you Jen :feets: <<<<---- :tickle: That one of my fantasies :wub:

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Hey mkeemer, I would like to take you up on your offer. If we go to the movies, I would put my feet in your lap and you can tickle away through the flick! We should definitely hook up. I will hopefully talk to you later.

Just come and get me! That's fine! I will get you back! :veryhappy

[Leo tickles]

Jen, IM me on AIM or Yahoo. AIM- shattereddream92 yahoo- depressed711. Mabye we can meet up and play sometime. In real life, I mean.

[TickledToDeath]

I know that I have already posted about me being an only child and how I have had limited tickling experiences but I want to expand on that. Before joining this website, I have never heard of so many tickling stories in my life! Of course that is mostly because there are so many members. I will try to make this as brief as possible without rambling. I know everyone has had different experiences in life but I feel like I am the only person out there who has had very little tickling experiences for someone who is 33. When I read posts about stories about people getting tickled, I can't help but get soooo jealous about it and it makes me sad :sadcry:. So, I guess I'll pick and choose what posts I will read. I mean I basically had a good childhood and I had friends but they really weren't into tickling. I grew up on a busy street and there was one kid who lived on my block my age but he was a troublemaker so I didn't see him often, my Dad's brother had no children, all my other cousins were much older than me and I wasn't close with them. I was tickled by my Mom a couple of times, once by a babysitter (and I had to ask her to tickle me), and a few other times by other people.
Just want people to know that I am not mad or anything but when I read posts where people describe their tickling experiences it just makes me jealous and like I said above, I will pick choose what I read from now on. I still like this website and I have met a few guys who I have met up with and have had tickling play with and it was fun :veryhappy. My major point is that I want to be tickled so bad it's driving me crazy!:whip: I really wish someone would come over and tickle me right now. Anyway, I just really needed to get that out in the open. Please respond if you want.


You could always attend a Hyenas Club Gathering and get all the tickling you want/need/deserve........and then some........both receiving and giving! <<<<---- :tickle:

[Gothmog]

It really makes me feel good when I see a member getting support. All the straight tickle-deprived folks here should start exchanging information; this board ought to be a gold mine for men and women looking to tickle each other, and I do not see any of you keeping your hands to yourselves for much longer. <<<<----

I'm terrible with people.I'm not mean or anything I am just quiet and reserved,and I'm not outgoing at all.I'm reminded of that little song,"nobody likes me,everybody hates me,guess I'll eat some worms." :bubble:

[GoForTheLaugh]

Gothmug: Surely some of my own insecurity has come out in my posts from time to time. I was exactly as you described yourself in my teens and in much of my twenties, but as a thirtysomething I have realized that I was missing out on so much in life. I am learning how to be more aggressive to get what I want--although, I admit, sometimes I take a step backwards and whine or think I can never have what I want. If I step back, I can still leap forward again.

No matter what you look like or what your past history is, there are people who will find something in you to like. You may have to search for these people, but they are out there. I know I have found a few. You don't have to be the perfect people person or incredibly outgoing. You just have to be kind and sincere; they will pick that up if they are the right type of people. If they are the wrong type of people (as many are), it is better that they don't pick that up.

As we get older, physical appearance and past history matter less; empathy and tenderness matter so much more. There are guys I date today that I would not have looked at twice when I was much younger--and I am ashamed of how shallow I was years ago.

Yes, there are still a number far removed from age 21 who want a young woman or man that age with a perfect figure; nothing else will do. They may have to pay, be celibate, or be very, very, very lucky. I know I do not want such a person; I want someone who wants me for me, and I sense that you feel the same about women.

Who is out there? There are others who were unpopular or hurt by others, and such similar experiences will help you bond. Others have never been hurt and have never been unpopular, but they simply like people and will have no problem with you. Still others, perhaps too many others, are trash. I know how hard it is to dismiss their judgments and mockery, as I still struggle with this issue myself and let them hurt me more than I should. But I have learned how to dismiss them much of the time, if not always.

I am beginning to realize more and more what a friendly place this board is despite the trolls. It's a good place to start making some friends, man, and eventually you will come across a classy tickle-deprived lady who will ask if all ten of your fingers are fully functional.

It will happen, man. Believe!

[Gothmog]

I am extremely attracted to asian girls for some reason.They are just beautiful to me,but that doesn't mean that I expect Ziyi Zhang to come and express her undying love for me.I am also more attracted to quiet booky type people.I guess I also just want a great friend.Thank you go for the laugh you've always given me good advice,and I appreciate it.

[Softstroke]

There is SO much on this thread that I can relate to.

I pretty much share the same story as Gothmog, only I'm a bit older. I'm 28, and even though I've loved tickling all my life, I've never had the chance to really experience it. No one I know shares my love of tickling, so I never brought up the subject with anybody. I was afraid they'd think I was weird or something. The closest I've ever came to a tickling experience was when my cat brushed against my bare foot one day causing me to jerk my leg back and giggle a little. At least I know I'm ticklish :o.

I haven't been with this forum very long as you can tell by my number of posts, but this looks like the right place to find a tickler or ticklee who I can have a few laughs with. I'm keeping my fingers crossed!

Still, it feels good to know that I'm not alone.

[NJLaughs]

who you are. I was at NEST this past year, but I don't remember which one you were. I am so sorry that I don't. I'm 40 minutes from Center City and travel in the area during the day on a regular basis. You can PM or e-mail me if you'd like.

[drew70]

I gotta say that The Baron's post cracked me up hard. Particularly when he said, "The Baron Tickle Choo Choo is chugging down the Giggle Tracks!" ROFL! That was classic, Baron! Thanks for the chucks, buddy!

[Drago69]

like yourself jen i have had little to no experience at being tickled. and i am older than you so there. hehe. not by much but still... i even have a husband who i have asked to tickle my feet and he refuses sighs. aint life strange that way?// i dont get jealous however at the posts. i try to picture myself in their situation and it almost but not quite satisfies me for a while. anyway stick in there i believe your time will come, as will my own.

isabeau :imouttahe

That kinda makes me sad in a way. Why wouldn't your husband do something that makes you happy? It doesn't make any sense to me...

I would think being married would be about bringing each other happiness, so it just makes me wonder why he'd deny you something as simple as tickling.

Hm. Oh well. I'll never understand some people.

[GoForTheLaugh]

It's a tough one, Drago69. I know, though, that if I were with a man who liked to be whipped or beaten, I could never indulge him. I would not have any problem with his tastes, of course, but he could hardly expect me to do something that scares the living daylight out of me. It does not matter how much pleasure it would bring him; my mental blocks would be too strong.

On the other hand, I once dated someone who had me spank him a couple of times. I was O.K. with that and even had a little fun with it, but it was hardly a major turn-on. For him, though, it was something delightful, similar to what we tickle fans experience when engaged in our fetish.

Bottom line: If I end up in a relationship again, I'd be fine with someone who did not want to partake in tickling. Since I am not ticklish, it would be all about his being a lee, I am afraid--and no one should be forced into that if they are not O.K. with it. I want to tickle someone who would love the experience, not someone who would experience only discomfort and pain. Besides, being with someone who loves me as much as I love him is more important than a fetish, even if not being able to do it with him would be hard.

I will do everything in my power to try to have a couple of hot tickle sessions before I am in my grave, and since I am only in my 30s my last breath may be a long way off. But if it is not meant to be, then it is not meant to be. I have gotten through life this long with only brief tickles, and I am not going to worry myself sick over whether or not I can find some gay guys I trust who are into it. I will try my best.

There is, after all, much about life to enjoy. Tickling is only a part of it.

[lk70]

You know, there's something to be said about engaging in your fetish/proclivity/preference (whatever) with someone who "gets it" too. Your partner may be willing to tickle you (or be tickled) because you like it, but isn't it so much better to play with someone who feels the same way you do? Someone for whom it is a passion?

I mean, for many, one of the best parts of it is the verbal teasing, and I suspect there's little comparison there between a ler who really loves it and a ler who's just going along with it. Or how about the ler who spends a lot of time fantasizing about what to do and how to do it vs one who doesn't?

Big difference, I say.

[recycler1973]

My only contribution to all this: stay in Philadelphia, Jen. It seems to be one of the tickling capitals of the world (NEST, etc.), and you're right in the middle.

Of course, there ARE ticklers all over the world, all over the country, and all over the Northeast. (Me! Me! PICK ME!) :wavingguy

Seriously, though... you're following your heart (and your ticklish skin). Good for you.

[NJLaughs]

You know, there's something to be said about engaging in your fetish/proclivity/preference (whatever) with someone who "gets it" too. Your partner may be willing to tickle you (or be tickled) because you like it, but isn't it so much better to play with someone who feels the same way you do? Someone for whom it is a passion?

I mean, for many, one of the best parts of it is the verbal teasing, and I suspect there's little comparison there between a ler who really loves it and a ler who's just going along with it. Or how about the ler who spends a lot of time fantasizing about what to do and how to do it vs one who doesn't?

Big difference, I say.

Very definitely true. I can agree wholeheartedly with this. I have been in both situations and being tickled by someone who has the same passion is an incredible experience.

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

NJLaughs when you say you don't remember me from NEST. Are you talking about me or someone else? I met a lot of people and I am sorry but I don't remember you either. I think you are and I would like to get to know you better or at least chat online. How old are you? Just curious. Anyway, I'd like to possibly meet you in person.


:bump:

[tickleshotel]

Ticklejen,You were such a Pleasure to meet and to spend time with when we met at Motown last year in Michigan :cuddle: It was a wonderful time tickling you for awhile too,though it was brief..
I will be attending Nest this year and I hope to see you there as well and share some tickling fun ,it would be my honor to tickle you if you can squeeze some time in for me as I am sure you will be a Busy Ticklee :cool2:

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

It was great meeting you as well tickleshotel and I think I had tickled you also at Motown. Hopefully you'll be attending NEST so I'll see you again.



:xpulcy:

[tickleshotel]

It was great meeting you as well tickleshotel and I think I had tickled you also at Motown. Hopefully you'll be attending NEST so I'll see you again.



:xpulcy:

Ticklejen,I am going to be attending Nest this year ,I am all set with airfare,hotel,ect :happyfloa I am just watching the calendar now having the dates get closer :firedevil

[gxsliver]

I was just looking at old threads and I found this one. I know how a lot of you feel. I am a 23 year old male in wisconsin. I have always been a big fan of tickling, though I hate being tickled. It started when a friend's older sister let me tickle her foot a little. since then though I have not had a tickling session. I remember I first came to this site just for the clips but when I read some posts I started to like the people. It is great to know I can finally talk about my fetish. I would never dare tell anyone close to me. They would think I was weird. It is good to hear from people who are in the same situation I am. Thank you

[BigJim]

Get to NEST. Tis in your city after all (and God when I'm there, I AM GOING to run up those damn steps in my most garish gear!) so you wouldn't have to travel and you can get all your year's tickling compacted into one weekend. :D

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Get to NEST. Tis in your city after all (and God when I'm there, I AM GOING to run up those damn steps in my most garish gear!) so you wouldn't have to travel and you can get all your year's tickling compacted into one weekend. :D


I would think you were referring to me even though I have been tickled a lot since I posted this thread. However, if you still want to tickle me like crazy at NEST that's fine since I am going.


:poke3:

[BigJim]

Righty dokey skip. I'll be the neanderthal looking limey (with accent something akin to Sean Astin's in Lord of the Rings), wearing the extremely garish American flag shorts. :xpulcy:

[bugman]

I will also be at NEST Jen,pm me if you would be intrested.If not i hope we get to meet at least. :D

[ft_tklr007]

I wish i could hurry up and finish that teleportation pad I've been working on.

I also wish i new more people like you. :woot:

[Luvs2tckl]

You know, there's something to be said about engaging in your fetish/proclivity/preference (whatever) with someone who "gets it" too. Your partner may be willing to tickle you (or be tickled) because you like it, but isn't it so much better to play with someone who feels the same way you do? Someone for whom it is a passion?

I mean, for many, one of the best parts of it is the verbal teasing, and I suspect there's little comparison there between a ler who really loves it and a ler who's just going along with it. Or how about the ler who spends a lot of time fantasizing about what to do and how to do it vs one who doesn't?

Big difference, I say.


I totally agree with your statements above. It is so much better to engage with "one of our own". It makes all the difference.

Well said..

Take care,
Luvs

[paracarl44]

Here is to a lot of tickles coming your way. I already have a Commitment on NEST Day but since we are both in PA I hope that we can get together someday.