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Imagine your mom discovered your tickling fetish...

VivianLove

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So this should be a fun exercise in everyone's security with their fetish. We all love tickling and everything about it. It's obviously a wonderfully sexual thing for us, but imagine for a second that your dear old mother discovered your fetish. Maybe she found your videos or went through your corispondences with others on the matter... what would you do? How would you explain it? Would you be embarrassed and ashamed? Or have we reached a point in society where this is an acceptable sexual desire? Sound off boys and girls! I need some opinions because I may or may not have some explaining to do soon...

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Hi Vivian. Interesting topic you bring up here. Something like this kind of happened to me. A few years back, she found my hitachi, as well as some zip ties in my closet. She did not know what they were fou, but did ask.

To make a long story short, I just lied about everything. I said the hitachi was a back massager, and the zip ties were for fixing instruments. Needless to say, I've been very careful since then.
 
I would explain that it is part of my private life that I'm not comfortable discussing. Most parents are about as eager to talk with their kids about kink as their kids are. I imagine it would be a little awkward but your mom would be happy to put it out of her mind. Honestly, if my mom found videos or anything like that, I'm certain she'd never even bring it up to me. Regardless of whether it's an acceptable desire in today's society, most parents aren't looking for that level of detail into their children's sex lives.

If you have particularly nosy parents who want to prod about these things, even though they think they're harmless, that's a much more awkward talk. However, they're already coming from a place of non-judgement, so it's not too bad.

If you have sex-negative, shaming parents, then you're in a tight spot with a potentially strained relationship. Which means a clarifying question to ask at this point is what are you own parents views towards sex and sexuality, and how would those views shape how you react to it?

If I knew my mom had seen my porn stash, she'd never say anything to me, and I'd never say anything to her. We'd both feel shame, and do nothing to resolve the situation other than burying our feelings until they are nothing more than memories that keep us awake on quiet nights. It's the catholic way of things.
 
I told my mother when I was 12 that it interested me. As I had gotten an overly comprehensive sexual education from my parents earlier it was just "Oh, good that you know what you like." It was an non event.

Myriads
 
I told my mom at around 13, she was quite chill about it, she did ask some responsible questions and it was never brought up again
 
My Mom has been gone since 2009. However, if this scenario ever presented itself in my house, I'm sure my Mother would have just shook her head and said "Oh Bobby!" then walked away.
Years ago (before the internet) I had Tickling magazines in my dresser and my wife found them. She asked me about them and I just said I liked them. She knew I liked tickling her, but I think that started to open up the flood gates back then. It has slowed down to practically a halt now with her. I have found the Perfect play partner now and my desires are well taken care of. :thumbsup:
 
What would I have done? Plain and simple...woulda played this song right here and let it do the talking!

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My mother has always been a pretty down to earth person. Even as an elderly woman, I doubt she would make a big deal about it. I was pretty open about my sexuality with her once I came of age, though I never divulged specific details. As far as I know, she still has no clue
 
I'd probably die of embarrassment. Not that I'm ashamed of my fetish at all. I love it. There's just certain things I'd rather she not know.
 
My mom found out when I was a freshman in high school. She told me she'd looked at my browser history (we used a shared computer with different accounts) and found the sites I'd visited. She was cool with it and hasn't really brought it up since. As far as I can tell, she doesn't care.
 
If my mother found out, I'd probably be very uncomfortable and either not say anything, try to change the subject, or lie about it.... and it's not about being secure in the fetish, it's about my parents not needing to know what I like sexually. We're not a close family like that...
 
Told mine long ago. Nothing happened really and was never spoken of again.
 
It would be godawful embarrassing if my mother or any other relatives found out. Depending on exactly how it came out, I would probably find a way to do a damage limitation exercise with it and deflect the attention, and as my mother has a mostly innocent nature it might be possible that she would not even then fully understand the significance of what she had uncovered...I'd be counting on that really!

As others have said, it's not that I'm ashamed of being into tickling; it's that I am a naturally private person when it comes to sexual matters...so is my mother, and part of my embarrassment would be for her as much as me.

Actually when I was a nine-year-old kid she did discover my secret one day. My friends and I had been fantasising about tickling another friend of ours, and I had written something compromising down about it on a piece of paper and put it in my school pencil case. My mother found it there and read it out loud to me. I wanted the floor to open up and swallow me. She wasn't pleased, because she regarded what I had written to be evidence that I was bullying another child. But she just let me stew in my discomfort and then went on as if nothing had happened, never mentioning it again. I suspect she was a bit puzzled by it really. I don't think she was properly tuned in to the idea that tickling could be anything but innocent.

I've never forgotten that moment though, and have spent the following four decades making sure that nothing like it EVER happened again...
 
My whole family knows about it. I did some irresponsible stuff with the family computer when I was 15 years old. They saw the websites for realtickling and ticklingparadise. For the most part, they never mention it. When my dad gets drunk, he can be kind of a dick and make slight references to it. He just uses the word "porn" though, instead of "tickling".

Most embarrassing period of my life but 15 years later, I really don't give a shit what they think. All I know is everyone in life has their fetishes and kinks. To me, it's just tickling and if you have a problem with it, piss off. It's not child porn, animal porn, pissing or shitting on people, throwing pies at someone; there's a lot of stuff that can be considered far more unusual than this fetish.
 
I've had a fetish for stocking feet long before my tickling one, and my Mum somehow knew about it. I had my first stocking foot experience at 11, when I massaged and tickled my aunt's feet, so maybe she guessed it from there. She'd sometimes make reference to it in front of people during my childhood - normally after a few drinks - but not too often thankfully, probably only once or twice. However, I always felt embarrassed and awkward when she did.

She's no longer with us, but I don't think it would have any impact on her. She'd maybe not understand it, necessarily, but she'd not be up in arms about it.

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV
 
So this should be a fun exercise in everyone's security with their fetish. We all love tickling and everything about it. It's obviously a wonderfully sexual thing for us, but imagine for a second that your dear old mother discovered your fetish. Maybe she found your videos or went through your corispondences with others on the matter... what would you do? How would you explain it? Would you be embarrassed and ashamed? Or have we reached a point in society where this is an acceptable sexual desire? Sound off boys and girls! I need some opinions because I may or may not have some explaining to do soon...

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I got my tickle fetish from my mom. She died at a young age of cancer, but even if she hadn't, she'd be cool with it since she likes the same stuff.
 
For me this actually happened in two parts. The second of which is an experience that happened on here when I first joined.

As those who know me are aware, I enjoy both tickling, and women's feet.

My foot fetish started at my age of reason. I didn't fully realize I had a tickling fetish until I started writing to a straight male pen pal who also had a tickling fetish, when I was in my 20s.

When I was younger, I used to ask every female babysitter I had to smell their feet. Most thought I was a silly kid, so they said yes.

At one point, I asked a beautiful airline stewardess friend of my mom's to smell her feet. The lady said yes, and then told my mom. I was about.. eight at the time. I can remember my mom saying to me. "It really isn't right for you to ask my friend to smell her feet. don't do that".

I joined the TMF in 2002 after the passing of my straight male pen pal who was into tickling.

Shortly after I joined, I was on here one day, and someone who said they were a "Cop". said I was in trouble for supposedly talking to an underage girl. (It turned out this was false, as it was a troll who was causing trouble).

At that point, I said to my mom. "I think I have a problem, I joined this site about tickling, and someone who said they were a cop, said I'm in trouble. "

It turned out that I later found out from a very reliable source, that this was not true.

Thus, through certain.. experiences, my mom found out.

She just knew those incidents happened, but we never really discussed it.
 
It is possible that my mother already knows though I am NOT going to bring that up with her to make sure. I drew a tickling scene involving bondage when I was younger and hid the drawing in the deepest corner of my closet. One day, the drawing just disappeared and I've never seen it since. I'm guessing someone found it, most likely my mom, and threw it away. Also, we've (my brothers and I) recently found that my mother used to check our browser history when we were younger. So yeah, at this point, she probably already knows but I'm not going to ask her to make sure. Ignorance is a bliss.
 
I'm taking my fetishes to the grave. Only people that know/will ever know, are my therapist and whoever I'm in a relationship with.

When I was young child, I was curious about bellybuttons. And my parents knew that. But they don't know that it's sexual now that I'm older. And they never will as long as I can help it.
 
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I had lots of stories that I had printed off from the fiction section. My mum found them cos for some stupid reason I left them lying Around!! Any way she was like "you left your college work here, here you go" I almost died! I chucked them straight in the bin, and she said "are you sure you don't want to keep them!" No it's fine honestly!
I'm sure she read them and new!
 
My mom found out when I was around 14, before I learned how to clear the browser history. Most embarrassing moment of my life. I was still trying to figure out exactly why it turned me on so much and she made me explain why I was searching for things involving tickling and orgasms. A few weeks after that she told me that she hoped I knew better than to try and be in a tickling video. I told her that it was really none of her business. She later apologized and we never spoke of it again. I still feel incredibly awkward whenever anything about tickling comes up around her (the most recent Bachelorette had a guy who liked tickling and it was super awkward to watch it with her).
 
Both my parents confronted me about it my senior year of high school. They saw some "weird" pages in the browser history. I was so embarrassed at the time that I immediately blamed my best friend who was living with us at the time. He had already been talked to about looking at hardcore porn sites so it wasn't a stretch for me. It's been 14 years and they still think he's the one with "weird" fetishes.


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It's not something I'd like my mother to know, I am comfortable with what I like but I feel it's just something only I and someone close should know about.
It's probably why I've never found anyone to share it with! Ha :')
 
Sometimes I miss being a kid. During those ages, you can get away with almost anything.
 
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