Beginner Bondage/Restraints Recommendations?

Question about under-the-matress sets...

I've only seen pictures demonstrating the straps coming from the sides of the mattress with the lee in an X shape. Is the length adjustable enough to run it from the top and bottom of the mattress, Lee with wrists together and ankles together in a straight line?

Definitely go with something comfortable. Ropes are great if done correctly, otherwise you'd run the risk of someone slipping out or it cutting circulation. Handcuffs can hurt. Believe it or not Velcro bondage isn't too bad, but from my own personal experience leather cuffs for the wrists and ankles have been the most comfortable and effective. There may be some reasonably priced ones online. I guess try out different things and see what works best for you and your s/o. Enjoy yourselves!

mxaxtxtx said:

Question about under-the-matress sets...

I've only seen pictures demonstrating the straps coming from the sides of the mattress with the lee in an X shape. Is the length adjustable enough to run it from the top and bottom of the mattress, Lee with wrists together and ankles together in a straight line?

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Yes. They're very adjustable and can be used for any position with all beds up to king size.

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Now, to get me my own place and start "crafting"...

mxaxtxtx said:

Question about under-the-matress sets...

I've only seen pictures demonstrating the straps coming from the sides of the mattress with the lee in an X shape. Is the length adjustable enough to run it from the top and bottom of the mattress, Lee with wrists together and ankles together in a straight line?

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I've used the under the bed restraints as you described under the sides of the bed and it allows way too much movement by the lee. Definitely go the top and bottom route unless you want the actual restraining to be minimized. If you put the restraints at the side's instead, you'll see what I mean. It sucks!

One thing you can do is to put the cuffs on the upper arms instead of the wrists. I've been in that position and it does cut down on your mobility. You can also restrain the wrists with something else if you like as well for extra restriction with the cuffs on the upper arms.

I recently bought an under the mattress system with wide leather cuffs on Amazon. The cuffs are fur lined and very comfy. Perfect for a lee to wear all night long.

I have cheap leather cuffs that are still quite good and do what they're suppposed to do and I also own an under the bed restraint system. I have both tickled and been tickled with them and I or my tickle partners have not managed to break free. I'm very satisfied by my gear.

I bought my cuffs at a porn store a number of years ago (I don't remember how much I paid for them but they were cheap and they have been holding up quite well. I bought my under the bed restraints at a convention called Sexapalooza for about $80 and they are great! It makes for setting up for some tickle fun a lot quicker than how I used to do which was tying each individual cuff to either the bed posts or to a bed frame.

Sensualswitch10 said:

If you put the restraints at the side's instead, you'll see what I mean. It sucks!

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Not necessarily. Just be sure to buy the restraints with the adjustable straps. I use those and I put them off to the sides. I just tighten them to the point where the lee can't move an inch.

FeatherEndeavor said:

Not necessarily. Just be sure to buy the restraints with the adjustable straps. I use those and I put them off to the sides. I just tighten them to the point where the lee can't move an inch.

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Maybe I didn't have them hooked up right, but I had adjustable straps and it got to the point where she was almost doing the splits. It became uncomfortable for her yet she still had a lot of mobility. Maybe your lees are very flexible.

You're local Home Depot or Lowes has some good items for attaching restraints to a bed or something similar. Look up "Husky HangAlls". They have really strong Velcro straps that can wrap around almost anything, and they are dirt cheap.

See my photos for ideas on how to use them.

I'd recommend going on eBay and checking out longhair mohair scarves or tube scarves. Seller traummohair has nice ones, so does janerodas and Supertanya will make custom ones. I like being restrained by and tickled by those. Can't think of anything more sensual and erotic to be all tied up by.


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