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Tickle for fun, not harm!

Ita24

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I've noticed on some sites a lot of people who are obsessed with tickling people who don't like being tickled. Or tickling someone to the point where it actually hurts the other person. I love tickling as much as anyone but I prefer it to be with someone who also enjoys it.
 
Some people like being pushed to the edge and sometimes past their limits.
 
That's fine, if someone's into that then go for it. My point is when people try to do it to people who don't want that.
 
Someone once told me that as long as they are being paid well and compensated, pushing one past their limits is justified.
 
I love the torture aspect of our fetish, but I don't get to practice it as much as I fantasize about it. That's where tickle fiction and cartoons are superior to clips, IMO.
 
One must distinguish between fantasy, such as the extreme fantasies of tickle torture in some of my stories, and real life. :D
 
What! This whole time I assumed that we were interested in beating the shit outta the lee and then tickling them, huh weird huh *rolls eyes
 
I think most of us understand that, in the real world (as opposed to our fantasies), tickling people who don't want to be tickled is wrong, in fact it quickly becomes assault. The trouble is that erotic activity often (always?) involves an element of playing around with power and control as well as pleasure, and tickling lends itself to that urge ever so nicely. It varies with personality, but some of us are drawn to walk a tightrope with that. That goes for a lot of Lees as well as Lers.
 
Nope. Even paid, limits need to be respected. I require safe words.

Now there is a HUGE difference between hurt and HARM. If I spank a person, it hurts them. If I spank them on their tail bone and it breaks, that's harm. If I accidentally dig in too hard when tickking, it might hurt, or if they pull against restraints, it might hurt. Pushing too far, whether paid ir not can be phychologically damaging. That's harm. Not to mention if you don't have consent it's assault at the least, or rape, if it's sexual.
 
I've noticed on some sites a lot of people who are obsessed with tickling people who don't like being tickled. Or tickling someone to the point where it actually hurts the other person. I love tickling as much as anyone but I prefer it to be with someone who also enjoys it.

I agree. My Golden rule always, I go with whatever my lee consents too. What she wants and how she wants her limit tested.
 
Nope. Even paid, limits need to be respected. I require safe words.

Now there is a HUGE difference between hurt and HARM. If I spank a person, it hurts them. If I spank them on their tail bone and it breaks, that's harm. If I accidentally dig in too hard when tickking, it might hurt, or if they pull against restraints, it might hurt. Pushing too far, whether paid ir not can be phychologically damaging. That's harm. Not to mention if you don't have consent it's assault at the least, or rape, if it's sexual.

If you don't know the individual personally, like a random escort, why would it matter if they are pushed past their limits? Also how can one prove they were assaulted or raped if the tickling doesn't leave any physical marks if done in a soft, gentle yet unbearably intense way?
 
If you don't know the individual personally, like a random escort, why would it matter if they are pushed past their limits? Also how can one prove they were assaulted or raped if the tickling doesn't leave any physical marks if done in a soft, gentle yet unbearably intense way?

WOW! Because they are PEOPLE. I hope any Pro's in your area are warned to stay the hell away from you.
 
If you don't know the individual personally, like a random escort, why would it matter if they are pushed past their limits? Also how can one prove they were assaulted or raped if the tickling doesn't leave any physical marks if done in a soft, gentle yet unbearably intense way?

Holy...! Now this sent a shiver down my spine! :scared:
 
I've noticed on some sites a lot of people who are obsessed with tickling people who don't like being tickled. Or tickling someone to the point where it actually hurts the other person. I love tickling as much as anyone but I prefer it to be with someone who also enjoys it.

I'd like to think if the 'lee is restrained and being recorded, then they would know ahead of time what they were in for. Plus isn't it illegal to record someone without their consent or knowledge especially if you're selling the clips online?

But I agree, I have seen some clips where the lee (almost always a woman) is literally being tortured, and violated and those vids repulse me. Tickling like sex should always be consensual
 
I have seen some clips where the lee (almost always a woman) is literally being tortured, and violated and those vids repulse me. Tickling like sex should always be consensual

I have never seen that in my life. But then again I do not buy many clips to begin with.

I have seen some pretty intense ones over the years though. The Hard Limit sort of deals with that (successfully so) and some FT and CZ clips I have seen contain some very strong reactions from the 'lees, without ever crossing into non-consensual territory.

However, I have seen a model freaking out on camera one day, and I don't think it was staged. It was Taylor Raz, on "Screw You And Your Flower Taylor", from JWTies. Have you seen it? Quite impressive!
 
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Feetoe.....having fun at someone's expense ;)

I think some might be overestimating the lasting effects of tickling someone beyond their limits. do you know or have heard of anyone being permanently traumatized from such an experience? perhaps they might be a little bewildered or disoriented right afterwards but they'll forget quickly and move on. for an escort who might be exposed to other far more harsh treatments, like being slapped or choked or having odd shaped objects inserted into them, tickling to the point of breaking down might be the most enjoyable thing they could be subjected to.
 
If you don't know the individual personally, like a random escort, why would it matter if they are pushed past their limits? Also how can one prove they were assaulted or raped if the tickling doesn't leave any physical marks if done in a soft, gentle yet unbearably intense way?

I'm not sure you quite get how ethics works, Feetoe! It isn't a question of what a person can get away with without consequences to themselves, it's about whether you cause another person to experience distress against their will.
 
I think some might be overestimating the lasting effects of tickling someone beyond their limits. do you know or have heard of anyone being permanently traumatized from such an experience? perhaps they might be a little bewildered or disoriented right afterwards but they'll forget quickly and move on. for an escort who might be exposed to other far more harsh treatments, like being slapped or choked or having odd shaped objects inserted into them, tickling to the point of breaking down might be the most enjoyable thing they could be subjected to.

We have all seen people (often in childhood) getting tickled who clearly hated it intensely. There are also plenty of instances of people writing in to "problems" pages asking for advice about boyfriends, relatives, etc, whose tickling attacks are driving the victim to despair. The thing is, it is not up to us to judge whether another person will be "permanently traumatized" by what we do to them. They have to be allowed to make the judgment themselves and to call the shots.

Personally I have avoided getting tickled all my life because I have a horror of being in someone else's control. It may or not permanently traumatise me, but I choose not to find out. It would certainly make me feel angry and humiliated and who is to say how long such feelings could last and what they could do to subtly undermine my actions and motives and choices over the years afterwards.

Some of us are more emotionally sensitive and defensive than others. People usually have their reasons, which are not always immediately obvious to an outside observer.
 
I think some might be overestimating the lasting effects of tickling someone beyond their limits. do you know or have heard of anyone being permanently traumatized from such an experience? perhaps they might be a little bewildered or disoriented right afterwards but they'll forget quickly and move on. for an escort who might be exposed to other far more harsh treatments, like being slapped or choked or having odd shaped objects inserted into them, tickling to the point of breaking down might be the most enjoyable thing they could be subjected to.

Really?
It's okay to do something bad to someone else if you don't get caught, and anyway, they've probably had worse?
W...T...F.
 
If you don't know the individual personally, like a random escort, why would it matter if they are pushed past their limits? Also how can one prove they were assaulted or raped if the tickling doesn't leave any physical marks if done in a soft, gentle yet unbearably intense way?

Yes it would matter if you don't know the person. That's like saying it's OK to abuse, or torment someone as long as they're a stranger. Or even worse, it's OK to violate someone, if you can get away w/it.

It's wrong to force your fetish on an unwilling participant whether you know them or not, and whether it can be proven or not. It's called being a decent person

You seriously sound like a sick individual if you don't see that it's wrong to torture an innocent person.
 
If you don't know the individual personally, like a random escort, why would it matter if they are pushed past their limits? Also how can one prove they were assaulted or raped if the tickling doesn't leave any physical marks if done in a soft, gentle yet unbearably intense way?

Yeah because its safe to rape someone as long as you leave no marks *rolls eyes* you are vile
 
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