Ok so I'm hoping someone can help me with this dilemma.
I started dating a girl almost three years ago, whenever I date someone new I like to tell them of my fetishes early on that way if it's something they can't deal with we can part ways no hard feelings.
I informed her if them and she allowed me to tie her up and tickle her and within the next year we were doing it almost regularly at least once every three months which was good. Obviously I would've wanted more but that was good enough.
Since then her and I have been through a lot, me and my best friend who I was living with had a falling out about the shitty girl he was dating, so I moved out and in with my mom for what was supposed to be for just a few months.
Shortly after moving in mom had surgery she was home a lot she was on disability, so my girlfriend continued to let me tickle her whenever mom would be gone for long periods or during the short time mom was working when I had moved in.
Due to the lack of restraints, which were in storage for the few months we were gonna be at mom's, we used hypnosis as a bondage tool, it worked rather well.
Anyway I ended up staying with my mom for around a year and, my girlfriend hasn't let me tickle her since September 2016, despite me asking her countless times.
She has said before that she enjoys it, not nearly as much as I do, obviously. But I found this to be true in a sense once, but only once.
We have since moved out of mom's place, about a month or so before moving out mom had left town and I wished to tickle her it was end of April 2017, she wasn't feeling it and I was obviously disappointed, so she promised when we moved in to new place or the next time mom is out, that she would allow me to tickle her.
We've lived here about three months, it's now about the beginning of August 2017 and it still hasn't happened.* I've reminded her of her promise around the beginning of July, she apologized and agreed to do it a few days later, but that also fell through.
It seems every time I ask she is says ok but something comes up for what seems like* every time and she doesn't ever offer for it to happen without me bringing it up. I brought up her promise again and she showed no remorse for breaking her second promise not coming to fruition.* Also I have purchased her nylons and socks I enjoy, back shortly after we started dating, since we've been together she's worn them maybe three times of those three she's worn them on her own volition once, I'm not sure if she likes my fetishes like she says or if she just tries to appease me.
What do y'all think? Should I continue trying even though it seems mute? Should I try to bring it up to get again even though it doesn't seem to help? Should I just give up?
Any advice is appreciated
I started dating a girl almost three years ago, whenever I date someone new I like to tell them of my fetishes early on that way if it's something they can't deal with we can part ways no hard feelings.
I informed her if them and she allowed me to tie her up and tickle her and within the next year we were doing it almost regularly at least once every three months which was good. Obviously I would've wanted more but that was good enough.
Since then her and I have been through a lot, me and my best friend who I was living with had a falling out about the shitty girl he was dating, so I moved out and in with my mom for what was supposed to be for just a few months.
Shortly after moving in mom had surgery she was home a lot she was on disability, so my girlfriend continued to let me tickle her whenever mom would be gone for long periods or during the short time mom was working when I had moved in.
Due to the lack of restraints, which were in storage for the few months we were gonna be at mom's, we used hypnosis as a bondage tool, it worked rather well.
Anyway I ended up staying with my mom for around a year and, my girlfriend hasn't let me tickle her since September 2016, despite me asking her countless times.
She has said before that she enjoys it, not nearly as much as I do, obviously. But I found this to be true in a sense once, but only once.
We have since moved out of mom's place, about a month or so before moving out mom had left town and I wished to tickle her it was end of April 2017, she wasn't feeling it and I was obviously disappointed, so she promised when we moved in to new place or the next time mom is out, that she would allow me to tickle her.
We've lived here about three months, it's now about the beginning of August 2017 and it still hasn't happened.* I've reminded her of her promise around the beginning of July, she apologized and agreed to do it a few days later, but that also fell through.
It seems every time I ask she is says ok but something comes up for what seems like* every time and she doesn't ever offer for it to happen without me bringing it up. I brought up her promise again and she showed no remorse for breaking her second promise not coming to fruition.* Also I have purchased her nylons and socks I enjoy, back shortly after we started dating, since we've been together she's worn them maybe three times of those three she's worn them on her own volition once, I'm not sure if she likes my fetishes like she says or if she just tries to appease me.
What do y'all think? Should I continue trying even though it seems mute? Should I try to bring it up to get again even though it doesn't seem to help? Should I just give up?
Any advice is appreciated