I like hearing about all the preferences everyone
I know we all have a "go to" type of ler and it's interesting seeing what they are.
I've found the perfect Ler in my Lover. She's 27 now, Russian with pale skin green eyes and dyed black hair. She stands at almost 6 feet tall, and has a crooked half smile I adore. She's sadistic with her tickling and is very vocal. I enjoy it immensely.
I'm so happy you two found each other, you guys seem perfect!
And since it was kindly brought to my attention that I should answer my own question lol I like.....
A guy 5'10(if it was a woman 5'5-5'10) or above that is not too far from my age and attractive, I don't really have a set "type" but I like a guy with some height that is on the more fit side,I don't really have a race preference,I just like what I like. I want to be tickled all over, BUT upper body is one of my most favorite areas, so I'd prefer him to be more into that area, but definitely not neglect the other spots. I love someone who likes to tease verbally and physically, and one who switches it up with different tools,but of course fingers will always be my favorite <3. That being said, I like a well kept pair of hands with nails on the shorter side. I can definitely be a smart ass so I'd want someone who can dish it back out, and knows how to push me far enough to where I want to take back everything I say (even though I won't). Also, I need someone who is a nice mix of playful and merciless, someone who can make me laugh and make me nervous(in the good way) and I need to have some sort of connection with him, so it's comfortable. I wouldn't mind bondage, but I love being kind of taken over by someone who doesn't need it a little wrestling and pinning is fun, so I prefer starting with none and then ending with some. As for clothing, I'm not too picky about that, but not nude,no masks, no ball caps,NO CAPES.
Annnnnnd that's all I can think about at the moment.