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You should seek Professional Mental Health Services.
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gotta love when people not from jersey tell jersey people what jersey is.
Well look at that. You might want to consider writing WildLaughter and picking him up. Taking him where he needs to go. Do you have a car? I'm being serious. Be a friend to each other. Get to know each other. Be each others Wing Man!!!
P.S I HAVE been to New Jersey multiple times. I grew up in Mass. What am I missing on N.J exactly?
Ever get the feeling you're being drawn into the same old argument, over and over, and that maybe someone isn't actually looking for a solution?
Sorry, I see there are a lot of responses to this thread which I didn't read. Just adding my two cents on the original post. Not intending to contradict or argue with anyone who has already replied.
Absolutely some people are luckier than others. That applies to all things, not just tickling. That being said, the effort you put in and the strategy for lack of a better term that you use can maximize (or minimize) the amount of play you are able to engage in. Things like physical attractiveness, intelligence, all kinds of personality traits, even the family you are born into can all help or detract from your ability to find tickle partners. That doesn't mean you should give up and wallow in your misery. You might want to re-evaluate your approach and expectations though.
Do you think some people are simply luckier than others when it comes to tickling? The effort a person can put into this has little to no impact on if anything happens, and this just isn't meant for some?
Do you think factors such as where you live, how wealthy you are, and perhaps health all make a huge difference?
I was recently talking to a very well known person in the community who feels this way. Needless to say they were "born" into a better situation than myself - and others - it seems.
No. Its this attitude that keeps people hopeless, feeling helpless to control their own life outcomes, and guarantees no improvement.
People expect perfect partners to appear serendipitously on their doorstep, but thats near impossible.
I wouldnt call it luck that ive not had many issues finding partners, I'd call it work. Ive forced myself to gather up the nerve to attend gatherings, meet people, open up to vanillas about what I like. Ive dated people from here but it was always long distance. When I found Mr Right, I moved across the country to be with him.
I came from a poor upbringing. I dont make tons of money and I have debt.
I just think if ones own happiness is not worth fighting for and working for, whats the point of anything?
THIS!!! All DAY & ALL NIGHT- 365 DAYS A YEAR: THIS!!!! Thank you Chicago!!!
Love ya, doll
No. Its this attitude that keeps people hopeless, feeling helpless to control their own life outcomes, and guarantees no improvement.
People expect perfect partners to appear serendipitously on their doorstep, but thats near impossible.
I wouldnt call it luck that ive not had many issues finding partners, I'd call it work. Ive forced myself to gather up the nerve to attend gatherings, meet people, open up to vanillas about what I like. Ive dated people from here but it was always long distance. When I found Mr Right, I moved across the country to be with him.
I came from a poor upbringing. I dont make tons of money and I have debt.
I just think if ones own happiness is not worth fighting for and working for, whats the point of anything?
Well look at that. You might want to consider writing WildLaughter and picking him up. Taking him where he needs to go. Do you have a car? I'm being serious. Be a friend to each other. Get to know each other. Be each others Wing Man!!!
P.S I HAVE been to New Jersey multiple times. I grew up in Mass. What am I missing on N.J exactly?
Ever get the feeling you're being drawn into the same old argument, over and over, and that maybe someone isn't actually looking for a solution?
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Did you visit point Pleasant/wildwood/Atlantic city like most visitors go? Really, aside from the 3rd option, I think that's where most people prefer to live (or maybe it's just me).
Last November I got a message from him. I know what area he's from. He's pretty much between the mountains and the ghetto (referred to as vast wilderness).....with little in between. I know this picture is a joke but it kind of connects to the problem of "you find all sorts of people in NJ". NJ has about 9 million people spread across 7,000 miles (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_U.S._states_by_population_density). This kind of overpopulation creates "what do you want" amongst people. A hostile, rushed approach to everyone, and at nicest "I'm sorry, I don't have time, I'm too busy." Not really conductive for people looking to "score". I'm not going to say it's impossible, because what's impossible, just that it's a little tight knit (like I've said). Also there's a lot of people in really small areas and not many in the larger areas. ...I've seen a bit.
Ever think old guys just want to "cut to the point" and never really find the solution they're trying to get from the people who take a more patient, observational perspective on how people actually live? I mean living life, before tickling is added. That kind of shit. Because before you understand THAT, nobody understands anything about each other.
Just so we're on the same page- do you mean the Tickling Community in NJ is tight knit?
Ever think old guys just want to "cut to the point" and never really find the solution they're trying to get from the people who take a more patient, observational perspective on how people actually live? I mean living life, before tickling is added. That kind of shit. Because before you understand THAT, nobody understands anything about each other.
Do you think some people are simply luckier than others when it comes to tickling? The effort a person can put into this has little to no impact on if anything happens, and this just isn't meant for some?
Do you think factors such as where you live, how wealthy you are, and perhaps health all make a huge difference?
I was recently talking to a very well known person in the community who feels this way. Needless to say they were "born" into a better situation than myself - and others - it seems.
Personal Relationships. Goes a long way. Meeting a girl, taking the time to actually get to know her, and then making an effort to demonstrate attractive qualities. Doing things you're not necessarily a fan of, but know she likes, you'd be amazed at the results.
All of you people who have "tried to help" prescribe a "not my problem" approach to your "help", think that's why I might not be "grateful"?
It's not our problem.
What are we supposed to do, get together, take a vote and select some woman from the "community" to be your girlfriend?
I don't think there's any woman I dislike that much.
even if I did relate to you, you'd have something to disagree with. I hardly see how any of this is relevant.
nobody's FORCED you to post. so stop acting like you just filled some charity bucket. it's the Internet. it's leisure. you made your decisions.