And one more thing!
Also like Chicago wrote, there are a lot of negative connotations associated with the word fetish. For whatever reason there are a boat load of ignorant stereotypes that go hand in hand with having a kink that permeate "vanilla" culture.
And another thing I realized is...
It sounds like you've got a lot of insight into yourself and your concern already which is a big step to being able to totally accept who you are.
And Chicago is absolutely right. I obsessed for years which was completely unhealthy but I'm finally starting to lose the shame I felt for so...
Thanks! And you're absolutely right.
But I figured that since at this point I don't have a steady lee I may as well commission a "one-size-fits-all" set. Since I'm not a big guy I just used my measurements for the wrist and ankle holes. This way most women will be able to fit it them...
So I don't normally post anything but I'm so excited about my new toy and the craftsmanship that was involved in constructing it that I really feel the need to share some love.
A few months ago I contacted some local toy builders on FetLife and commissioned a set of sitting stocks. The finished...