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Has your fetish gotten you in trouble?

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kcantankerous

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Hello all,

Just as it sounds, has your fetish gotten you in trouble? I mean serious trouble, like you almost lost your job or you were severely rebuked in some way. Just something that I noodled on for a bit.

Thanks,

K
 
It's gotten me in different kinds of trouble. One time, a female friend and I were flirting over facebook. I was so horny I accidentally spilled out a bunch of crap about wanting to smell her feet and tickle her. She then showed these messages to a group of really bitchy girls who used them to blackmail me.

Never gotten into trouble with a superior or authority figure though.
 
In my last year of college I got to find out first hand just how unaccepting some human beings are when it comes to being kinky. That was the year I decided to do fetish modeling and had created a Model Mayhem account. Well a female I really really hated(We couldn't stand each other) decided to go into modeling as well(The vanilla kind). She joined Model Mayhem a week after I did, she found me on there, and then she left some rude comments on my pics(After she basically told me to fuck off). Basically she thought something was wrong with me and I quickly blocked her, but it was too late the damage was already done. People started treating me differently, I would get cold stares, people would sometimes snicker when I walked past, and I am 100% positive I was talked about behind my back. It hurt like hell and there was really nothing I could do. That was when my fuck everybody who doesn't like me attitude came into play.
 
The only "Trouble" it got me into.. was my foot smelling fetish with women when I was young. Some of the babysitters whose feet I smelled, told my parents. However.. one of the people I did it to.. also got me in trouble, but I didn't find this out until YEARS later.

When I was.. 8.. my mom had a hot airline stewardess friend.. whose feet I asked to smell. The woman.. a hot brunette in her 30s at the time, was laying on a pool chair at our pool. She let me do it. Not too many years ago.. my mom for whatever reason reminded me of this incident.. how her friend told her, and how the friend was "Really uncomfortable" that I had smelled her feet.

In regard to "Trouble" with work.. or such.. No. I would never discuss my fetish at the office.. or ask to do any fetish things there. To me, work is work, and that isn't the appropriate place, ever.
 
porcelaindoll2 said:
In my last year of college I got to find out first hand just how unaccepting some human beings are when it comes to being kinky. That was the year I decided to do fetish modeling and had created a Model Mayhem account. Well a female I really really hated(We couldn't stand each other) decided to go into modeling as well(The vanilla kind). She joined Model Mayhem a week after I did, she found me on there, and then she left some rude comments on my pics(After she basically told me to fuck off). Basically she thought something was wrong with me and I quickly blocked her, but it was too late the damage was already done. People started treating me differently, I would get cold stares, people would sometimes snicker when I walked past, and I am 100% positive I was talked about behind my back. It hurt like hell and there was really nothing I could do. That was when my fuck everybody who doesn't like me attitude came into play.
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That pissed me off just by reading it. :Grrr: An experience like that can make people shy away and completely blame themselves thoughh. Way to hang in there, Porcelaindoll2. :thumbsup:
 
Never got me into any real trouble. Lesbian gossip circles use to like to laugh and giggle but nothing serious. The more mentally disturbed gals would start propping their feet up on tables, sometimes bare, one with boots on, (which does nothing for me) but I was already on high alert because of some of their earlier outbursts at work that I wasn't involved with. You know, like stay away from that one.
 
derkitzelnkonig said:
What exactly did they blackmail you for? As in, what were they obtaining from the blackmail?
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It's complicated, they basically got me to do things I was completely against, and admit to being responsible for certain things which I wasn't
 
The worst thing that ever happened to me because of my fetishes (which I prefer to call erotic interests) is that I woman to whom I was engaged at the time (1980) insisted that I see a psychiatrist as a condition of our remaining engaged.

Fortunately for me, the psychiatrist eventually told me (6 months and thousand of dollars in fees later) that there was nothing wrong with my erotic interests and that what I needed was a woman who shared them or, at least, didn't mind indulging them as part of a relationship.
 
It's never gotten me in trouble, but it sure has led to me bing super distracted at work/school and not focusing on things the way I should have been. Like I would have moments where I'd mentally zone out because I'd be to busy thinking about tickling. I've thankfully gotten that under control lol.
 
Nope... I've never been the type to tickle anyone I'm not romantically involved with, so there would be nothing to get me in trouble in that sense. I looked at fetish porn on the school library computers a few times in high school and even showed it to some of my friends (I pretended to accidentally come across it and showed them how "weird" it was to see what they would do--they laughed and sadly agreed it was quite "weird") I was in high school when the Internet first became a thing and they had no idea about porn blockers. So, I could have gotten in trouble for that I guess. But I didn't.

The potential for trouble has now passed. I'm an adult, I live far away from my parents, I'm self-employed, my partner shares the fetish and most of my close friends already know about my kinky sex life. It's nice to not have any more "dark secrets."
 
I never gotten in trouble either. A few of my friends that know I have a foot fetish or tickle fetish never gave me a hard time about it. Course I have been guarded about it. I had a girlfriend once who pretended to like it but either because she was tired of the relationship, or secretly disliked it, insisted that I stop. Needless to say, due to that and other reasons we eventually broke up.

Mitchell, I agree with you about work. I try not to look at my coworker's feet but sometimes a glance is necessary. If the girls talk about being ticklish or whatever, I think things but never say them.
 
k, thanks.

So far.. I've been pretty lucky about the whole women and feet thing at my office. Many of the people I work with are much younger, and not of appropriate dating age, etc. The people who are my age.. are men. However.. there is one person.. who does distract me, and a few weeks ago.. it happened.

As I think I've posted before.. there is a policy at my office.. at least one we were told about during Sales School, where the agents were strongly told not to date anyone at the office. Fine. I live in the biggest city in the world. There are many other options for female partners in this city. .

There is this one girl.. who I think is not too far from my age. and a supervisor. She seems very nice. Quiet, intelligent, exactly the type I usually go crazy for.

Several weeks ago, we were having a training seminar. She was giving the seminar. I had been dying to see her feet since I first met her.. So.. of course.. it was a warm day, and she was wearing flip flops. I glanced at her feet for one second, but, intentionally stared straight ahead at the tote board where she was explaining the insurance things she was saying. I did NOT want to give any hint that I was staring at her feet, etc. Luckily, I think I succeeded. I don't know anything about her status, as we never usually say more than "Hi, how are you". I'll tell you one thing, if she';s as nice as she seems, and she is involved.. or married.. her partner is the luckiest person on the planet.
 
I never got into any trouble because of my fetish for tickling and women's feet it did however cost me some friendships about 2 to be exact.
 
kcantankerous said:
ust as it sounds, has your fetish gotten you in trouble?
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oh Yes.

Delicious, hot, sweaty, sweet, desperate, pounding, hair-pulling, orgasmic, jump-out-the-second-story window-cuz-hes-home-early, blow-kisses-from-tree, trouble.

but I was young.
 
How do you lose friends because of your fetish? C.A.B the fact that you posted in a thread I created is a feather in my cap.
 
C.A.B. said:
oh Yes.

Delicious, hot, sweaty, sweet, desperate, pounding, hair-pulling, orgasmic, jump-out-the-second-story window-cuz-hes-home-early, blow-kisses-from-tree, trouble.

but I was young.
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This post is 100% winsauce!
 
milagros317 said:
The worst thing that ever happened to me because of my fetishes (which I prefer to call erotic interests) is that I woman to whom I was engaged at the time (1980) insisted that I see a psychiatrist as a condition of our remaining engaged.

Fortunately for me, the psychiatrist eventually told me (6 months and thousand of dollars in fees later) that there was nothing wrong with my erotic interests and that what I needed was a woman who shared them or, at least, didn't mind indulging them as part of a relationship.
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I've been here a long time, under two different names, and this Milagros post is one of the most meaningful I've read. It describes my current relationship perfectly. My wife (of now nearly 10 years) doesn't understand, but always supports. She's not the most ticklish ever (perhaps a 5, some days a 6), but the advantage is . . . she lets me tickle as long as I want. FIND A PARTNER WHO LOVES YOU FOR YOU AND LETS YOU BE YOURSELF. And figure out what SHE likes, too!!
 
Yes. A male employee who worked with me got caught on camera tickling me on the clock. He had his hands up my shirt and was seen pushing me against his office desk. I chose not to take action since I was okay with it but we were both given warnings. Luckily we did not get fired for it. I was younger at the time, it was fun but stupid.
 
Most recent partner hated being tickled so even any playful tickling got me in trouble.
 
My first proper bondage tickling experience with a chick I was close with when I was 16. Later in the school year, we had a fight and she told the school counselor (mind you, I dont thinm she intended to cause as much trouble as she did). Her parents were called in, my parents were called in. My whole year level found out and I went from being a popular person to being complety ostracised literally overnight.

A painful experience at the time, but Im so glad it happened. Who I am today is thanks to escaping the popularity of school.

I would not be who I am today if Id remained popular, shallow and wankerish.

Instead, now Im strong, independent minded and unique. Thank you, TicklingFetish.
 
xionking said:
My first proper bondage tickling experience with a chick I was close with when I was 16. Later in the school year, we had a fight and she told the school counselor (mind you, I dont thinm she intended to cause as much trouble as she did). Her parents were called in, my parents were called in. My whole year level found out and I went from being a popular person to being complety ostracised literally overnight.

A painful experience at the time, but Im so glad it happened. Who I am today is thanks to escaping the popularity of school.

I would not be who I am today if Id remained popular, shallow and wankerish.

Instead, now Im strong, independent minded and unique. Thank you, TicklingFetish.
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She say it was non consensual or something?
 
My answer to this question would be "almost". A long time ago I was tickling and fooling around with a gf at her house while her parents were out for the evening. I was sitting astride her tickling her underarms and sides and we must have been making quite a racket, because we didn't hear her mum and dad return home earlier than expected. Her dad was a big bloke, and I was young, and when her dad came though the door, I thought "oh xxxx..now what". Fortunately her mum thought it was really funny, and said something like, "having fun"! Her dad didn't seem at all bothered, and disappeared to another room, but her mum quickly decided to join in. At this point my gf became totally hysterical with laughter, as we tickled her really good for what seemed like a long time.
 
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