duderino84
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I don't know? It reminds me of my early days where I thought about it some but never really wanted/liked being tickled. ...
It's weird to me.
If I see a guy tickling a guy, yeah, there would be a reaction inside of me, the same as a girl tickling a girl.
..but it's followed by shame and baggage and worries of "Am I gay?" and I look away.
If a bunch of dudes jumped on me and tickled me, it would probably be the same.
It's too conflicting for me, makes me uncomfortable.
I'm not gay, at all.
It's like the fetish operates on a separate level from my sexuality, with some overlap in some places.
An octopus tickling a monkey would probably get some sort of rise in me if the monkey was reacting in a "helpless laughter" enough kind of way.
I'm damn sure not into bestiality.
It's the act of tickling and the act of being tickled that is at the center of the fetish for me.
But you've got to draw a line somewhere.
I'd be so conflicted after a guy tickling me that I probably wouldn't react very well.
I can 100 percent relate to this. Its very conplicated. Im not in any way shape or form attacted to men.. but i fantasize about tickling them. I just dont understand it. It something the developed over the years. Im def more into tickling women but if I could get a ticklish guy tied down i would not turn it down. There's def some guilt that goes along with these fantasys lol
RavensFan52's response is interesting because it lays down three aspects of the straight male m/m tickling desire dilemma that I've encountered talking with straight guys for years:
1) No attraction to men. (By this, I'm assuming it's a sexual attraction you speak of.)
2) Interest in m/m tickling developed (which means there's already a latent seed planted in the brain, but perhaps not cultivated fully until a later time)
3) Guilt experienced with the fantasy or even after tickling play.
Of the three, only one is actually learned, and that's number 3.
With guys I've talked to, the guilt seems to emerge, in part, because the ticklee gets aroused from being tickled by another guy. What happens then if he comes to orgasm? Does it mean he doesn't like women? Should he leave his gf/wife, if he has one? Of course not.
However, it does raise a question, I think, about how committed he'll be to his own intimate desires. What I hope is that such a ticklee has an open enough relationship with a gf/wife to be able to be tickled by another guy when necessary.