Why do you bitch that there are no women into tickling?

[Backstep]

me4o, then the answer to your problem is obvious... just move to America; it's where all the cool people are, anyway.

On a slightly more serious note, I've recently noticed a somewhat higher-than-average number of threads and posts about creepy guys, guys with one or two posts who PM random women, or ask for tickling sessions withough a word of previous conversation, etc.

The fact that the TMF has also recently topped 100K members is probably not a coincidence. A certain percentage of people here will unfortunately be socially inadept or perpetual lurkers or mentally unstable or just plain 'creepy' for lack of a better word. And the higher the number of members, the higher the number of that sort who also join up. And alerting them or negotiating with them won't be terribly successful, I don't think. If they're creeps, they won't be coming to general discussion in the first place much, for example.

Fortunately, people like that can always be put on ignore. The difficulty is the private message thing. Perhaps the default for signing up should be to not receive them until newbies can get a handle on how this place operates. That way, the next woman who arrives won't get 25 unwanted PM's by guys who have posted twice in four years.

 

[badreligion]

 

[Backstep]

Er, thanks?

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I got mad because there was no wommins online for me to cyberfuck no matter how many long hours I spent stalking bitches.

So I went out to the store and I saw this thing with titties and I was like talking to her and shit and we went to Outback and came back to my house and she let me tickle her feets for a little bit and then we sexed.

And now I'm here stalking again but there is no wommins again. It's a disturbing and frightening development, yet I see no correlation.

 

[Fire_Sprite]

I went on FetLife. The only girls who had "tickling" marked as an interest pretty much put down everything else as well. I can't accommodate a woman with 98 turn ons.

I also went to a munch. A couple brought their kid. That was kind of uncomfortable.

 

[Backstep]

Brought their kid??

 

[Fire_Sprite]

I probably should have said baby. Too young to know what was going on, but it was still weird to be talking about BDSM right next to it.

 

[me4o]

Backstep, I don't know why, but I have a serious gut feeling that one day I'll find myself in the USA. You never know what life will serve you, and I think it might be an interesting adventure. Only time will tell

 

[asutickler]

Women? Into TICKLING?!

...Preposterous!

 

[Frowg]

1 > 0

We do exist. I'm a single female. If a guy who wasn't a douche,
and was intelligent, asked me on a date, I'd likely say yes! Just
sayin.



edit: extremely lopsided

Just so I know for sure, what exactly constitutes douchie behavior? I live in constant fear of being a douche, and would really like to avoid it.

 

[Frowg]

What she said. Thankfully I have managed to meet and play with some guys off here that weren't creeps and actually thought with their brains and less with their penis!

...but my penis does all the GOOD thinking!!!

 

[Speedbump]

FetLife is ok...

I went there, talked to a couple people that were tickle interested, but not into tickling as a primary fetish.

Mostly bigger women who wanted to dominate me, with some tickling thrown into the mix.

Nothing ever really came of it, and I got bored and stopped going.

 

[Mephistopheles]

1 > 0

We do exist. I'm a single female. If a guy who wasn't a douche,
and was intelligent, asked me on a date, I'd likely say yes! Just
sayin.



edit: extremely lopsided

Hello,

I believe I'm not a douche, I might have a bit of brain left, would you like to go on a date with me?

Sincerely yours,

Meph

 

[Mephistopheles]

If you believe that, you've never been on CollarMe.

@MrMacphisto - give it a try, it's pretty cool.

I tried it, but I couldn't find a way to search for preferences, needles, haystacks and a lack of motivation, and then I quit Fetlife.

 

[Bohemianne]

They bitch about it because they come across the f@ggots of the forum. The real active women around here are too awesome to crash with both hands. The End.

 

[maniactickler]

Ladies, im tossing my hat into the arena. im now available for all your tickling needs! just email me at your convenience. thank you.

 

[texastickler]

Thank. You.

I understand when people say they are afraid of going to gatherings, but I really can't imagine a better way to meet females. The ones attending obviously WANT to meet people. And the majority of people who post in the personals say, "Hey, I'm a ____ year old male and love tickling. Hit me up if you're a lee. TICKLE TICKLE HAR HAR HAR!!!" It says absolutely NOTHING about you, and you have all of 3 other posts, all 3 posts bumping your original personal post, wondering why no one responded. Believe it or not, we like to know what we're getting into.

This! Way to go!

 

[Driver Ed]

"Why do you bitch that there are no women into tickling?"

You'll never hear me bitching about that. But come on, is it any worse than bitching about people who deny being creepy? Is it any worse than bitching about people responding to gathering threads to say they can't or won't be going?

 

[TropicThunder]

I probably should have said baby. Too young to know what was going on, but it was still weird to be talking about BDSM right next to it.

See, I brought my son to a munch before, but we we hold munches, its more like a group of friends just hanging out. We're not usually all talking about tickling the whole time, and my son is still too young to understand.

That being said, I'm still looking into babysitters. ASAP.

*sigh*

now I feel lame.

 

[tickmankyle1]

to me a munch is not as much about tickling as it is hanging with friends. If all you go to a gathering to do is tickling that is sad cause then you could miss out on meeting some great people. I have been weirded out by guys at a gathering before and i'm a guy. So just cause you are a women or girl does not mean you can't be weirded out or creeped out at a gathering. On here i just try to mean new friends male or female and if tickling ever were to happen that is a bonus. I just hate people who only want tickling and bitch at gatherings. Like ok it is 11 am where is the play. I didn't come to a gathering to sit and talk or watch football and hang out I can do that at home. It just bothers me

 

[john getty]

They bitch about it because they come across the f@ggots of the forum. The real active women around here are too awesome to crash with both hands. The End.

I'm not sure if that's just your sense of humour, if not, what a contemptible thing to say. I've received PMs from a number of gay people (who for some reason won't admit they are) for tickle sessions. They're all within my local area, unfortunately they're all men. I politely tell them to keep looking and move on, but I can't help feeling dismayed that there don't seem to be any English females here.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

"Why do you bitch that there are no women into tickling?"

You'll never hear me bitching about that. But come on, is it any worse than bitching about people who deny being creepy? Is it any worse than bitching about people responding to gathering threads to say they can't or won't be going?

Yes, it is worse, and this is why:

People really do respond to gathering threads to say they can't
come. It's annoying to me, so I bitched about it.

People really do deny being creepy, when they are creepy, and
it's annoying, so I bitched about it.

Bitching that there are no women makes you a fucktard, because
the truth is, there are plenty of women here. You just have to not
be stupid and socially inept so that you can interact with them.

Hello,

I believe I'm not a douche, I might have a bit of brain left, would you like to go on a date with me?

Sincerely yours,

Meph

I'd be honored, where are we going?

 

[Driver Ed]

Yes, it is worse, and this is why:

People really do respond to gathering threads to say they can't
come. It's annoying to me, so I bitched about it.

People really do deny being creepy, when they are creepy, and
it's annoying, so I bitched about it.

Bitching that there are no women makes you a fucktard, because
the truth is, there are plenty of women here. You just have to not
be stupid and socially inept so that you can interact with them.

So bitching about the things that annoy you and calling people fucktards is your idea of social grace?

When a guy says, "Man I wish I could find a woman on this forum to tickle" it usually means one of two things. Most of the time it means there are no available women that are near to wherever he lives. The rest of the time he usually means there are little to no attractive women on the forum that are single and available.

I've never heard a guy express a belief that there are no women on the TMF. If I did, I would think he's inaccurate, but I wouldn't flame him for it.

 

[Bohemianne]

I'm not sure if that's just your sense of humour, if not, what a contemptible thing to say.

Aw... my apologies for that. It's a half-baked sarcasm. I was more referring to hideous dudes of the forum who pretend to be females. While it is harmless, at times it could be destructive.

To illustrate further, I remember a thread about a dude who came out of the closet with a bad press release here admitting how he pretended to be a female. He was badly flamed. This pretense cloud the perception it makes for real ladies around here who are not into other side motives. Like I said it can be harmless, but if he interacts around in a bad manner, sweeping boyfriends or girlfriends, making fool out of them for fun, then it is creating havoc.

Well, I've come to terms that any statistics on female/male ratio around here is lame.

 

[GQguy]

So bitching about the things that annoy you and calling people fucktards is your idea of social grace?

When a guy says, "Man I wish I could find a woman on this forum to tickle" it usually means one of two things. Most of the time it means there are no available women that are near to wherever he lives. The rest of the time he usually means there are little to no attractive women on the forum that are single and available.

I've never heard a guy express a belief that there are no women on the TMF. If I did, I would think he's inaccurate, but I wouldn't flame him for it.

You articulated my initial reaction to reading the thread perfectly. Thanks.

GQ