• The TMF is sponsored by Clips4sale - By supporting them, you're supporting us.
  • >>> If you cannot get into your account email me at [email protected] <<<
    Don't forget to include your username

The TMF is sponsored by:

Clips4Sale Banner

The treatment of females on this site

Mrcool

4th Level Orange Feather
Joined
Jul 31, 2016
Messages
2,987
Points
36
Originally there was a thread here and inside the thread was a short little statement about how I feel women get treated as nothing but tickle candy on this website, I did not want it to long and I did not want to be dropping names. However NY let disagreed with the contents of the thread so I simply Decided to delete to make him happy
 
Last edited:
Well I am not familiar with your original post, but I will share my experience. Note: I do not speak for all women on here.

Overall I think I have been treated fairly well here. Sure I have had my share of creepy PM's, but those are easy enough to ignore. I obviously take the necessary steps to protect my anonymity, as I would not want just anyone from here to be able to find me in real life. Since I feel safe, my time on the TMF has been very enjoyable. If that ever changes for some reason, I simply will not come back.

One thing I will say however, is I that have learned to be selective with what I share and what I do not share. There was a time when I first found this site and it was so exciting for me to finally have an outlet to engage with others in this fetish that I was pretty nuanced about my sexuality. I could finally let loose and engage in a side of me in a way that beforehand, I could only do around my husband. It was fun, new and liberating for me. In response to that, some of the messages guys sent me were pretty shocking, even by the standards of an online fetish forum even though my profile is pretty clear that I am married and not looking to meet up with anyone from here. Since then, I have used a bit more caution.

I also use the chat room to stay connected with a handful of friends I have made here. As just about any woman who spends time there could identify with, I get a ton of PM's there too. Most of them are just people trying to be nice and I really do not mind them. However, I invariably get really creepy messages, which again, I just clix the "x" on the chat box and put that individual on ignore.

But like I said, a lot of the people there are really nice and I have gotten some PM's from guys who were being really nice and thoughtful and I have actually had some great and enlightening conversations.

Anyway, I think it was a nice gesture of you to reach out like this, Mr. Cool. Simply posing a question does not make you a social justice warrior in my opinion, but I think your assertion that we are all viewed as objects is a bit broad. Sure, there are some guys here who view us that way, but for the most part, I myself have been treated respectfully.
 
Last edited:
I've been objectified countless times on this site, but I'm not really surprised. I've never had anyone make any incredibly sexist or angry comments towards me, but it can definitely feel like you're a piece of meat when you have several dozen messages from men saying how much they want to tie you up and tickle you. That being said, it goes with the territory. I don't think tickling is anything less than a fetish for anyone on this website, so the fact that the entire thing is rooted in sex should be a red flag to begin with.

To me, it's just a numbers game. I have no hard data to back this up but I would say AT LEAST three quarters of the members on this site are male. And let's not lie, who doesn't dream about meeting their tickle partner on this site? When the competition is that ferocious, it's easy to see why women seem to be objectified more here, when I don't think that's really the case. Yes, it does happen, just like in the porn industry. It's a very male oriented industry.

Bottom line: just be nice to everyone you talk to. If someone is treating you badly or making angry or sexual remarks, ignore or report them. Sticks and stones can break my bones and all that.

I also have to point out that the arguing and personal attacks in this thread are pretty damn funny. It's literally bitchiness incarnate :)

Kisses!
 
I'm deleting all the off-topic parts of this. Please continue.

And if you feel threatened or attacked by someone wanting to discuss the treatment of women on this site, then feel free to not click on threads which discuss that topic.
 
I'm very blunt these days; I only chat with locals unless they are seeking a session. I tell them right away that I build friendships before I play. Any time I have met someone from here for personal play, they get their session in and disapear, so I don't play on the first several meet ups.

For clients, I have a vetting proccess in place. I won't veer too much off topic with chat. I've found a few regulars and am always happy to take on new ones, either for single sessions or ongoing.
 
Door 44 Productions
What's New

3/28/2024
Stop by the TMF Welcome Forum and take a second to say hello!
Tickle Experiment
Door 44
NEST 2024
Register here
The world's largest online clip store
Live Camgirls!
Live Camgirls
Streaming Videos
Pic of the Week
Pic of the Week
Congratulations to
*** brad1701 ***
The winner of our weekly Trivia, held every Sunday night at 11PM EST in our Chat Room
Back
Top