Something that has irked me lately..

[Iluv2Btickled]

Is it just me, or are lot of these threads directed at women only? When I see a thread that has a question directed at women only, and is usually asked by a guy, I think of a guy who added a question, just to help him with his fantasies and something else for the guy to drool over. Now, this is just how I feel. I personally get slightly irritated when I see a thread or the opening question start with " Ladies, do your feet" or " Women, are you ticklish...." or " Ladies, what happens if...". To show you what I mean:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=72280

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=30004

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=72511

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=73954

And of course...

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=55885

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=61404

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=63786

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=63813

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=64461

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=64474

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=63814

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=65380

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=67773

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=68405

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=70213

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=70196

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=70726

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=72039


Dont get me wrong, some of these questions can be good questions, but I cant help but get the impression that they are asked to simply have something to for the guy to "beat the meat" to.

I'm done ranting now.

[Squeechan]

Y'know, now that you mention it... There -are- an awful lot of those around here...

Darn males. Tsk tsk. :sowrong:

[kis123]

You know something....

You may be right! Or you may not be. Some of the threads you referred to seem like innocent questions, and some seem like they may be knocking themselves out per response.

As long as I don't have to wake up next to them, all is well in my world! This is a fetish website after all and many view tickling as a sexual activity. You're going to run into stuff like this sometimes. It's like cable tv-if you don't like what's playing, you need to change the channel. And believe me, I change channels a lot!!

[MrPartickler]

LOL. Yeah those are funny.

Sometimes I think there is a genuine curiosity. Other times, for some, I think it's just a way to get attention and responses from ladies on the board--particularly those that have a specific shared interest or quaility. It could also make things easier to follow-up with them if a conversation is initiated.

So ladies....which do you prefer: mustard or ketchup? :p

[Mz Chaos]

It depends on if we're talking about which condiment is being applied to which toes.... I'd prefer mustard on my left....

[Mitchell]

I'm a guy, of course, and yes, I have noticed this. I guess this is personal preference for whoever is posting these threads. Personally, while I could post many thoughts to those I want to communicate with on public forum, I feel it best to communicate whatever I want to discuss or ask in pm on forum, or pc in chat. This way, whatever information is exchanged betweeen myself, and whoever else on forum, is private between us, and doesnt get divulged to anyone else, unless the individual in question chooses to.
As I said, Iam in no way criticizing the people posting such threads, either starting them, or posting in them, because this is their peroggative. I personally just prefer, for myself, making an "I" statement now, to discuss such information in pc or pm, so that whatever info exchanged between me and whatever other individual I happen to be communicating with, stays between me and that person, unless they choose to share it with others. End of sermon!

Mitch

[dtrell]

iluv2btickled...you going to make the michigan party this time?

[steph]

Well folks~Aren't us femmes generally thought of as "meat beating material" for guys anyhoo? :manicd: I mean, it's not like it's indigenous to a fetish forum like TMF... ;)
XOXO

[isabeau]

Well folks~Aren't us femmes generally thought of as "meat beating material" for guys anyhoo? :manicd: I mean, it's not like it's indigenous to a fetish forum like TMF... ;)
XOXO


well said steph.

isabeau

[steph]

I just calls 'em likes I sees 'em honey! :smilelove
XOXO

well said steph.

isabeau

[Ticklerguy4u]

okay so before the male bashing begins. :whip: It seems that most of threads are from one guy.

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Geez talk about making a mountain out of a molehill. :shake:

[steph]

O no guys~no male bashing intended~not from me anyhoo~I ADORE my men!
Mmmmmmm....
I was just stating something my brothers taught me when I was a kid... :D

XOXO

[FlockOfSeagulls]

sorry steph i didn`t mean your post i meant this whole thread in general. :Kiss2:

[Ticklejohn1957]

Steph wrote:


Is it just me, or are lot of these threads directed at women only? When I see a thread that has a question directed at women only, and is usually asked by a guy, I think of a guy who added a question, just to help him with his fantasies and something else for the guy to drool over. Now, this is just how I feel. I personally get slightly irritated when I see a thread or the opening question start with " Ladies, do your feet" or " Women, are you ticklish...." or " Ladies, what happens if...".

Dont get me wrong, some of these questions can be good questions, but I cant help but get the impression that they are asked to simply have something to for the guy to "beat the meat" to.


And your "beef" with that is......?

JT

[steph]

Try paying attention john~you just slammed the wrong girl. Go back and re-read the entire thread, m-kay? :mad:

O no prob flock~some gals are just very sensitive about this issue. I think it all comes with territory sweetie... :wub:
XOXO

Steph wrote:
And your "beef" with that is......?

JT

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Her name is Rio and she dances on the sand;just like that river twisting through a dusty land

[Ticklerguy4u]

Well if it makes the girls feel any better. We guys can pretty much "beat the meat" to a poster. so don't take it personal...(just joking)

:imouttahe

[steph]

You ROCK flock! :wub:

Oh and I know Ticklerguy4u~I tell ya what~the day the guys DON'T wanna to me, I'm calling Doc Kevorkian! ;)
XOXO

[Ticklerguy4u]

I tell ya what~the day the guys DON'T wanna to me, I'm calling Doc Kevorkian! ;)
XOXO

A very healthy way to look at it.

[steph]

LOL~thanx, you're sweet. I just think it's reality, yanno? :D

I mean you see all these overpaid, under-talented celebs whining about being chased by paparazzi. I'm like, "F-you and suck it up, you castaway from Idiot Island..." It goes with the territory, right? Be glad SOMEONE finds you fascinating...
XOXO

A very healthy way to look at it.

[Ticklerguy4u]

Yeah! You gals are sexy in ticklish little ways and we like it.

We could run away in terror.

[steph]

(opens her eyes widely despite her sleepiness and 4:30 am wakeup call..)
But what happens if we want you to stay and keep going? :angel:
XOXO

Yeah! You gals are sexy in ticklish little ways and we like it.

We could run away in terror.

[Ticklerguy4u]

(opens her eyes widely despite her sleepiness and 4:30 am wakeup call..)
But what happens if we want you to stay and keep going? :angel:
XOXO

If your asking THAT, sexy, you're more tired than you thought. I said, WE could....not we WOULD... :evilha:


Her name is Rio and she dances on the sand;just like that river twisting through a dusty land

I want to play along too!
Her name was Lola, she was a showgirl....it's the Coca..the Cocabaaaana..

Is it just me, or are lot of these threads directed at women only?

I can understand why Iluv would be upset though, however I believe that most of the questions here are gender neutral and just a few guys on here are interested in using the thread as personal information.

[chrisheaven]

Sorry not to have replied to this thread earlier--too busy beating meat
(prime beef in my case-yeah right!! lol)

[isabeau]

Sorry not to have replied to this thread earlier--too busy beating meat
(prime beef in my case-yeah right!! lol)
'

omg you man you lololol and i agree again with steph

isabeau

[chrisheaven]

me too actually :happyfloa :wavingguy :wavingguy :wavingguy :wavingguy :wavingguy :bouncybou

[lk70]

And why has no one suggested that maybe once in awhile the girls might use some of the guys as fantasy material too? Huh? Huh? Why is that?

[isabeau]

And why has no one suggested that maybe once in awhile the girls might use some of the guys as fantasy material too? Huh? Huh? Why is that?


yipeeeeeeee i agree. of course we can and do uh not that i do of course

isabeau :evilha:

[The Sean Man]

And why has no one suggested that maybe once in awhile the girls might use some of the guys as fantasy material too? Huh? Huh? Why is that?


ABSOLUTELY! I mean...just LOOK at my siggy...how could a woman say no to that :jester: :jester: :jester:

[FlockOfSeagulls]

we want names :bowing:

[chrisheaven]

we want pictures lol

[isabeau]

you two are asking for it i mean really now. didnt i just get thru saying that i am not one of those who fantasize?????????? lol

isabeau :firedevil

[The Sean Man]

And.....(to sound like a newbie here, but...)...how about some free clips? :whip:

[steph]

Hee!
You cutie! :redheart:
XOXO

PS~and good call lk! :justlips:

If your asking THAT, sexy, you're more tired than you thought. I said, WE could....not we WOULD... :evilha:

[tkl-pen]

To tell the truth, I rarely if ever look at those threads - I do understand, though, that they are very likely asked by a male tickler who feels that every ticklee in his world, his fantasy, will be female - so perhaps the questions are innocent and truly of interest - perhaps not, as Stephanie feels.

[Iluv2Btickled]

Ok.. I know I started the thread, but now I'm confused by it cuz of the soo many mini convo's within it...

To remind people, I'm not hating, or bashing any of the people that start those threads. Just like those people have the right to start them, I have the right to say how much I'm slightly annoyed by the quantity of them. lol.

Continue with your lives. :p

Oh and dtrell, I'm not sure about the Michigan thing. I need details, info, location how will I get there how will I get home...etc. You got somethin for me?

[natural tickler]

Oh and dtrell, I'm not sure about the Michigan thing. I need details, info, location how will I get there how will I get home...etc. You got somethin for me?


Iluv2b,

if you need info on the party, email Sadira at motownparty@hotmail.com, and she will give ya all the info you need. Hope to see ya there

[FlockOfSeagulls]

dang, would hate to see YOU REALLY annoyed.run for the hills

[Fire Sprite]

Yeah, most of Quantum's posts are like that. He's not much better in the chat.

[steph]

Well little String Queen~I try not to take that stuff too seriously, yanno? :blaugh: I mean it's all in good fun, right? Which is why I answer them. And I think some of them are genuinely curious in case anyone gets the wrong idea~I don't think every guy that poses these questions is monkey spanking to our answers...
XOXO

To remind people, I'm not hating, or bashing any of the people that start those threads. Just like those people have the right to start them, I have the right to say how much I'm slightly annoyed by the quantity of them. lol.

Continue with your lives. :p

[Ticklerguy4u]

And why has no one suggested that maybe once in awhile the girls might use some of the guys as fantasy material too? Huh? Huh? Why is that?

And yet another post that gives the reason for us guys to stop being "Master of Our Domain".... :happyfloa

[aun_existe_amor]

And why has no one suggested that maybe once in awhile the girls might use some of the guys as fantasy material too? Huh? Huh? Why is that?

Oh I do, I DO !!!!!!! :blaugh:

[Ticklerguy4u]

Oh I do, I DO !!!!!!! :blaugh:

Oh alright. If you insist you can use me as a personal fantasy, but be gentle.

[aun_existe_amor]

Oh alright. If you insist you can use me as a personal fantasy, but be gentle.

LOL I can't make any promises :evilha: :evilha: :evilha:

[lk70]

Oh alright. If you insist you can use me as a personal fantasy, but be gentle.

Some people do have intriguing things in their signature lines....I'm pretty sure I heard "be still...I'm coming to...." in my dreams last night. :blush:

[Ticklerguy4u]

Some people do have intriguing things in their signature lines....I'm pretty sure I heard "be still...I'm coming to...." in my dreams last night. :blush:

You forgot the most intriging part...TO TICKLE YOU.