Opinions on Bonadage Equipment

goalie34 · Jun 12, 2018

Hey ya'll, I'm currently shopping for a birthday surprise for my girlfriend and wanted to crowdsource a bit. We've always just kind of used whatever we had available as far as bondage goes but I want to get us something nice and versatile. That said, does anyone have any recommendations? I've primarily been looking at cuff sets but I'm open to anything. Thanks in advance!

vainbetrayer · Jun 12, 2018

https://hustlerhollywood.com/products/sportsheets-under-the-bed-restraint-kit

The woman I'm seeing and I used this last time we sessioned and it went well overall. Only problem we ran into was that the slack would have to be adjusted every couple of sessions due to all our squirming. We're going to use the same cuffs from the set, but thread rope through the latches and tie them to the legs of the bed, to avoid having to adjust the slack constantly. The cuffs do feel comfortable, and our wrists/ankles didn't chaf at all, despite being very secure.

LurkLurkLurk · Jun 12, 2018

Sufficiently...enthusiastic...thrashing destroys the metal fasteners between the nylon straps and the velcro cuffs. Especially that keyring-like component.

You may want to buy something more solid, like some climbing carabiners, to attach the straps to the cuffs.

vainbetrayer · Jun 12, 2018

LurkLurkLurk said:
Sufficiently...enthusiastic...thrashing destroys the metal fasteners between the nylon straps and the velcro cuffs. Especially that keyring-like component.

You may want to buy something more solid, like some climbing carabiners, to attach the straps to the cuffs.

I feel like something like a D-ring would be more effective and easier to attach, but what I have currently works fine and is more than "just a keyring".

tklfetish · Jun 12, 2018

Pretty much any under the bed restraints tend to work well (you can get relatively cheap ones on Amazon). Watch out for lobster claws though (as connectors between the cuffs and the straps); they're pretty fragile and likely won't survive a good session.

_virginie_ · Jun 13, 2018

You could get some really nice soft leather cuffs - then make a real ritual out of every time they come out. Slow things down, draw out the anticipation, turn being restrained into a performance and you'll almost be disappointed when the last limb is secured.

If you get some of these https://www.amazon.fr/Double-Ended-Trigger-Hook/dp/B00H4CFMQE and get cuffs that end in D rings like these https://www.laredoute.fr/ppdp/prod-507283615.aspx or these http://www.coco-de-mer.com/product/the-model-traitor-pony-hair-leather-wrist-cuffs/ then you have tons of flexibility: spread across the bed, hogtied, wrists up to a hook in a beam etc.