If you're looking me up because I'm currently in the chat room - then yes I will usually respond to private chats. Buuuut, I'm not a good choice if you're after assistance with stoking some fantasy or other.
In person, I do tickling scenes with guys fairly often. It's not intended to be exclusively m/m, I'm just not going to jump though a million hoops to expand my horizons!
Peeps in my home town - I am open to saying Hi. I tend not to bug anyone whom I think (based on posts content) is operating in a 'males free zone'.