Feminism has it's place. But... there's a lot of feminists who seem to forget what equality is all about.
My Master and I enjoy a fetish called Bimbofication. It's REALLY fun and it helps me to avoid negative news and negative thinking. Focusing on being happy is the biggest part of it. And, having a closer relationship with my Bf. This entails women or men being sexually pleasing to their partner, willing, happy and dressing sexy. And yes implants and bigger lips are part of this fetish for a lot of people...not all.
Aside from the visuals... we ALL get bogged down in the bad news stories, bad days at work... having kids. It can be a struggle to be happy when we constantly see or actively seek out bad news. It's like waiting for a car crash 24hrs a day. Bimbofication helps women who seek it out, get back to a place of enjoying being feminine... and letting Men BE Men. (whatever you define a Man to be.) I am still ME- the ME who enjoys Horror movies occasionally- has movie star/ band crushes, listens to heavy Metal etc. This just helps me be a better partner. For MY relationship. Obviously this is not for everyone. But...it's been beneficial for me to go back to the beginning of our relationship to remember what brought us together in the first place. A lot of women forget Men like to be shown love too. Or... have a sexy lingerie show/tease. Get a blowjob once a week. (or tickled...
Or to be told... thank you for everything you do for us... I love you.
There's a lot of women out there that want to call out Men for every little thing. (And I'm NOT saying ALL women.) But... there's a lot of hate going around on the internet and real life from everyone. At everything. All the time. And I'm not talking about justified hate against rapists- people who do BAD things.
I own a book called The Proper Care And Feeding of Husbands. By Dr. Laura. Now... I don't pay attention to her normally... but in this book its about Men writing to her about how they feel about how their wives are treating them. Withholding sex...constant anger issues... mind games... humiliation, not putting any care into how they dress.... never dressing up when they once did in the early stage of their relationship. And she heavily points out that's its critical for women to dress up sometimes just to show their partner they are still interested in them sexually. It's a signal. And... withholding sex is the WORST thing a woman can do to the person she claims to love. This book is extremely well written (get past the God stuff..- that's in their too unfortuanetly to me). But... it's basically a manual on how Men NEED to be treated. From Men themselves. I can't recommend it enough.
We all enjoy certain ways of dressing. It's ALL good. But I myself enjoy dressing sexy, wearing heels... make up... etc. No one's way is wrong. It's when people attack other people for how they choose to live that's wrong. It's very hard for me to make new female friends no matter how I dress. I can be sexy one day, and t-shirt, jeans the next. I get the evil eye everywhere I go from women. But hardly EVER from Men.
For a LONG time... when I would go out... I would walk around with my eyes on the ground. In and out of places like the grocery store as fast as I could. I've never done anything to deserve that. I've been in 2 long term relationships. ( a few dates in between). One 12 years- the other going on 7 in July. Sometimes I have cleavage... most times not-but really I only dress up sexy at home or to go out at night. (Which the going out part is rare these days- money is super tight.) When I was overweight and goth... everyone ignored me. So... I don't know if its cuz I'm blonde... or there's actual jealousy going on... (which I hate saying that because I'm not in that's persons head... so I how can I know?) So now... I try to assume they are just having a bad day and TRY not to take it personally. But... I can't even go to my own neighborhood pool anymore. I have worn full bathing suits after what my Bf and I call Bikinigate 2 summers ago. I was called a succubous...and had complaints written to the home association. I was not wearing a thong... I was wearing a bikini yes but covered me completely in the areas it needed to be. And... since... I've been 3 times.. wearing a full suit... and not only did I get hateful stares... I was actively ignored. And to boot I came home with pink eye TWICE from the neighborhood children putting heir hands on the chairs and everywhere. Its just not worth it to me to keep going. And I love swimming. But... we'll be moving at some point down the road and hopefully these issues will be behind us. But I'm not going to bet on that. I'd probably lose.
So... I don't hate anyone... I hate their actions.