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so, I met this guy recently on FetLife, and we really hit it off. y'know, we sent voice messages to each other and we teased one another - it was swell.

I was really hoping this one would be different! and it seemed like it for a while.

but the more we talked, the more he was showing the same patterns as the other guys before. he didn't really care much for what I wanted, or my needs, he just saw me as an item for his sexual gratification.

we all do this, obviously. we're a bunch of lonely folks, with a kink that holds a lot of shame. we're especially touch starved during the pandemic. we latch onto the people who give us the satisfaction we desire so badly.

but it just fucking blows when even though you try to please someone, and they just keep using you. maybe this just sounds really bitchy and like I'm just complaining, but being a girl in the community can just straight up suck sometimes.
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    Doesn't sound bitchy at all. There is literally zero bitch in this post. I guess a lot hinges on what exactly you mean by you trying to please this guy (and presumably those before him, as you mentioned patterns and the only constant is you yourself). Were your conversations usually sex / fetish based and led by him? Because that's likely what they'll come to associate you with if so. I know I definitely would have in years gone by. Want a hot tickle talk? Go to ticklishkai. Want a meaningful conversation where you feel a connection beyond sexual with someone? Go somewhere else. And that's if they ever wanted anything like that in the first place.

    Did you speak to him specifically about feeling used?
    I'm really sorry that such an experience happened to you, kai

    The guy who did that to you is not worth your time.

    I know that is easier said than done.

    Maybe it s how many years I've been a member of this forum. (Almost 18 now as you can see from my profile).

    My philosophy is this.

    Even if there is a little tickle talk or some cyber tickling at some point.

    Treat people with decency,. and behave as if I'm just chatting with them, and as if they are my friend.

    If it leads to something more than such at some point. Excellent. If not, friends is good.

    To me , a friend means, it is mandatory that one considers the other person's feelings, and not just their own.

    You sound like a really open, excellent person. (I'm not just saying that to patronize you , I'm summizing it from what I read in your post. )

    (Excuse me if I' m rambling a bit, its 130 am here, and I'm a bit tired as I' m writing this. )

    I think you see what I'm trying to say here.

    I'm hopeful that very soon, you will meet/talk to someone who will treat you as you deserve to be treated, and it will lead to what you want.

    Good Luck to you, and take care.
    Updated 08-15-2020 at 10:21 PM by Mitchell
    Ya so many pigs out there like that..I hope you find a good one that will treat you the way you deserve to..like a woman