My girlfriend wants to be tied up

Yes, I'm very lucky.

Hello everyone, this is barely my second post here.

So I have my girlfriend, I love her with all my heart, she's beautiful, amazing and extremely ticklish. She knows all about my fetishes (foot and tickling) and is perfectly fine with them. She has given me foot jobs, let me suck her toes, and let me tickle her a couple of times but she has never been restrained like she wants now.

I had talked to her about this very common fantasy where she is tied (wrists and ankles) to a bed and I tickle her with no mercy at all. She had her doubts until now. It's a long distance relationship so we're not together most of the time. She's gonna visit me for the Holidays and a couple of days ago she literally told me "let's make your fantasy come true". I don't know if this is some kind of Christmas present or something but it's perfect.

Of course there are already a lot of posts about the "My first experience" kind of thing, but I wanted to share and receive some advices anyways.

I'm thinking about using some neck ties to tie her up. BUT, THIS IS MY DOUBT: I WANNA TIE HER TOES BACK. She's up to everything; she knows how I wanna tickle her and where I wanna tickle her so don't worry about her. What do you guys recommend for the toes? How can I tie them back? What should I use for that? I'd really appreciate some feedback.

Of course I hope I can share with you all how the things go, so help me if you want a good story haha.

Thanks for your time.

K from MX

Keep the bondage simple for the first time and be overly considerate of her needs.

Yes, first time don't go overboard. Maybe even check out Adam and Eve (web site) - they've got some bondage straps that use velcro. Thus, if you have to give her a quick exit (if she freaks.....), it's easy to let her out of bondage. I use these with the wife when I can. If she has no problems with your session, maybe you can move on to better methods, and then look into how to tie her toes back; that can be tricky tho. Good luck, anywho!

knismolagno said:

Yes, I'm very lucky.

Hello everyone, this is barely my second post here.

So I have my girlfriend, I love her with all my heart, she's beautiful, amazing and extremely ticklish. She knows all about my fetishes (foot and tickling) and is perfectly fine with them. She has given me foot jobs, let me suck her toes, and let me tickle her a couple of times but she has never been restrained like she wants now.

I had talked to her about this very common fantasy where she is tied (wrists and ankles) to a bed and I tickle her with no mercy at all. She had her doubts until now. It's a long distance relationship so we're not together most of the time. She's gonna visit me for the Holidays and a couple of days ago she literally told me "let's make your fantasy come true". I don't know if this is some kind of Christmas present or something but it's perfect.

Of course there are already a lot of posts about the "My first experience" kind of thing, but I wanted to share and receive some advices anyways.

I'm thinking about using some neck ties to tie her up. BUT, THIS IS MY DOUBT: I WANNA TIE HER TOES BACK. She's up to everything; she knows how I wanna tickle her and where I wanna tickle her so don't worry about her. What do you guys recommend for the toes? How can I tie them back? What should I use for that? I'd really appreciate some feedback.

Of course I hope I can share with you all how the things go, so help me if you want a good story haha.

Thanks for your time.

K from MX

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Amazon sells under the mattress restraints that use Velcro and are comfortable. They are adjustable and work well.

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As a woman who has struggled for years with her boyfriend/husband's need to tickle my feet, but has come to accept it and even enjoy it because it makes him happy, let me say this: I suggest you don't go overboard and lose your mind this time. Don't look at it as if you have to do "your worst" this one time. Keep it light and playful mostly, only going crazy for short bursts at a time. Pay attention to her entire body, even if you don't tickle her everywhere. Lots of touching and kissing and smiling at her. And then make sure to take care of her in any way she wants afterward.

The worst thing, I think, that happens in these budding relationships is that the woman (or submissive) starts to feel like more of an object than a partner or lover. They start to resent the attention paid to just the feet, or just the tickling, to the exclusion of the rest of them and to the entire experience together. Does that make sense?

It's been hitting me lately that... And please hear me out. Don't tickle her. Not yet. MAYBE there should be a totally different introduction to this. At least for the first hour or so preceeding the actual session.

First.. let HER pick out the restraints she would like to try. Whether you shop online... or show her what you have. It will give her a role in it. And the space to imagine for awhile what it might be like leading up to it. Bondage... even simple neck ties can look overwhelming. Or... not "scary" or binding at all to some. Clothes too. She may ask what would YOU lke for me to be in... but... just tell her surprise me... Here again, she has a role in it. And YOU look smashing too. There is nothing worse imho then seeing a man in jeans and a tsirt about to take on a Dominant role over a sexy outfitted woman.. Just my opinion. Idk you and how you dress. Anway...

Now... I would tie her sitting up to watch some tickling porn first Sit across the room from her. Watch her watch it and tell her you want to watch a beautiful women watch one. Then.. watch her reactions to it. Does she seem visably excited...? Is she enjoying her bondage? Or is she going to complain... freak out in 5 minutes. You have to prepare yourself for freak outs. They happen. And how you handle that will make a BIG difference in how she gets back to feeling like she can trust you. Look up advice for the care of submissives. Preparing yourself and them mentally- and after care. And she also gets to watch YOU get excited watching HER. Not the tickling porn...

At some point take off a shoe or sleeve. Start making her feel vulnerable. Little by little. Then you'll have a better idea of how she is coming along with it and feeling. She'll probably be offering lots of insight. As half lee... its a LOT to me to think off facing a real Ler. That introduction... and what preceeds it is part of it for me. The foreplay essentially. The Ler side knows how I myself can make it extremely intense for someone else. The mental, and the heights of the physical tickling. Different levels of lights to med to heavy. Take this seriously but.... seduce her slowly into this.

If she is saying how excited she is.... and showing it... (Ask her what she thought of the video ...and could she imagine being put through that.. If she says YES... shes cool with it...) She will answer you ... THEN... you can proceed. Or not... that may be all she can handle. You may even have sent her tickle porn already or pics/ stories. But... there's a big difference in watching with the person. THAT can be intense too. Believe me... I know. *^_^* I want more nights like the one I just described. (I had something simliar one night- just unrestrained. I believe i became WAY more ticklish that evening because of just that. It made me blush and nervous and giggly. I was a turned on... mess. *^_^* It was WAY apparant. She though is new.)

So I think for women AND men... It's gotta happen at a more slow and seductive...relaxed pace. Tickling aspects are still involved... but not jumping right into it. You have to leave someone wanting MORE... Like a 5 star dessert... Tickling can GET more extreme over time... which hey may only take a couple weeks. Ya know? This is a marathon... not a sprint. If you two fall in love... you just don't want to end up with a partner that hates it. But I love that she herself is the one that suggested this. But she ultimately still has no idea what that will truly entail.

I hope you both have a wonderful time.

knismolagno said:

Yes, I'm very lucky.

Hello everyone, this is barely my second post here.

So I have my girlfriend, I love her with all my heart, she's beautiful, amazing and extremely ticklish. She knows all about my fetishes (foot and tickling) and is perfectly fine with them. She has given me foot jobs, let me suck her toes, and let me tickle her a couple of times but she has never been restrained like she wants now.

I had talked to her about this very common fantasy where she is tied (wrists and ankles) to a bed and I tickle her with no mercy at all. She had her doubts until now. It's a long distance relationship so we're not together most of the time. She's gonna visit me for the Holidays and a couple of days ago she literally told me "let's make your fantasy come true". I don't know if this is some kind of Christmas present or something but it's perfect.

Of course there are already a lot of posts about the "My first experience" kind of thing, but I wanted to share and receive some advices anyways.

I'm thinking about using some neck ties to tie her up. BUT, THIS IS MY DOUBT: I WANNA TIE HER TOES BACK. She's up to everything; she knows how I wanna tickle her and where I wanna tickle her so don't worry about her. What do you guys recommend for the toes? How can I tie them back? What should I use for that? I'd really appreciate some feedback.

Of course I hope I can share with you all how the things go, so help me if you want a good story haha.

Thanks for your time.

K from MX

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She knows how you want to tickle her, but you don't know how you're gonna? No, I am worried about her.