Well the title pretty much says it all. I am just curious what everyone thinks about playful, innocent flirting while you have a spouse, partner, etc.
I tend to think that it is okay. I mean just because you are with someone does not mean you can NEVER find other people attractive.
In my case, for about the past year or so a really nice looking young college guy has been working at the market near my house. I have noticed he always tends to make eye contact with me and smile, often making corny little jokes that I laugh just a bit too long at. We have a really nice back and forth, and I find it flattering that he seems to enjoy flirting with me. Now do not get me wrong. I am married and aside from the fact that this guys is close to 30 years younger than me, I would never actually cheat on my husband. But still, if I am being totally honest, I genuinely look forward to going to the store, and find myself slightly disappointed when this cute guy is not working there.
Does anyone have similar experiences? Thoughts? Concerns? Condemnation they would like to throw my way? lol
I tend to think that it is okay. I mean just because you are with someone does not mean you can NEVER find other people attractive.
In my case, for about the past year or so a really nice looking young college guy has been working at the market near my house. I have noticed he always tends to make eye contact with me and smile, often making corny little jokes that I laugh just a bit too long at. We have a really nice back and forth, and I find it flattering that he seems to enjoy flirting with me. Now do not get me wrong. I am married and aside from the fact that this guys is close to 30 years younger than me, I would never actually cheat on my husband. But still, if I am being totally honest, I genuinely look forward to going to the store, and find myself slightly disappointed when this cute guy is not working there.
Does anyone have similar experiences? Thoughts? Concerns? Condemnation they would like to throw my way? lol