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YouDontKnowMe
02-09-2006, 02:04 AM
I told him. Some of you may know what im talking about. :couch:
He said he is not really into it because its not "Sexual", but that if I want him to tie me up and have him tickle me he would. He said he wants to do what makes me happy and if that makes me happy...he will do it!
My next question, is how can I make it a sexual thing? How can I make him do it because HE wants to and not just because it makes me happy?? :xpulcy:
-YDKM-
Redmage
02-09-2006, 02:54 AM
Well, you can't MAKE him do it because he wants to. But you might be able to help him. The key is to make sure that there's something in it for him. Since the tickling isn't a turn on in and of itself then you need to see to it that he gets something out of it that he does enjoy.
That might be as simple as enjoying making you happy. If you make it clear to him just how turned on all of this is making you, I don't know many men who can resist that.
I told him. Some of you may know what im talking about. :couch:
He said he is not really into it because its not "Sexual", but that if I want him to tie me up and have him tickle me he would. He said he wants to do what makes me happy and if that makes me happy...he will do it!
My next question, is how can I make it a sexual thing? How can I make him do it because HE wants to and not just because it makes me happy?? :xpulcy:
-YDKM-
LindyHopper
02-09-2006, 03:02 AM
You know, I'll bet that once he sees for himself how happy it makes you, it'll make him happy, too. I'm married to a non-ticklephile, but he enjoys tickling me because it turns me on, and that leads to good things for him. ;) I expect tickling will become a sexual thing for your guy too, once he makes the connection.
ExtrmlyTickLish
02-09-2006, 04:06 AM
I think bondage and tickling can be very sexual in itself but if you really want to make it sexual then reward him afterwards for making you happy by doing something that will make him happy as well.
Ticklerguy4u
02-09-2006, 04:33 AM
Congradulations! I knew he come through..
Yep, once you show him that it turns you on..it now becomes a sexual thing. Right now he is probably just taking your word for it. The proof is in the pudding. That's the funny thing about us guys..we would want our ladies to watch Lifetime all day if we knew it would lead to some luvin'.
billyroode
02-09-2006, 07:28 AM
you can always keep looking for someone who really wants to restrain and tickle you
chtkl34
02-09-2006, 07:33 AM
Congratulations on taking the first and hardest step in telling them. I know from experience how hard that can be. Now comes the easy part. Like the others, I'm sure once he sees your reactions and how much fun you're having, he'll enjoy himself too.
I applaud your courageousness and wish you nothing but the best.
CH
Ticklerguy4u
02-09-2006, 09:01 AM
Would you be interested in sharing the details?
isabeau
02-09-2006, 09:28 AM
thats great at least you told him and made that first step. i would let him tie and tickle you and i do believe that when he sees you squirming and begging him it just might be the key to turning him on. just a thought
isabeau
stloldg
02-09-2006, 12:25 PM
I say have him give you a screaming orgasm,
he can do the sexual stuff he likes, when it's for you to cum he starts tickling you. which give you the tickling your want.
It's a win, win
I told him. Some of you may know what im talking about. :couch:
He said he is not really into it because its not "Sexual", but that if I want him to tie me up and have him tickle me he would. He said he wants to do what makes me happy and if that makes me happy...he will do it!
My next question, is how can I make it a sexual thing? How can I make him do it because HE wants to and not just because it makes me happy?? :xpulcy:
-YDKM-
GirlWhoLikes2Laugh
02-09-2006, 01:00 PM
Congrats! I am glad that he is willing to tie you up and tickle you. However, you may have to do a some work in order for him to get turned on by tickling. I know I don't know him well obviously but I am rather surprised that he doesn't think tickling is sexual because I thought tickling was sexual for most people.
Oh well it's a good first step! Please keep us posted but only if you want.
Congratulations! Hopefully when he sees how arousing and wonderful it is for you, it will automatically get him geared up to do it more often and find it more appealing!
Reward him with the best sex he's ever had afterward. THAT should be good incentive! :D
Mimi ;)
OBleedingMe
02-09-2006, 01:20 PM
Well, he may never feel the same way about tickling as you do, but he'll enjoy for other reasons - like how sexual you act after the fact.
Good to hear it worked out!
milagros317
02-09-2006, 03:46 PM
After he's tied you up and tickled you, when he unties you, just fall all over him, saying "That really got me excited!" and screw his brains out. He will soon learn that it is a fine thing to do. :D
lovethemaster22
02-09-2006, 05:50 PM
Hmmm. Try being tied in bed with a 2-piece bikini. Encourage him to tickle you &, halfway through or so, untie the knots to your bikini. That should increase his sexual attention to you.
Kevin
YouDontKnowMe
02-10-2006, 02:57 AM
Would you be interested in sharing the details?
Sure. As soon as we actually do it, I don't mind sharing the details. :dog:
-YDKM-
YouDontKnowMe
02-10-2006, 02:59 AM
:bubble: After he's tied you up and tickled you, when he unties you, just fall all over him, saying "That really got me excited!" and screw his brains out. He will soon learn that it is a fine thing to do. :D
I loved everyones advice but yours seems the easiest to do. Thanks a lot!!
Ticklerguy4u
02-10-2006, 03:07 AM
After he's tied you up and tickled you, when he unties you, just fall all over him, saying "That really got me excited!" and screw his brains out. He will soon learn that it is a fine thing to do.
:bubble:
I loved everyones advice but yours seems the easiest to do. Thanks a lot!!
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