Ticklish Lee with non-Ticklish Ler

Tickleslave83 · Mar 25, 2008

I'm a major lee and the idea has strong appeal to me. It's fun to tickle girls sometimes but really what I'd most like is to have a partner who is extremely into tickling guys but is not herself ticklish. The reason I like this idea is that it would be fun to provoke a tickle fight with her that you basically can't win. Really I'd love to try and tickle her only to have her laugh, not cause of the tickling, but because she knows I know that it'll do no good. She then proceeds to pin me to the ground and "punish" me for trying with tons of intense brutal tickling. I just love the idea of her always having that power over me. Pretty much any time she comes close to me she could suddenly sieze upon me with relentless tickling and I couldn't really fight back. Or during sex that would be great too! Imagine that in the middle of a nice gentle caressing she suddenly uses your vunerable position and starts tickling you madly to increase her own pleasure by making you squirm around in her clutches! The ever present possibility of her just getting the urge and making you beg whenever she feels like it is enough to make me shiver. Imagine having a disagreement and just needing to wiggle her fingers at you to have you nodding your head in agreement! Now that to me is a dream come true. Since she's not ticklish she'll probably be less sympathetic to your plight too

. Have any lees here had a BF/GF who simply loved to tickle but who cannot be tickled back and used that to make you their total slave? And lastly, if you have, does she happen to live on Long Island

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CrystalLight · Mar 25, 2008

Good luck with that.

TicklingIsLife · Mar 25, 2008

i know someone like that, we arent a couple but i'm a male ticklee and she is a female tickler. the bad news is, she lives in another country...

Em Es · Mar 25, 2008

She lived in Staten Island

My ex-girlfriend Georgette was the first woman to turn the tables on this career tickler. To make a long story short, while Georgette was ticklish, she was just not very ticklish and in the six or so months I saw her I only got her a couple of times as she tickled me well quite a bit. In other words, both of us liked tickling the opposite sex but while I was very ticklish, she was barely ticklish.

Georgette lived in Staten Island, NY, at the time but last I heard she had moved to the midwest.

While she frustrated me when we dated, I give Georgette credit for planting the seeds of my switch and occasional submissive tickling interests that have since blossomed. Being the tickler will always be my preference but these days I also like switching and even letting a female tickler dominate me.

In fact, having a non-ticklish tickler appeals to me, too, Tickleslave. Search my two "True Story" section posts about a New York City dominatrix named Mistress Regan, the woman who has fulfilled that fantasy for me.

xSamanthax · Mar 25, 2008

My husband loves to tickle, tease and torture. He is IMMUNE to all forms of revenge that I have tried, including tickling. He is a tiny bit ticklish but he has complete control over his reactions. He just does that poker face thing or just laughs at my attempts. Then grabs me and proceeds to exploit my weaknesses, lol.

A fun, but vexing problem to have, lol.

drnkntklr · Mar 25, 2008

I hate when my ler isn't ticklish, because even though I am a lee, it is fun to provoke them or to know they have a weakness too and turn the table on them every once in a while.

milagros317 · Mar 25, 2008

That is a wonderful fantasy, Tickleslave83, a woman who isn't ticklish herself and is thus immune to any retaliation, but who loves to tickle men.

Good luck with finding her.

alan705 · Mar 26, 2008

I dated a girl who was not ticklish. I eventually told her that I like being tickled (not to the extent of how much I like it) but after that, it was great because she tickled me to no end. Her not knowing how bad it could be because she wasn't ticklish made her push the edge a lot further than a lot of my ticklish ex girlfriends. Unfortunately, tickling alone can't keep the relationship alive.

Tickleslave83 · Apr 15, 2008

In other words, both of us liked tickling the opposite sex but while I was very ticklish, she was barely ticklish.

I dated a girl who was not ticklish. I eventually told her that I like being tickled (not to the extent of how much I like it) but after that, it was great because she tickled me to no end. Her not knowing how bad it could be because she wasn't ticklish made her push the edge a lot further than a lot of my ticklish ex girlfriends.

That's what I'd love. Espicially if she's really really into it. What might be even more exciting is if she lies and says she's very ticklish then agrees to a tickle fight catching you completely off guard when your tickle attacks do nothing while hers make you whimper! Wish there were more girls like that around.

rhinoguy · Apr 15, 2008

Tickleslave83 said:
I'm a major lee and the idea has strong appeal to me. It's fun to tickle girls sometimes but really what I'd most like is to have a partner who is extremely into tickling guys but is not herself ticklish. The reason I like this idea is that it would be fun to provoke a tickle fight with her that you basically can't win. Really I'd love to try and tickle her only to have her laugh, not cause of the tickling, but because she knows I know that it'll do no good. She then proceeds to pin me to the ground and "punish" me for trying with tons of intense brutal tickling. I just love the idea of her always having that power over me. Pretty much any time she comes close to me she could suddenly sieze upon me with relentless tickling and I couldn't really fight back. Or during sex that would be great too! Imagine that in the middle of a nice gentle caressing she suddenly uses your vunerable position and starts tickling you madly to increase her own pleasure by making you squirm around in her clutches! The ever present possibility of her just getting the urge and making you beg whenever she feels like it is enough to make me shiver. Imagine having a disagreement and just needing to wiggle her fingers at you to have you nodding your head in agreement! Now that to me is a dream come true. Since she's not ticklish she'll probably be less sympathetic to your plight too . Have any lees here had a BF/GF who simply loved to tickle but who cannot be tickled back and used that to make you their total slave? And lastly, if you have, does she happen to live on Long Island .

I've dated a couple of girls in the past who did not have a single ticklish spot on their entire body (and, believe me, I did a very through investigation on both). Even though I enjoy a good tickling from a woman, it is also nice to give her one as well. They not being ticklish just took something away from the romance.

Sleepy Jean · Apr 15, 2008

xSamanthax said:
My husband loves to tickle, tease and torture. He is IMMUNE to all forms of revenge that I have tried, including tickling. He is a tiny bit ticklish but he has complete control over his reactions. He just does that poker face thing or just laughs at my attempts. Then grabs me and proceeds to exploit my weaknesses, lol.

A fun, but vexing problem to have, lol.

My husband also loves to tie me up and tickle-torture me. He is ticklish, too, but gets no sexual charge out of being tickled nor do I get a sexual thrill out of tickling him. There is something really sissy about a man being tickled IMO. The few times I did tie him up when we were younger I performed oral and/or assumed the female superior position.

It's strange. As aroused as I get by being tied up it doesn't arouse me to see him bound. And as much as I crave being tickled relentlessly I have no desire to do the same to him. Our marriage has worked (we'll celebrate our 25th anniversary in August). We raised a terrific daughter (now 20). Our sex life is wonderful. Yet, there are times when I feel I'm being selfish because he does all the giving and I do all the getting. Am I wrong to feel that way? Opinions?

jj82277 · Apr 15, 2008

Sleepy Jean said:
My husband also loves to tie me up and tickle-torture me. He is ticklish, too, but gets no sexual charge out of being tickled nor do I get a sexual thrill out of tickling him. There is something really sissy about a man being tickled IMO. The few times I did tie him up when we were younger I performed oral and/or assumed the female superior position.

It's strange. As aroused as I get by being tied up it doesn't arouse me to see him bound. And as much as I crave being tickled relentlessly I have no desire to do the same to him. Our marriage has worked (we'll celebrate our 25th anniversary in August). We raised a terrific daughter (now 20). Our sex life is wonderful. Yet, there are times when I feel I'm being selfish because he does all the giving and I do all the getting. Am I wrong to feel that way? Opinions?

no. I actually think that it is quite healthy. As a lee you percieve being bound and tickle tortured to the point of sheer helplessness to be a great sexual thrill. You are sincerley concerned that you are not depriving your partner of siad thrill. that is more than healthy. anytime you are concerned for your partners well being is a good thing. that is probably a great reason why you guys are at the 25 mark.

As a ler i will say that from his perspective he probably feels the same way. I often feel like i am having all the fun watching my GF's squirm. It's non-sociopathic life with an interesting paradigm.

the one piece of advice i would give you is to make sure that you grow a lot of living plants in your playroom.

TonyInMyThroat · Apr 15, 2008

Sleepy Jean said:
My husband also loves to tie me up and tickle-torture me. He is ticklish, too, but gets no sexual charge out of being tickled nor do I get a sexual thrill out of tickling him. There is something really sissy about a man being tickled IMO. The few times I did tie him up when we were younger I performed oral and/or assumed the female superior position.

It's strange. As aroused as I get by being tied up it doesn't arouse me to see him bound. And as much as I crave being tickled relentlessly I have no desire to do the same to him. Our marriage has worked (we'll celebrate our 25th anniversary in August). We raised a terrific daughter (now 20). Our sex life is wonderful. Yet, there are times when I feel I'm being selfish because he does all the giving and I do all the getting. Am I wrong to feel that way? Opinions?

Wrong? Absolutely not. You’ve just described my wife & me exactly. I get extreme pleasure in touching (of all kinds) and her pleasure is derived from being touched. I always refer to our situation as a "perfect match".

Em Es · Apr 15, 2008

Cheer up, Sleepy Jean

I can't add anything to the well-stated reactions to your comment/question. I just had to post for the sake of writing that title.

DLazarus · Apr 15, 2008

Sleepy Jean said:
My husband also loves to tie me up and tickle-torture me. He is ticklish, too, but gets no sexual charge out of being tickled nor do I get a sexual thrill out of tickling him. There is something really sissy about a man being tickled IMO. The few times I did tie him up when we were younger I performed oral and/or assumed the female superior position.

It's strange. As aroused as I get by being tied up it doesn't arouse me to see him bound. And as much as I crave being tickled relentlessly I have no desire to do the same to him. Our marriage has worked (we'll celebrate our 25th anniversary in August). We raised a terrific daughter (now 20). Our sex life is wonderful. Yet, there are times when I feel I'm being selfish because he does all the giving and I do all the getting. Am I wrong to feel that way? Opinions?

No, Jean, you're not wrong to feel that way. I say, that if it is working for you and your husband then go for it. As long as the two of you are happy, don't worry about what anyone else thinks. That's my 2 cents. LOL

Sleepy Jean · Apr 16, 2008

Thank you all so very much for the support. You're all so sweet. And I think you're right. I'm probably being silly questioning the way we have behaved (or misbehaved *evil grin*) in the last 32 years. After all, he has never said anything about being tired of tying me up and spending so much time tickling me when he could easily just do his duty after a few minutes of kissing and caressing me. Obviously, with me being tied up there would be no way I could stop him from doing anything he wanted to do to me.

But because I'm tied up so often during lovemaking, I wonder if he feels denied having his woman unable to touch him in those certain places a man likes to be touched. He's not dominant by nature. Yet if I'm not blindfolded I can see clearly that he isn't exactly bored with seeing me bound and naked for the (fill in blank with some four-digit ordinal number) time, IYKWIM.

Besides, I'm not always tied up when we express our love for each other. We do have regular old Ward & June Cleaver type sex every so often. And even when I am bound it usually begins with traditional hugs and kisses and hands, both his and mine, strategically placed on bare flesh. Sometimes I don't even have to ask for bondage. He says he can see "that look in your eyes" that says give me the ropes, honey.

I suppose I should let it go. After 32 years together and 25 years with a gold ring on my left hand I should realize all is well. It's just that relentless tickling as a prelude to intercourse, with one partner always inflicting the torture and the other partner always receiving it, was all my idea, not his.

Again, thank you all for your words of support. Love yez.

Jean

Em Es · Apr 16, 2008

Sounds as though you vary the lovemaking just enough

I'll bet even outer-limits bondage practitioners sometimes skip the restraints and have regular sex, Sleepy Jean. Thanks for stirring up our imaginations! Your husband hit the jackpot! (And it sounds as though you did, too.)

Lea28 · Apr 16, 2008

My preference is....

to be with a ticklish LER... so much fun to switch on a guy, or if not tied, to tickle him in a spot or two as he tickles me. If a guy is turned toward my feet and i can reach his feet, he is definitely going to get his soles scratched

His other body parts (equally or more interesting) obviously fair game as well...

Lea

Em Es · Apr 16, 2008

It's all fun, Lea, at least in the short term

Of all the situations I've known, Lea, my favorite was having a ticklish lady friend who really wasn't into it but put up with my tickling to please me. If you search this web site's STORIES section with the words "Maria" and "Nurse" you will find the best example of what I mean.

Even though I am first and foremost a guy who likes to tickle girls, in recent years I've come to appreciate having a woman tickle-dominate me, especially one who is not ticklish. Not that I would want it all the time, but once in a while I would like it.

Last year for six months I got together with a female lee I met through the TMF. As she was the one who contacted me, she must have known I'm ticklish but never once tried to tickle me. So even when both players are vulnerable to the tickle touch, if the relationship is strictly dominant-submissive, the tickler may as well not be ticklish.

Lea28 · Apr 16, 2008

Hmmm... interesting

Em Es said:
Of all the situations I've known, Lea, my favorite was having a ticklish lady friend who really wasn't into it but put up with my tickling to please me. If you search this web site's STORIES section with the words "Maria" and "Nurse" you will find the best example of what I mean.

Even though I am first and foremost a guy who likes to tickle girls, in recent years I've come to appreciate having a woman tickle-dominate me, especially one who is not ticklish. Not that I would want it all the time, but once in a while I would like it.

Last year for six months I got together with a female lee I met through the TMF. As she was the one who contacted me, she must have known I'm ticklish but never once tried to tickle me. So even when both players are vulnerable to the tickle touch, if the relationship is strictly dominant-submissive, the tickler may as well not be ticklish.

Really awesome points.

thx, Lea

jj82277 · Apr 16, 2008

public service announcement

Sleepy Jean said:
Thank you all so very much for the support. You're all so sweet. And I think you're right. I'm probably being silly questioning the way we have behaved (or misbehaved *evil grin*) in the last 32 years. After all, he has never said anything about being tired of tying me up and spending so much time tickling me when he could easily just do his duty after a few minutes of kissing and caressing me. Obviously, with me being tied up there would be no way I could stop him from doing anything he wanted to do to me.

But because I'm tied up so often during lovemaking, I wonder if he feels denied having his woman unable to touch him in those certain places a man likes to be touched. He's not dominant by nature. Yet if I'm not blindfolded I can see clearly that he isn't exactly bored with seeing me bound and naked for the (fill in blank with some four-digit ordinal number) time, IYKWIM.

Besides, I'm not always tied up when we express our love for each other. We do have regular old Ward & June Cleaver type sex every so often. And even when I am bound it usually begins with traditional hugs and kisses and hands, both his and mine, strategically placed on bare flesh. Sometimes I don't even have to ask for bondage. He says he can see "that look in your eyes" that says give me the ropes, honey.

I suppose I should let it go. After 32 years together and 25 years with a gold ring on my left hand I should realize all is well. It's just that relentless tickling as a prelude to intercourse, with one partner always inflicting the torture and the other partner always receiving it, was all my idea, not his.

Again, thank you all for your words of support. Love yez.

Jean

I hate to sound cheezy but this post (and others of yours) just flat out gives me HOPE. I have lived by the ideology for a long time that if you invest the time in making a woman feel emotionally and psychologicly safe sharing her deepest desires with you and fulfilling them honestly to the best of your ability that the rewards will be 10 fold our wildest dreams as men. You are a physical manifestation of what a mature healthy sexual relationship looks like IMHO. when you are worried if your partner is getting enough caressing because you are tied to the bed that's about as healthy as it gets. lord curse me with the burden.

wow.

jj82277 · Apr 16, 2008

special treat

Tickleslave83 said:
I'm a major lee and the idea has strong appeal to me. It's fun to tickle girls sometimes but really what I'd most like is to have a partner who is extremely into tickling guys but is not herself ticklish. The reason I like this idea is that it would be fun to provoke a tickle fight with her that you basically can't win. Really I'd love to try and tickle her only to have her laugh, not cause of the tickling, but because she knows I know that it'll do no good. She then proceeds to pin me to the ground and "punish" me for trying with tons of intense brutal tickling. I just love the idea of her always having that power over me. Pretty much any time she comes close to me she could suddenly sieze upon me with relentless tickling and I couldn't really fight back. Or during sex that would be great too! Imagine that in the middle of a nice gentle caressing she suddenly uses your vunerable position and starts tickling you madly to increase her own pleasure by making you squirm around in her clutches! The ever present possibility of her just getting the urge and making you beg whenever she feels like it is enough to make me shiver. Imagine having a disagreement and just needing to wiggle her fingers at you to have you nodding your head in agreement! Now that to me is a dream come true. Since she's not ticklish she'll probably be less sympathetic to your plight too . Have any lees here had a BF/GF who simply loved to tickle but who cannot be tickled back and used that to make you their total slave? And lastly, if you have, does she happen to live on Long Island .

as a male ler it is always interesting to hear how differently male lees think. It is still really interesting though. one of my favorite story series of all time was just concluded and it features the exact scenario that you are talking about (well she has one spot but it was REALLY hard to find). this series was writen by a guy named wade and it is true. it has to be true because you could not come up with the last few paragraphs of the series on your own. I have never heard a more intriguing description of the sadistic condition than the ending of this series. it is told in such a casual manner that it only makes the description that much more intense. It is about a guys girlfriend's best friend and she is one of the most ruthless individuals that i have ever read about. must read for the FM guys and galls out there or anyone who just likes a good story about really torturous tickles clothes on.

angelspike · Apr 17, 2008

I love getting tickled by non ticklish girls. My ex was not ticklish at all and thought it was really funny to tickle me whenever she got the chance

Sleepy Jean · Apr 17, 2008

jj82277 said:
I hate to sound cheezy but this post (and others of yours) just flat out gives me HOPE. I have lived by the ideology for a long time that if you invest the time in making a woman feel emotionally and psychologicly safe sharing her deepest desires with you and fulfilling them honestly to the best of your ability that the rewards will be 10 fold our wildest dreams as men. You are a physical manifestation of what a mature healthy sexual relationship looks like IMHO. when you are worried if your partner is getting enough caressing because you are tied to the bed that's about as healthy as it gets. lord curse me with the burden.

wow.

I have never failed to count my blessings. I know how lucky I am. I have a man who loves me enough, and loves sex enough, to indulge a fetish of mine that I'm sure less than one in 1,000 women have. I'm so lucky to have a man who will take 2 or 3 hours out of his night, even on a weeknight, to keep me tied up and tickle-torture me when he could easily just fuck me 10 minutes into the whole thing, untie me and fall dead-away asleep. He's never done that. He's too much of a romantic himself. Yes, I am incredibly fortunate.

We have our disagreements, like any married couple. But they have never blown up into all-out war, thank the lord. We talk a lot. Oddly, we rarely discuss our sex lives, other than him occasionally asking me what I want done to me. Usually, what happens to me is his choice, which is exciting because it's a mystery up until he does it. But we never really discuss our feelings about our love life, particularly his desires. It's fairly obvious that I love what he does to me. A blind man could see that. But I wonder just what our love life would be like if I didn't have my fetish and he had to call more of the shots in our relationship (yeah, we were deeply in love before I admitted to him what my peculiarities were).

Don't give up hope, young man. Let love happen, and maybe you can even convince your lady of the joys of consentual tickling. Use me as a reference. After all, I love it so much I can't believe other women wouldn't as well, long as it's being done with men they love and/or trust. Good luck.

On a lighter note, for years we were not so worried about our our emotional needs as we were about making sure our daughter didn't find out about us. We would always check to make sure she was asleep, and we would try to keep the noise down (occasionally I would consent to being gagged for that reason). We live in an older house, with keyholes in the bedroom doors. What if she woke up and tiptoed to our door and peeked inside? I can just imagine the scene at the breakfast table:

"Daddy, why was mommy giggling so much last night?"
"Daddy, why was mommy tied to the bed with no clothes on?"
"Daddy, why did you tickle mommy so much? Why didn't you stop when she told you to stop?"
"Daddy, why did you spank mommy's feet with your belt?"
"Daddy, what were those metal things on mommy's boobies?"

Kids say the darndest things. Grownups do the darndest things.

Love,
Jean

allabouttamaki · Apr 17, 2008

Right Im new here is that not a bit picky? Its like saying you would want your girlfriend to be bisexual and only be atrracted to girl that you are attracted to so as to complete the generic male fantasy of having sex with two women at once? Hope nobody finds this too aggressive...

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