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How to Introduce Tickling to Girls

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What's the best approach when trying to find a new tickle partner? This is something I have trouble with and would like some help. How do I get that girl I want to tickle be okay with me tickling her?
 
I mean, I won't pretend I know the answer to this question - although I suspect the answer isn't too far off from "the same way you'd persuade someone to play Monopoly with you, or split a sandwich with you, or do anything else they're not currently predisposed to doing" - but maybe you should go into a little more detail? I'd imagine that the folks who can provide actual useful advice would be better positioned to do so if they knew what specifically you're having trouble with.
 
I'm glad to give you an answer.

Check out our studio Tickle Therapy, watch our youtube channel, study our concept of tickling being healthy and fun. It's not some joke. It's a therapy we are developing here in our city in spa centers. It's based on real research on tickling and on our already huge practice.
Yes, we make videos of tickle therapy and it's so much fun as a side project. It's beautiful, playful, it releases physical and emotional tension, opens up people emotionally and sexually in the most innocent way.
It's a type of relaxing massage in fact, which is more common in Eastern culture. That's why people of Western culture are more reserved to that and tend to think of it as some shameful "fetish", while tickling is one of the most wonderful and pleasant things we can experience.

It also helps us promote our therapy and get more and more positive feedback from those who get tickled.
For some time people will think it's strange, weird, scary, as it always happens to new thing. But the world keeps changing eventually, and time is ours.

A few outtakes from our tickle therapy clips have already been shown on the first of federal tv channels in Russia in the medical TV show about the positive effects of tickling. So, more to come.

You are free to tell any girl about this and some of them are curious enough to get interested in finding out more and maybe trying it.
Best wishes,
tickletherapist.
 
OK, I would not suggest introducing it as some new wave health benefit.

There is no guarantee that the woman (I hope you ain't playing with girls) you want to tickle will be OK with it. That said, if you're both interested in each other, bringing it up in a nonchalant way, feigning confidence if you have to, avoid the word "fetish," and just express that it's something fun and sexy and she should try it sometime, you might get a positive reaction. At worst, the lady might express not being into it and that's understandable, gotta respect that, but if they're mean or cruel about it, that's probably a red flag of someone judgmental and inconsiderate anyway.

The worst thing to do is bring it up in an ashamed embarrassed way. I think it makes things a bit too serious and the conversation to follow tends to be colored by that negativity.
 
chicago said:
OK, I would not suggest introducing it as some new wave health benefit.

There is no guarantee that the woman (I hope you ain't playing with girls) you want to tickle will be OK with it. That said, if you're both interested in each other, bringing it up in a nonchalant way, feigning confidence if you have to, avoid the word "fetish," and just express that it's something fun and sexy and she should try it sometime, you might get a positive reaction. At worst, the lady might express not being into it and that's understandable, gotta respect that, but if they're mean or cruel about it, that's probably a red flag of someone judgmental and inconsiderate anyway.

The worst thing to do is bring it up in an ashamed embarrassed way. I think it makes things a bit too serious and the conversation to follow tends to be colored by that negativity.
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This and I think personally that lately. ...we're a kind of rare breed that doesn't really know what we should do, so we hold on to all of our feelings of expressional issues until we meet someone and then we offload.

I'm starting to see just how little I talk to people in the scheme of things. I think if I gave someone a few days of just plain conversation, with no talk of the tickling, maybe, just maybe a tickle would be able to work it's way in.
 
chicago said:
OK, I would not suggest introducing it as some new wave health benefit.

There is no guarantee that the woman (I hope you ain't playing with girls) you want to tickle will be OK with it. That said, if you're both interested in each other, bringing it up in a nonchalant way, feigning confidence if you have to, avoid the word "fetish," and just express that it's something fun and sexy and she should try it sometime, you might get a positive reaction. At worst, the lady might express not being into it and that's understandable, gotta respect that, but if they're mean or cruel about it, that's probably a red flag of someone judgmental and inconsiderate anyway.

The worst thing to do is bring it up in an ashamed embarrassed way. I think it makes things a bit too serious and the conversation to follow tends to be colored by that negativity.
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tickletherapist said:
It's based on real research on tickling and on our already huge practice.
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Curious, could you link the research?
 
Rectangle said:
Curious, could you link the research?
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You can search the forum for numerous notions of scientific research on the nature of tickling. Such as the works of Christine Harris PhD for example.

I understand the worries and disbelief of some people.
However, I should make it clear that tickle therapy is not claiming to name itself medicine or replacing medical treatment. We can't say that it cures diseases of course. It's the same as any relaxation massage practices or yoga. You just know it's healthy no matter that yoga instructors and thai massage masters don't have PhDs in medicine.
It has real effect. And you just feel it by yourself that it is healthy and it helps you in many ways. And you know that many diseases come from stress overload. It's as simple as that.

Even though myself and our tickle therapists mostly have a degree in medical massage, you don't have to obtain medical license to bring the joy of tickling to someone whom you like.
It does you good and it's also much fun - what more do you need?
 
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Wolf said:
Kind of reminds me of the old days when guys would try to convince girls that blue balls was a real medical condition that could cause a man serious problems if he didn't get release....
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I used that line often when I was in college. :rowfull:
(1968 to 1972)
 
Wolf said:
Kind of reminds me of the old days when guys would try to convince girls that blue balls was a real medical condition that could cause a man serious problems if he didn't get release....
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Apologies to the OP for not staying on topic, but...

Wolf said:
Kind of reminds me of the old days when guys would try to convince girls that blue balls was a real medical condition that could cause a man serious problems if he didn't get release....
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milagros317 said:
I used that line often when I was in college. :rowfull:
(1968 to 1972)
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:shock: I'd never even heard of that! lol Shit... The things you learn on this forum...
 
rdhd said:
In defense of tickletherapist - they are in Russia, not the US. There is a difference in thoughts between the two of us. I'd be up (don't go there...) to trying their therapy once or twice, but the travel is a bit harsh.
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I'm not saying tickling isn't a great stress reliever, can be relaxing, therapeutic for some, increase all the happy chemicals, reduce toxins, burn a couple calories, who knows. That said, when it comes to science and shit, gotta consider the source, y'know, and outside of a few gimmicky looking things in Spain that barely counted as tickling, I really haven't seen any studies that suggest positive health benefits. Of course, that doesn't mean there's not, I just don't know any. I'd be hella interested in reading about them if there is legit info out there.

I want to be clear that I'm not implying anything creepy on tickletherapist's part. He doesn't strike me as someone who'd use the line of 'therapy' just to trick some lady into getting his hands on her. I honestly think he genuinely believes what he's saying 100%. And I think there's probably some truth to it, I just don't know how that approach will come across to folk, especially those who really don't like it at all.
 
chicago said:
I want to be clear that I'm not implying anything creepy on tickletherapist's part. He doesn't strike me as someone who'd use the line of 'therapy' just to trick some lady into getting his hands on her. I honestly think he genuinely believes what he's saying 100%. And I think there's probably some truth to it, I just don't know how that approach will come across to folk, especially those who really don't like it at all.
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You are absolutely right. Those who really don't like it won't ever like it in most cases.
It's obvious that even the best of things are disliked by some. As well as the fact that too much of a good thing is good for nothing.
Fortunately, not so many have negative attitude to tickling.
I also understand your concern that there are creeps who might use that healthy concept to trick ladies. You are an expert in noticing negative points in everything, which is also useful.
But the concept itself is for good.

And if it's really not just some tricking on your mind, but if you want to have fun yourself and share it with your future partner so that she likes it, then why not use that approach and stop feeling ashamed already?

Tickling itself is not porn and is not a fetish but it's useless to keep saying that. The videos that we shoot are emotional erotics at most as I name it. However, each of us has their own mindset anyway.
 
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You dont even necessarily have to verbally express it at first. When me and my girlfriend first started dating, I would randomly work in some snuggling tickles to her or tease her sides when we kissed. Ive never had to say "I have a tickling fetish" Its just implied in my behavior that I like it and it feels good.

Eventually I started pinning her down lightly and teasing/tickling her lightly. Then one day, several weeks into being together, I asked her to let me tie her down and if she'd tie me down (for both sex and tickling) and she tried it out. Shes into it! and even admitted "I can see why you like this..."

She may never like it as much as I do, but its growing on her and she's discovering she likes it more and more because:

1) She's nice, open, and non-judgmental

2) I went about it in a controlled, open, slightly vulnerable way without being too obsessed or embarrassed or zealous about it

I'd say- go about it like its not a big deal (cause its really not). Slowly incorporate it early in the relationship and begin to tell her that you like doing it but dont over do it.

If she kinda likes it, then great! and maybe you both can build on that. If not, then you may want to look for someone else if its really important to you.
 
TXDFW90 said:
You dont even necessarily have to verbally express it at first. When me and my girlfriend first started dating, I would randomly work in some snuggling tickles to her or tease her sides when we kissed. Ive never had to say "I have a tickling fetish" Its just implied in my behavior that I like it and it feels good.
Eventually I started pinning her down lightly and teasing/tickling her lightly. Then one day, several weeks into being together, I asked her to let me tie her down and if she'd tie me down (for both sex and tickling) and she tried it out. Shes into it! and even admitted "I can see why you like this..."
She may never like it as much as I do, but its growing on her and she's discovering she likes it more and more because:
1) She's nice, open, and non-judgmental
2) I went about it in a controlled, open, slightly vulnerable way without being too obsessed or embarrassed or zealous about it
I'd say- go about it like its not a big deal (cause its really not). Slowly incorporate it early in the relationship and begin to tell her that you like doing it but dont over do it.
If she kinda likes it, then great! and maybe you both can build on that. If not, then you may want to look for someone else if its really important to you.
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Nicely done!

Beats the hell out of all the cloak and dagger bullshit.
 
It's 2016.

There's no reason to be cloak and dagger about this stuff. None. Zero. If someone is interested in you, attracted to you, many times, they will bend over backwards, at least initially, to accommodate. And in that scenario, if you want to have your fetish satiated, you have to give your partner a reason to want it to play a role in your sex lives. How you go about this is on you...but the reality is, instincts should be to not just grab and claw and drive someone to tears. You need to spice everything with a sensualness. It needs to have an attentive, pleasurable edge.

This fetish is about touch, proximity, closeness. It's about reaction. It's about paying attention to your partner and their responses and learning their body. Lot's of lers are about sex as experience, with this inherent desire to create marathon sessions that last longer than a simple good romp. Look...people love attentive lovers. It's not rocket scoence. Given the fetish, this should be instinctual and primal. Teaching the nuances would be like explaining color to someone who only sees in black and white.

And on that note, if you're in a relationship, or with someone that is into you, and you tell your partner you want to bind them up and spend a good long time between their legs, tickling them until they have nothing left, and that doesn't trigger something, you probably are dealing with someone who is kinda dead.
 
Same way you achieve anything socially with women, whether as friends or lovers. By being fun, confident, making them feel safe, and just being a good human being.

However, those things all take practice. So don't stress if you don't feel like you have it just yet.

Also I think Chicago's post says the same thing but from a woman's perspective.
 
My wrist and index finger are literally sore from hunting and pecking 81 little boxes so I could mass-delete the off-topic parts of this previously perfectly valid thread.

If I accidentally got anyone's legitimate post by accident, I apologize.
 
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