Quick Advice

So very recently I've been thinking of going to meet ups or some kinda BDSM place to try out being tied down and tickled. But then I though that it would probably turn me away from it immediately considering the kind of timid person I am. So I rationalizer that I'd rathe have my first tickle torture experience with someone I know personally and trust. I do havecone friend who knows about my fetish and happens to have the same fetish as well, just not as prominent. My question to you guys is, how would I go about asking her if she'd be willing to help me with this and if she accepts what should we do for prep and during the session?

I would say be up front with her and ask if she would be willing to help you explore this. You wont know until you ask. If she does agree then negotiations are the next step. Open communication is key to any friendship and only helps scenes. Once you have figured out the basics then go into the fun toy chest for tickles. Picking out items you like to be tickled with and also seeing what she likes to use is fun and helps with that exploration. Communication is a necessity....wishing you the best in this endeavor

SpcyKitty said:

I would say be up front with her and ask if she would be willing to help you explore this. You wont know until you ask. If she does agree then negotiations are the next step. Open communication is key to any friendship and only helps scenes. Once you have figured out the basics then go into the fun toy chest for tickles. Picking out items you like to be tickled with and also seeing what she likes to use is fun and helps with that exploration. Communication is a necessity....wishing you the best in this endeavor

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Thank you! That was actually really helpful. I'll be sure to take that advice!

I think you're actually pretty lucky to have a friend that happens to have the same fetish! that makes it easier. If you haven't already asked her, I'd say go for it. But if you're just exploring, I'd say for the first time, keep it light and friendly. No tools, no restraints, just have you curled up on the couch and tickled. Or something. If you're naturally timid, then you should start slow, right?

Good luck with your friend. But good BDSM places are experts at putting new clients at ease, so don't rule them out.