That's No Good To Hear About Your Wife My Brother.
If You Love Her, You Should Fight For Her. It Doesn't Sound Like She Is A Willing Participant In The Sense That His Energy Is Overpowering Her.
And If He Has A Wife, That's Absolute Bullshit, He Shouldn't Be Pulling This Shit On Her!
You Should Try To Wake Her Up To The Kind Of Ass He Really Is.
Good Luck My Brother.