anonymiss86
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 years. He's 28 and I'm 30.
I get really frustrated because he doesn't have the reactions I'm looking for when I tickle someone.
Like this morning in bed I wanted to playfully tickle him and I get so little of a reaction, if at all. He will just tell me to stop.
Sometimes I wonder if he feels it and is just resisting so I stop or if it just doesn't tickle him. And on top of that he's a blackbelt, so his blocking skills are above average.
He's most ticklish like on his feet, back, chest and neck. Which is weird to me. I'm an upper body tickler. It's just what I love.
He's definitely open and understanding with my fetish and let's me tickle him a lot and has on occasion let me tie him up.
But his sides and stomach are literally not finger ticklish at all. If I dig sometimes I get a reaction but then I feel like I'm hurting him and light tickling does nothing.
But weirdly enough, licking and kissing tickles him there and if I stick my tongue in his navel it's like electric. But then I can't see his reaction because my face is on his stomach. Lol. But this tells me he DOES have the ability to be ticklish there.
If I use the pinwheel in his back he literally cannot handle it. He tells me it's unbearably ticklish. It also tickles his sides well. But zero reaction to the pinwheel on his stomach.
Idk! I just want to be able to tickle him playfully with my hands and have him react and laugh. I want to be able to trace his stomach and feel him tense up with ticklishness. That is literally once of the hottest reactions to me that is totally absent with him. I love his body. He is 5'6 and 150 and has a really nice stomach. And it is such a buzz kill when I can't tickle him the way I want. It leaves me so frustrated. It makes me question if maybe I'm just not good enough at it. I have a really vivid memory from High School before we dated of another girl tickling him to the floor and he was in tears. And it was so hot. Lol. So is it just me?! Maybe he's too comfortable with me at this point?!
Does anyone else have experience with feeling frustrated that they are not getting their desired reactions? I'm probably just being too picky. But if anyone has any advice or experience it would be much appreciated as there are not many people who would ever understand that I could talk to. Lol!!
I get really frustrated because he doesn't have the reactions I'm looking for when I tickle someone.
Like this morning in bed I wanted to playfully tickle him and I get so little of a reaction, if at all. He will just tell me to stop.
Sometimes I wonder if he feels it and is just resisting so I stop or if it just doesn't tickle him. And on top of that he's a blackbelt, so his blocking skills are above average.
He's most ticklish like on his feet, back, chest and neck. Which is weird to me. I'm an upper body tickler. It's just what I love.
He's definitely open and understanding with my fetish and let's me tickle him a lot and has on occasion let me tie him up.
But his sides and stomach are literally not finger ticklish at all. If I dig sometimes I get a reaction but then I feel like I'm hurting him and light tickling does nothing.
But weirdly enough, licking and kissing tickles him there and if I stick my tongue in his navel it's like electric. But then I can't see his reaction because my face is on his stomach. Lol. But this tells me he DOES have the ability to be ticklish there.
If I use the pinwheel in his back he literally cannot handle it. He tells me it's unbearably ticklish. It also tickles his sides well. But zero reaction to the pinwheel on his stomach.
Idk! I just want to be able to tickle him playfully with my hands and have him react and laugh. I want to be able to trace his stomach and feel him tense up with ticklishness. That is literally once of the hottest reactions to me that is totally absent with him. I love his body. He is 5'6 and 150 and has a really nice stomach. And it is such a buzz kill when I can't tickle him the way I want. It leaves me so frustrated. It makes me question if maybe I'm just not good enough at it. I have a really vivid memory from High School before we dated of another girl tickling him to the floor and he was in tears. And it was so hot. Lol. So is it just me?! Maybe he's too comfortable with me at this point?!
Does anyone else have experience with feeling frustrated that they are not getting their desired reactions? I'm probably just being too picky. But if anyone has any advice or experience it would be much appreciated as there are not many people who would ever understand that I could talk to. Lol!!
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