View Full Version : How many here get the enjoyment/pleasure of tickling their significant other?
shyCari
09-10-2005, 09:08 PM
Hello;
This is my first time posting here. After reading quite a few recent posts though about spouses/partners not being into tickling, I felt compelled to ask my topic question: " How many here get the enjoyment/pleasure of tickling their significant other?"
My spouse is the tickling enthusiast in our relationship. Although I don't share his love of tickling to the same degree as he does, ( I never even knew it existed before we met) he has through the years shown me how wonderful and erotic tickling is. In fact, I would say he has most assuredly hooked me on loving to have my feet and toes tickled. I also love to tickle him and bring him pleasure.
I wanted to let it be known that YES, you can find happiness in a relationship where one partner is not a ticklephile. We all have different likes and dislikes and it is possible to share those with your significant other and live happily and satisfied:)
So on a positive note, may I hear from others who get to enjoy this ?
Thanks:) :twohugs:
unit5610
09-10-2005, 10:31 PM
Congratulations on your first post! The people are great here and I'm sure you'll enjoy it.
I'm sure if my wife were into tickling it would give me great pleasure to tickle her, just as it gives me pleasure to do what she enjoys now. Being that this isn't the case I can't answer your question for sure, but her enjoyment of something certainly increases my enjoyment of it. If she were ticklish and really hated it, I wouldn't enjoy it with her much even though I love it because it would be useless if it were just making her miserable. I hope that makes sense!
daddy
09-10-2005, 11:51 PM
Hi Cari...and welcome. It is so cool of you to come here and make a post like that. It is definatley a needed read for some of the folk here. So many are convinced they will never find anyone to share their "tk" passion with and they let the years slip away. It's nice to hear from the "non-phile" perspective and it is also nice to hear you have a successful relationship :-)
Enjoy your visit, and hope ya hang around for a while
peace out,
daddy
Newcastle Uni
09-11-2005, 12:31 AM
Alas I have no-one and am all alone. So I do not have the pleasure of tickling anyone, or indeed being with anyone. Life is a bitch and I am becoming bitter and twisted. Everyone has more sex and more meaningful relationships than I do (which, considering I get none of these, is technically anyone whose ever had sex or a meanigful relationship). Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go and cry somewhere dark.
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Welcome to the forum, Cari, and congratulations on your first post. We're thrilled to have you here with us!
I am one of those fortunate enough to be in a relationship where the love for tickling is completely mutual. We actually met through the tickling community online here, and developed your typical text book fairy tale love story from there. ;)
Before meeting Mr. Wonderful, though, I was married previously to someone who was not by any means a tickle fan himself. In fact, he had only briefly tickled one ex-gf in his entire life, and despised being tickled himself. He did oblige my fetish, and willing tickle played with me....for that I will give him credit....but he never grew to honestly love it or WANT it himself, so I always felt like I was forcing him to participate.
That doesn't sound like the case with you, though, and I give you all the credit in the world for being open minded enough to explore this fetish with your S.O. Not many are willing to do that. You're a prized commodity in this community. Be proud. :)
Mimi
Ray<3tiklishft
09-11-2005, 07:48 AM
Welcome Cari!
All I'll say is:
Mr. Shy is one lucky guy!!!
killedbyanangel
09-11-2005, 08:59 AM
I'm a tickle fetishist and my girlfriend is not and we have an excellent relationship. She allows me to indulge in my fetish with her and I try my damndest to meet all her needs as well. She's come to really enjoy being tickled and I've come to really enjoy doing naughty things with her :devil:.
Welcome to the forum!
I was introduced to this community, and that led to meeting my fiance, kwildoctr. He tickles me regularly...irregularly...endlessly...happily. :lovestory
I would tickle him, but he's a 'ler, damn it. :p
knight
09-11-2005, 04:14 PM
Welcome! My wife happens to be insanely ticklish. She also really hates it. I've confessed my fetish to her, and god bless the woman, she has never thought I was perverted or weird. She's even let me tickle her sometimes because she knows how much pleasure it brings me. But I always keep it light, because I want her to enjoy it, not be miserable. Now I wouldn't say she's a ticklephile now, but over the years she's become more comfortable with tickling.
shyCari
09-16-2005, 03:25 PM
just wanted to say thanks to all who responded for a warm welcome and your great replies:) Always nice to hear others input and perspective:) :redheart:
TickledToDeath
09-16-2005, 06:01 PM
ALL the time and vise versa too! :woot:
TTD
M˙TicklingStudios
09-16-2005, 09:37 PM
All I can say is.... significant or otherwise, yes!
I'd tickle the waitress at the restaurant if it were socially acceptable! :evilha:
Luv2Tickle69
09-16-2005, 09:44 PM
Hi Cari! In answer to your question...most of my significant others in my past knew precious little about what most of us tickle lovers have known most of our lives.....such experiences are truly a case-by-case basis.....but I gotta admit...MOST of my partners in my time managed to develop a full-blown appreciation for being tickled (esp. along their feet), and relished being able to tickle mine (or elsewhere).
.....I've heard this statement a few times...."...I don't know...you've made a monster outta me!!!" :D
...and WELCOME to the TMF!!!! :bouncybou
isabeau
09-16-2005, 10:17 PM
Alas I have no-one and am all alone. So I do not have the pleasure of tickling anyone, or indeed being with anyone. Life is a bitch and I am becoming bitter and twisted. Everyone has more sex and more meaningful relationships than I do (which, considering I get none of these, is technically anyone whose ever had sex or a meanigful relationship). Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go and cry somewhere dark.
rofl now that i refuse to believe newcastle my buddy my pal.
as for the question nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo my husband will not and can not satisfy my ticklish fetish, and congrats on your first post.
isabeau
narin
09-17-2005, 04:12 AM
2.5 years and I have to answer with a
HELL YES! :bouncybou
Welcome Cari
My wife has pretty much always allowed me to tickle her and yet just recently (over 20 yrs of marriage) has let me tie her and tickle her. This surprised me because she isn't a true ticklee...she does enjoy having her feet "tickled lightly" but doesn't Love It like some of the people here at TMF.
I am strictly a 'Ler and I'm really not that ticklish...although I do have my moments...but she is definitley on the submissive side and I am on the Dominant side so that is really what defines our tickling activities. It is nice to have someone that allows me to satisfy my "kink" .
scorpionldr
09-17-2005, 09:04 AM
well, i'm single, so i guess i don't get to enjoy that pleasure yet
SYELLA
09-17-2005, 08:50 PM
I enjoy tickling my girlfriend's foot bottoms .Took her awhile to get used to my fetish, now she can't get enough.I'll tie her spead eagled to the bed and tickle her head to toe. Her toes are her weak spots.Just hold 'em back and nibble away.I'll take a feather and saw it between her left pinkey toe which drives her crazy.Then she gets her turn to tickle me.My weak spots are my pits and the joint at the hip.I have to beg her to stop.She loves It, but Is very shy about our fetish. :p
AffectionateDan
09-18-2005, 08:04 PM
After getting paroled from a life sentence with one of the most ticklish women on the planet who HATED it, and made me feel like a pervert if it ever happened, I discovered the community and found that not only was I not alone in this, but there are actually people who love to BE tickled as much as I love to tickle. How freakin' cool is that? Everybody should have someone who appreciates the attentions you want to lavish upon them. Now, I've got me a honeybunny who loves being tickled as much as I love tickling her,
and Life Is Good.
Here's to the rest of you finding your own playmate to share this with!
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