Ladies of the forum---Are you shy?

Ticklerguy4u · Oct 2, 2015

We don't hear too much about men complaining getting over run with private messages. We also know that men aren't shy about PMing the ladies of the forum. So do women PM men, if not, why?

CapturedDoll · Oct 2, 2015

Well when I did pm with Men- I like the chase. Makes me feel "cornered". A way to give Men control over me. That's how I looked at it.

desdemona · Oct 2, 2015

When I could get in the chat room, I used to PM men who had a profile - especially those who indicated that PMs were ok.

Dussicar · Oct 3, 2015

CapturedDoll said:
Well when I did pm with Men- I like the chase. Makes me feel "cornered". A way to give Men control over me. That's how I looked at it.

Yeah, you're tough now, but what happens if they come after you with a pointed stick...or a Banana...Or mangos in syrup?

Volsung · Oct 7, 2015

desdemona said:
When I could get in the chat room, I used to PM men who had a profile - especially those who indicated that PMs were ok.

I definitely check out a person's profile page 1st. But, as I am a man this really is a moot point isn't it. HAHA...

chicago · Oct 7, 2015

Some men do. Some men dont. Some women do. Some women dont.

If i approach anyone, 9 times out of 10 its for something they posted or said that i found interesting and usually not tickling related.

Again, like the thread on women and vidya games, i dont think there any absolutes with the genders

maniactickler · Oct 7, 2015

In my experience, absolutely not. :banghead:

Bohemianne · Oct 8, 2015

... like asking them about their smelly big feet or whether they use heavy duty steel rungs in line of duty?

NO. :xbee:

Ticklerguy4u · Oct 9, 2015

Bohemianne said:
... like asking them about their smelly big feet or whether they use heavy duty steel rungs in line of duty?

NO.

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Ummmm...if they have smelly feet. I don't think I need to ask why and if they are big well that's just genetics. Again explanation needed. I was just curious if they do or don't and why.

Bohemianne · Oct 9, 2015

Okay. The PM box is a tool. I use it mostly to say "thank you" or to privately address a post/situation/conflict.

crydun · Feb 26, 2016

shy? no. it does tend to get a bit overwhelming though as it's never just one. when I could get into the chat I would have many at once often freezing my pc and then of course I could not reply..

Aeveirra · Feb 29, 2016

Shy? No, not at all. I PM both guys and girls. Whoever I find interesting and want to talk to.
I always respond to all my own private messages. Maybe some girls don't not want to attract unwanted attention, while others are just shy like that- but I'm not
I'll talk to anyone on here.

***But, I am not using the TMF as a dating site, nor am I looking for a romantic relationship now,
Im only on here to make freinds, and read interesting posts.
So I guess that's why I'm open to talking to anyone on here

porcelaindoll2 · Mar 2, 2016

I would probably consider myself far from shy. I use to private message guys that caught my eye all the time before I met my now husband. I'm in an open relationship, I'm allowed to play/fuck other men, but I started focusing more on find partners for us. Once I move I may look again.

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