BDSM Supporters, enthusiasts and quiet enjoyers: Show yourself.
Follow BDSM? Enjoy it? Want to learn more?
Are you a Top, a bottom? Master? slave? Dom/me? sub?
Collared? Not collared?
What do you love most about BDSM?
Have a large interest in it and want to feel able to talk to those who have experience?
If you wish, share your story here of how you got into your intrerest.
Strength should not decide a battle. There is a weapon for every fight.
Rule #16: If someone thinks they have the upper-hand, break it.
Rule #35: Always watch the watchers.
Rule #40: If it seems someone is out to get you, they are.
Me: WhoaMyNinja on Fetlife
I BDSM. I'm a bottom, sub, slave, whatever you call it. ^_^ Had an online/text/phone Dom for a bit...but broke that off....so uncollared atm.....hoping for a chance at a real-life relationship (read: BEFORE I DIE!). I am still learning more about it, and adjusting to being called angel, girl, slave, (or my slave #) etc instead of Angel.
Im a switch, into various things, only thing that remains constant thruout is the bondage, which is my favoraite part of the whole thing.
Im no massively dominant nor submissive, but I top and bottom in my own way and its alot of fun.
Im pretty open about it, anyone that comes into my room will see my bondage wall and heavy duty cuffs hanging off my bed
Been a top long as I've been able to play. Already partnered and mighty pleased with it.
Gonna guarantee, though, sugar, that you won't get all of us to post in this. Some of us here are just shy, same as those that aren't into this. There's good quiet folks on both sides.
oi, helluva topic, Crystal.
erm...i'm a switch, but my Top tendencies have been stronger as of late. dunno if i could be considered a Dom really. i need more experience before i can be happy with any specific title. i don't even like to say "Yeah, I'm a Dom." if it comes up.
i had a long-distance Sub some time ago, but we decided it be best to break things off in that regard. nevertheless, i still hope to play with her soon (you know who you are ). my girl has also worn a collar for me, and still does on occasion.
what do i love most about BDSM, eh? not sure, really. is it the rush of endorphins when you are at the mercy of another, or vice versa? the bondage and the torments? or the mind games? i wish i knew what it was about BDSM i love the most. i DO know that i find women who are bound to be extraordinarily sexy, which is why i have posted more bondage photos than anything else. maybe, someday, i'll have some BDSM material of my own to showcase.
I'm not particularly practicing the lifestyle but am always intrigued by it. I have a respect for both it and those who practice it as do I anyone in the community, whether it be their main kink, or even just a cross genre passion of theirs.
Having a few people here that are extremely close to me, into it in some way or another, I'm even more interested to always be learning more, both about it in general and how they enjoy it and enjoy incorporating it into their play and their life. It's definitely not something I would rule out of incorporating into play in one way or another if my partner enjoys it.
And true D, not everyone will speak on it, but it's a great thread for those who will choose to, not only of those sharing it, but those learning about it.
Anyone else stray from Realtickling, MTP, Zen etc and head towards hogtied.com and similar?, the dude on there is a talented guy
Ive got many ideas from watching those clips
I have enjoyed the BDSM lifestyle for over 4 years. I consider myself a Dominant. I have had online D/s realtionships and they were good, but they just don't compare to real. I have never had a real relationship before, but I hope to one day (long before I'm an old, gray haired man) have one where both of us are happy and enjoying the lifestyle we have chosen together. Eventhough I have 4 years under my belt, I know I still have so much more to learn.
There's a bondage site on C4S. I forget the store name, but the guy's name is Hunter.
He does amazing rope work. The first place where I spent a good 2 hours just taking in the shots.
It literally was like art.
I also lurk here: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/
I joined here recently: www.seekdiscipline.com
I've been a member before of Hogtied and some of their other sites and enjoy a lot of their work.
Originally Posted by Haribish!
Originally Posted by AngelOfDarkness
I originally went to the BDSM library looking for D/s stories as well as one's with the tickling aspect thrown in.
When I found the forums, it was kind've cool because I could openly read more on the lifestyle.
I know that site. I've been a member there for a good long while. I learn alot whenever I visit it
Originally Posted by AngelOfDarkness
Ohhh cool, I'll have to check it out.
Originally Posted by CrystalLight
Awesome, what's you user name?
Originally Posted by whyguy2