I ask her out

jakobmobley123 · Oct 28, 2006

I got the chance to ask her out this week so I took it. I kind of wish I hadn't
well turns out she has a boyfriend for the last five months. The way she made it sound if she didn't have a boyfriend she would have went out with me.

So you think I should wait and tell they break up and ask again.

jakobmobley123 · Oct 31, 2006

Now It's totally possible that you don't meet anyone you like and are still stuck on this one. In this case It still helps to have been dating other girls because now in her mind she thinks you're over her and might not see her in that way anymore. Now you can make friends with her if she's still in the relationship and she won't feel threatened by you. (Obviously if she becomes single before this jump on it right away.) You might be asking "Why would I make friends with her?" ..Well here's why. If you become friends with her while she's still in the relationship you guys can get to know one another and build a connection. More importantly you can figure out wiether you're still into her. Now if she ever breaks up with her BF you're the guy she'll turn to. (I find that women that like relationships CAN'T BARE THE THOUGHT OF NOT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. They feel naked so when they break up with someone they usually jump into someone elses arms for security. Just make sure you're not just a rebound guy.) I don't condone this but there is also a chance of something "just happening" one night when you 2 are hanging out while she's still with her bf. Again.. it's possible but I would advise against it.

First Off thanks for the advice, I kind am already friends with her. But there is one problem I don't have much time becasue next term she is going to another college in MO. So I won't get to see her and I don't know if I can get a girlfriend by the end of this year. The reason being ever sense I started getting these feelings, none of the other girls compare to casey.

So when you say in the plan No big conversations for the first week or two. You mean after I ask her right? Also what would over doing it be?

jakobmobley123 · Nov 2, 2006

By the way I only see her at school on Wednesday. The reason I want to start a relationship with her is because I love her. She is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with.

FS_Dante · Dec 5, 2006

lol...man with a plan i'd have to agree with meanie, time to let go brother, as much as people hate hearing this cause i sure do, theres plenty of fish in the sea

Texas_Tickle · Dec 17, 2006

jakobmobley123 said:
I got the chance to ask her out this week so I took it. I kind of wish I hadn't
well turns out she has a boyfriend for the last five months. The way she made it sound if she didn't have a boyfriend she would have went out with me.

So you think I should wait and tell they break up and ask again.

Hell no, don't wait. Go out and play the field, brother. You never know who you could be missing out on, all because you're waiting for another chick to decide if she wants to give you the time of day or not.

I ask her out

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