I've had nearly all my action via the UKTF. What you all have to understand is that it's overwhelmed by men -even to straight women you all sound the same unless you start posting in a generally chatty way like they do on here. Women get bombarded by PMs and most of them all sound the same 'I'm ticklish/want to be tickled are you ticklish, where, want to chat?' If we chattd with every one of you we'd never get any work done.
Also most of the people who were really active when UKTF was in it's early years are now holding down jobs and long term
relationships. When they were students they were freer to play.
So use TMF AND UKTF. Post on the forum not just PMs. Bring it to life. At the moment it seems that there are only four of us
posting on there. This is all voluntary -I'm currently single and work for myself from home so can get on line whenever I want. I'm trying to draw more women into the scene and hope to arrange some munches for women or support women making their
first step to a mixed munch.
If you want something to happen you have to make it happen. Now we've got Fetlife too there's a risk we'll all become too
disperesed to make a gathering happen. I'm focussing on UKTF, here and Fetlife and making sure that anything in the UK that gets organised goes onto UKTF.
Also our forum ranking system rewards real experiences not now many posts they've made. I've only just got over 400 posts there and I joined in 2005 but I'm now a 'BASTard' meaning that I've met up for real and played with forum members. The most
important and useful thing anyone can do is get to a munch. If you arrange and host one and advertise it on UKTF you will
definately get noticed for all the right reasons. You'll also find people there with experience of organising gatherings whole give tips. Tickling is a very noisy kink and you need really sturdy things to tie people to of you want to play like that.