I have a question that has been discussed before and if I am just referred to another thread that is fine. I have had this fetish for as long as I can remember. I have avoided relationships with women for reasons not including this fetish. I now have a second date with this great girl. I do not know if it will get physical but what concerns me if it gets physical with this girl or any other that I will not be aroused if tickling is not involved. What I want is to be able to do is please women sexually without tickling involved. Has anyone ever overcome this? Please let me know and thank you in advance for your responses.