FYI here are the rules we posted in house. DM is Dungeon monitor.
The DM decision is law, listen to your DM.
The default safeword is red unless the lee says otherwise.
Yellow means slow down.
There is to be no using of illegal substances or underage drinking.
No play while under the influence. Generally play happens at random times so in general the gathering is dry. Later in the evening if you want A drink that is not an issue.
Non-consensual tickling or touching is not allowed. If in doubt ask. You may see people touching/tickling someone without asking. Many of us know each other well so we play and touch at various times.
No means no. At any time, even among friends it is okay to say NO.
If no is not working or there is a serious issue do not confront seek a DM immediately.
The lee (bottom) controls the scene unless other arrangements are made.
Please let all know who are playing any off limit areas that are off limits (e.g. you had knee surgery), or of any medical conditions (e.g. asthma).
No sexual play. Sexual is a very loose term. Easiest to say is the genital region is off limits even in private sessions. Breast/chest play in a room with general consent is okay. Please note the host rooms are available. However if we need something from the room we reserve the right to enter, knocking first.
Closed door means private session. Do not interrupt suffice it to say you can knock and verify it is occupied.
No lower-body nudity allowed without approval of the ENTIRE room. You may use a private area for this.
No upper body nudity for women allowed without approval of the ENTIRE room. You may use a private area for this.
You may use a room for private play, let a DM know.
Don't know? Better ask. It's preferable that you bring a swimsuit if you wish to disrobe to any extreme. Other suggestible clothing includes loose tops and loose slacks. Alternate bottoms include shorts, and even skirts can work. You WILL warn the host, so they can prepare the room.
No leaving a trail of 5 or 6 half empty diet or regular soda cans.
The white fridge is the party fridge.
Toys on the table downstairs are for general use.
If you leave something behind let me know I’ll help you get it back.
Keep front curtains closed during play time.
Absolutely NO playing in the kitchen during food preparations and/or cooking.
NO playing while standing at the food table, it is an accident waiting to happen.
Common sense is your friend.
Make sure to give after care to your lee (the bottom).
If it isn’t your rope, don’t cut it up. Medical or other emergencies are an exception!
The colored plastic cups are drinking cups for the lees for easy liquid access during play.
No zombies allowed, no matter how cute.
And D' will get a real massage from me once I have both hands working.
Big hugs for Bagelfather and Starfires for opening your home to us. And Bagel - I'm happy to be your left-hand woman (though what that right hand of yours was doing, I really couldn't tell you).
