I constantly wonder what they're like, and from my experience, most of the women here who wears nylons, generally always shoeplay, while standing around or sitting down. Hardly any of my friends wear 'em, I really wish they would. ._.
Personally, I find that if the story itself is immersive and very well written, both perspectives are awesome. I like the feeling of helplessness, or joy, from the 'lee, but the view of dominance from the 'ler is equally as entertaining.