goddess_nemesis
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Earlier today I feeling a little, well, not lonely but a longing for a relationship. I miss having a boyfriend to spend time with, to cuddle with, to be intimate with. Well during work this evening a cute guy came into the store and started to flirt with me. It usually throws me off kilter when that happens because I'm unused to guys showing interest in me.
Well he asked me for my phone number, and, because he was cute and I thought maybe there could be potential there, I gave it to him. He calls me later while I'm still at work and we chat a bit. He asks if he could pick me up after work, but I tell him no because I just met him and I don't go off in some stranger's car. No matter how cute he is. Then he's like when can I see you. I'm like I don't know while thinking, "ask me out on a date already." But he never asks, just going on about when he can see me. Well our conversation had to be cut off abruptly because a customer came in the store, but it was welcomed reprieve.
My interest in him died because he didn't seem interest in going on dates. He certainly didn't offer anything resembling a date. He seemed more interested in a hookup and that's not what I want or am looking for. Yet earlier when he was in the store, he asked me if I was looking for a boyfriend to which I replied "if it happens, it happens." Y'know, not actively looking, but not opposed to happening either.
So I don't know if it was a just line or if going on dates doesn't seem to happen anymore. Maybe it's me, but it seems like more people want to jump into the boyfriend/girlfriend status without actually taking the time to get to know each other enough to decide to be in a relationship.
What do you think? Is going out on dates a dying trend?
Well he asked me for my phone number, and, because he was cute and I thought maybe there could be potential there, I gave it to him. He calls me later while I'm still at work and we chat a bit. He asks if he could pick me up after work, but I tell him no because I just met him and I don't go off in some stranger's car. No matter how cute he is. Then he's like when can I see you. I'm like I don't know while thinking, "ask me out on a date already." But he never asks, just going on about when he can see me. Well our conversation had to be cut off abruptly because a customer came in the store, but it was welcomed reprieve.
My interest in him died because he didn't seem interest in going on dates. He certainly didn't offer anything resembling a date. He seemed more interested in a hookup and that's not what I want or am looking for. Yet earlier when he was in the store, he asked me if I was looking for a boyfriend to which I replied "if it happens, it happens." Y'know, not actively looking, but not opposed to happening either.
So I don't know if it was a just line or if going on dates doesn't seem to happen anymore. Maybe it's me, but it seems like more people want to jump into the boyfriend/girlfriend status without actually taking the time to get to know each other enough to decide to be in a relationship.
What do you think? Is going out on dates a dying trend?