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Is the bondage important

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hogrig

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hello
stumbled upon your community and i think its great. I have an interest in tickling through an interest in bondage. Is the restraint important for other people here? I kove the idea of tickling a person in a rope hogtie is ideal.
 
Well, to many of us it is. The feeling that you can’t stop the tickling is part of the excitement.
 
For me, it's fine for role play and fantasy scenes, but it's not as important as the tickling itself; most of the time, a 'lee can be held pretty effectively physically, or rendered fairly helpless by tickling alone.

Diff'rent strokes.
 
Well, for me and my own version of the tickle fetish, it's not only important...it's essential!
 
I love it and need it. But its definetly not always necessary. :)

Hog tie... good choice!! :)
 
If bondage is being used (and as some have specified it is more integral into their play style), it's important that it be safe and secure and both ler and lee have a good level of trust. I've seen some bondage go horribly wrong, so I'm always looking for ways to learn more about techniques and practices.
 
Bondage makes the process of tickling a lee much easier but its not in everyones comfort zone so you need to know boundarys
 
hog ties are great for ticklish feet and sides--they drive me totally nuts!
 
I love it as I just don't want the ticklee to be able to pull away from my tickling fingers. It's not necessary but man it's fun as hell!
 
I can totally enjoy tickling without using restraints. Tickle fights are fun, and so are gentle pokes or playful tickle attacks. My wife and I do that a lot.

However, there is a point where bondage becomes necessary, even from the rational point of view of safety. As a tickler I have been elbowed, headbutted, kicked in the nuts, etc... more than a football linebacker. And I caused many a 'lee to slam her head on a hard surface; I remember one day I tickled a girl at a party and she inadvertently kicked a teapot. Even for a quick poke, a desperate jump of self-defense might cause some damage, whether to you or the furniture. So usually, I feel better if I can tie up my 'lee :D

And my fantasies, because they are usually on the rather extreme side, always involve some form of very restrictive bondage.
 
I've always tickled without restraints; life isn't a porn video, average girls will do a lot to please a guy, but for most (that I've met, anyhow, a good amount in my prime) the idea of not knowing what's coming and being tied up to receive it is unthinkable. Tickling really is the hard limit for people. Not putting rope in play normalizes it.
 
duderino84 said:
I've always tickled without restraints; life isn't a porn video, average girls will do a lot to please a guy, but for most (that I've met, anyhow, a good amount in my prime) the idea of not knowing what's coming and being tied up to receive it is unthinkable. Tickling really is the hard limit for people. Not putting rope in play normalizes it.
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I naturally cannot hold this as a universal truth, but in my experience I have never met a girl who did not harbor a bondage fantasy. Of course, at varying degrees of intensity: not all of them were into the hardcore stuff; they just liked to experience with handcuffs and whatnot. Others have surprisingly sophisticated play in mind. Thus, once again from my experience, bondage has been a great "entry way" of sorts for tickling. It was no way to please a guy for them, it was the actual thrill of being restrained that turned them on tremendously.

My wife herself was not into tickling until I introduced her to it, but she had been into bondage, and I quote: "as far as [she] could remember.".
 
Tenebrae said:
I naturally cannot hold this as a universal truth, but in my experience I have never met a girl who did not harbor a bondage fantasy. Of course, at varying degrees of intensity: not all of them were into the hardcore stuff; they just liked to experience with handcuffs and whatnot. Others have surprisingly sophisticated play in mind. Thus, once again from my experience, bondage has been a great "entry way" of sorts for tickling. It was no way to please a guy for them, it was the actual thrill of being restrained that turned them on tremendously.

My wife herself was not into tickling until I introduced her to it, but she had been into bondage, and I quote: "as far as [she] could remember.".
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I'm sure they're out there but "my type" doesn't go with it, I guess. I've always gotten joking questions like "you don't want to tie me up, do you?" Or "you're not into whips and chains, right?". I think I meet the type are pretty done with random happenings that are interested in settling down. Then again I'm a guy living in uptight outer NY suburbs. I think the fetlife crowd is further in to like. ...Atlantic City or something. Somewhere dense with people.

But I'll hear location has nothing to do with anything. ..I'm not throwing any universal/absolute claims out as the pussy slayers of the forum will latch onto it. Just experience.
 
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If a lee's reactions could potentially become a hazard to themselves or those around them, I think restricting movement is in the best interest of both parties in that respect, anyway.

I'm slowly working up to my first bondage session with my lee, because well, it can be very intimidating, particularly to someone new to the idea.

What we compromised on, is that she would let me tie her up so long as her girl friend would be allowed to supervise the session, or at the very least, be there.
 
Hello,

I prefer it to be playful and unrestrained for the lee. However, I am sessioning with Bella Carerra next week. Not sure if she has a preference, but if she does want to be restrained it will be my first such session with bondage. In fact, I think I'll ask her.

Thanks

K
 
I think it is for my husband. He likes the fact that I "submit" and let him tie me up whatever kind of way he wants. He often takes his time doing it, to let the dread build up. And when I'm helpless he likes to whisper things like "you're my prisoner" or "you're not getting loose until I'm done with you."
 
I find that a good way to do bondage for someone reluctant is, two velcro wrist restraints, with her hands together, and those tied overhead. That way, she could use one hand to undo the other restraint any time she wanted. I've never had someone actually do that, i.e., let herself out, but knowing that she could gives comfort!
 
Never have used bondage in my many years of foot play and tickling. Just my preference.
 
I’d say bondage can be really awesome if it’s done in the right way. Foot ropes feel really good if they aren’t too tight and being helpless is also awesome. Oh, and it looks really sexy.
 
I think they really go hand in hand, but bondage can be a lot of things, from rope and cuffs to being held down by people!
 
My wife gave me good advice/warning when she started introducing her vanilla husband to the world of bondage and kinks. She warned that once you get hooked...it's never enough...you'll always want more. I found that to be very very true with bondage and tickling. Before my satisfaction was met with feet in my lap and maybe something loosely wrapped around their legs. Over the years it steadily progressed to now I'm even investigating the purchase of a bondage table. The feet have to be completely immobilized now or it's just not the same. Damn her!!! lol
 
It depends on what's important to you, and communication with your partner. At times I have started: with no bondage: letting a new partner know I want to tickle her. Some like the sensation: other's don't. If a woman seems to enjoy: then I bring up bondage, because I want all my partners to enjoy and find in pleasurable. And yes I get the questions: you're not going to hurt me? Of course not: if a woman is willing to explore: I want her to come back and keep exploring.
 
amandahaze said:
I think it is for my husband. He likes the fact that I "submit" and let him tie me up whatever kind of way he wants. He often takes his time doing it, to let the dread build up. And when I'm helpless he likes to whisper things like "you're my prisoner" or "you're not getting loose until I'm done with you."
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Your husband is one lucky man! But, then you've heard that many times before! ;)
 
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