I actually haven't been lee or ler in years. Used to with my GF. I feel like I'm different from a lot of the people in here. I'm not a huge fan of tickle torture or like really hard, fast tickling. I like more of the teasing type of tickling. Or like a massage where the masseuse discovers you're ticklish and it goes from there. Not sure if there's a name for that. I'm not sure what the extent of the language allowed to be used in here but I'll put it this way. Thinking about tickling or tickling itself is an easy way to get me "excited." Lol I wasn't sure if that was weird but seeing a community like this makes me feel more comfortable with it.