I'll go with urban dictionary's "2) A man who Promotes gender equality but practices special privilege for women ."......because that's a lot like what you do when you go "everybody's equal!" and then go starting arguments with almost every guy. now MRA....they're a little wild. at a certain point it's female centric (stereotypical) feminism but in the opposite direction. MGTOW was an interesting idea until it became dramatized and flooded with MRA idiocy. the thing that gets me is whenever misogyny is brought up but nobody thinks if it's the consequential kind (the dominating kind) or true misogyny (rare, I think). equality "should" be "equal" no matter what, but yet we have this natural flow between men and women (rapport) of heightened interaction and attentiveness where the average guy just competes with one another or compares in topics of conversation. which is not "equal" any way you cut it. but act accordingly and you still get judged as being insensitive.
Since CD has stepped out, I'll go ahead and address this latest, yet, completely unremarkable salvo.
I
do tend to take the side of the women when arguing on the TMF. You know why? Because when arguing about male/female dynamics, they're usually
right, and guys like you are just being whiny, bitter, self-indulgent, all-these-women-are-bitches-who-don't-see-I'm-a-sensitive-wonderful-guy-so-it's-not-my-fault-I'm-alone
crybabies. Goddammit, there's reason most of you guys are single, and
it's not the fucking fetish. But anyone who tries to tell you that is just sucking up to the womenz. I tried to help you. Everyone saw how much I tried.
You want to be an asshole, and tell it like it is, and you think you're just being honest, just an average guy, calling it like he sees it. And their lack of response to your particular style of interaction means they just don't get it.
Also, sorry, but I
like women. I don't see them as adversaries. I've gotten to know them. Lots of them. I'm just one of those people they seem to like to talk to. Not in the way you think, of course. I am far from attractive. I look like God took Tony Soprano, made him Irish, and then took his giant, godly hand and pressed down, with a big :SQUISH:. But I could be sitting at a table on break at my last workplace, and the most adorable girl would come up, someone I barely knew, and she'd start talking to me at length about her troubles with her girlfriend. Happened to me all the time. Also, I kept a dish of mini chocolate bars at my desk. Got a lot of visitors.
"Special Privilege for women"? Fuck you. It's pathetic that you think people would only argue against your "points" except to curry favor. I'm not the one sending PMs to women on the forum and
wondering why they stop talking to you after a while.
The only
privilege they have here is being the few among many. It's not their fault or a special privilege that you're one of thousands trying and failing to make some progress in this incredibly limited venue.
You think true misogyny is rare? Ask a woman.