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Tinder for fetishes?

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Hello all,

A friend of mine is pushing me to join Tinder - instead of using an escort - to find a tickle/foot worship/companion. This made me wonder, have any of you had success with Tinder to find a quick fetish partner?

Thanks,

K
 
Yes I've had some success but with the Whiplr app, which is basically the (BDSM Version) of Tinder.

Also i'd recommend collarspace.com , another site i've had success on
 
Seems whiplr doesn't have an android variant for now. ...
 
Whiplr had issues with the google store policies which they resolved, mostly by deleting/denying tons of user photos that didnt meet guidelines.

On the other hand, ive seen some kink folks post on tinder, but since i login from my personal profile, ive never swiped right. As for collarspace, Im on that site all the time, but it is all fake and shit now. I barely find one real person per year... The best option is Fetlife, which does not have an app so far, and no swipe functionality on it.
 
tksleepwalker said:
Whiplr had issues with the google store policies which they resolved, mostly by deleting/denying tons of user photos that didnt meet guidelines.

On the other hand, ive seen some kink folks post on tinder, but since i login from my personal profile, ive never swiped right. As for collarspace, Im on that site all the time, but it is all fake and shit now. I barely find one real person per year... The best option is Fetlife, which does not have an app so far, and no swipe functionality on it.
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I think I did see a fetlife app but they basically let it age itself out of relevance to the site. My issue with fetlife is inadvertently, they're making the whole site about the groups. You post in the groups, and you get conversions going, but you can't search for "kinksters" and then try to filter them down to locations. And you can't filter with events specific to fetish, either (unless you're willing to take all of it, I guess, lol). It's a nice site, you find some characters, but how to turn it into more than just a site? Got me.
 
Depends wher you live and how much time you have but yea it's very doable. You might feel creepy but if you aren't somewhat direct about intentions you'll go through a ton of people via convo that is fake to find the people. Yes surprisingly many vanillas are open to the idea of being tickled.
 
Maybe you can emulate an android phone on the desktop? Then it's a matter of installing the app.
 
duderino84 said:
I think I did see a fetlife app but they basically let it age itself out of relevance to the site. My issue with fetlife is inadvertently, they're making the whole site about the groups. You post in the groups, and you get conversions going, but you can't search for "kinksters" and then try to filter them down to locations. And you can't filter with events specific to fetish, either (unless you're willing to take all of it, I guess, lol). It's a nice site, you find some characters, but how to turn it into more than just a site? Got me.
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It is a compliment to real life... their reasoning for not providing a search/filter functionality is to avoid the "friend hoarding and harrasment" phenomena that is present on other sites. They are attempting to mirror the real world where you only add people you met and/or know in person. Then the site itself is just a way to stay connected with friends in a private and safe environment. overall they encourage group activity as a way to get to know people as if you were chatting in a bar. To continue an IRL conversation, or to chat about things that happened out in the world.

In my opinion their policy works well. Ive seen more than enough cases of random friend requests and friend hoarding where people add you just for interests, and after that, they are just another profile in your friend list. with no motivation to engage or chat or get to know the other person. it dilutes the community overall, and discourages conversation.

I prefer the Fetlife model over others.
 
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