Looking for a female play partner close to my age near Philly.

Hi I have been on the lookout for a steady female play partner, but I haven't had much luck. I am a pansexual switch and I tend to lean more dominant towards females, but for the right chick or if I am in a really subby mood I can be the sub. Ideally I would prefer a female lee/sub or a switch between the ages of 21-30. I would also ideally like to find a woman that is more into BDSM and is comfortable getting sexual with another female. Want I want is a friend with kink benefits. I also don't tolerate being used for booty calls. I will also want to verify you're an honest to god female by phone or through a program like Skype. Trust me fellas this ain't my first time at the rodeo. I have dealt with my fair share of fakes, so I know when I am chatting with one. Being open to playing with both my boyfriend and I would be an awesome plus, but I am okay with you just wanting play time with me. At the end of the day my boyfriend wants me to be happy and have fun. I am living in Norristown and can host.

Oh and males unless you have a female you'd like to recommend to me please stay out of this thread.

Anybody out there?