I always wonder about people who register and interact on a sexual tickling site but they don't find it arousing in any way
I always wonder about people who register and interact on a sexual tickling site but they don't find it arousing in any way
I do too. And some of their explanations are never explained well enough for me to go "Oh alright. I understand now."
SOME answers are just too muddled or evasive that end up raising more questions. And that always raises a red flag for me. Not in exactly a bad red flag way just... there's more going on than is being said. Maybe erectile disfunction issues or STD's. And thats their way of shutting down any sexual questions or flirting etc etc Idk... hard to say ultimately there are so many variables.
Late night thoughts on this. Off to bed. Night!
Not sure if this has anything to do with my post, but I explained a little bit in my response to Chicago. I do get aroused by tickling. I'm just not an overly sexual guy. I have never enjoyed content that was sexually explicit. It's just how I am. I've wondered if I may be asexual, but I am able to get aroused so I don't think I'd fit with that. If you have any questions about it I'd be happy to answer.
Nope I wasn't directing this at you or about you. Just in response to chicago. I was thinking of other people/posts to be able to answer her. Not this.
Hell my Boyfriend and I are in couples counseling over Tickling. (Partly, not the only reason.) I thought a few months ago maybe I too ws turning Asexual but... Tickling is far too sexual for me. And it shows within my stories. (None of which you would be interested in Ita.) I could go on and on with that but anyway. No- I was just talking in response to chicago. I thought you might think that- and maybe she was but I wasn't. I apologize for not making myself clearer on that.
Asexual? You?! Seriously, what you just said is proof that we are our own worst judge
Found this so rude.
Found this so rude.
I feel like I go against a lot of the things people love in these groups. Things I see a lot of that I hate:
1. The obsession with ticklish feet. I just can't relate. I enjoy ticklish stomachs and sides much more.
2. Desire to tickle people who don't want to be tickled. I don't get any joy out of tickling unless both people involved are enjoying it. Just because someone laughs does not mean they like it. It's involuntary.
3. Torture. I don't like people being tied down and tickled mercilessly to the point where they're peeing themselves, crying, out of breath etc. It's just too intense for me.
4. Sexual nature. As much as I like tickling between couple's, I like it in a playful nature. I hate when tickling stories go from playful to sexual. Like saying things such as wanting to make them cum from tickling sensation. Makes my stomach turn.
5. A lot of talking during tickling. When people repeat things like "tickle, tickle, tickle" or "coochie coochie coo" it makes me cringe. I don't mind a little bit of it but there's a fine line.
You may be wondering, what do I like? I like tickling between people in a relationship or at least flirting with each other. I like tickling that's relatively slow like sliding your fingers across the belly and when the person squirms be like "Ooh, does that tickle?" I like massage tickle stories. Like someone is getting a back massage and as they are getting closer to the belly or sides there's a giggle and it goes from there. I LOVE tickling if it's anything like that. I just don't know if there's anyone else out there that can relate to what I'm saying. Also please note, I AM BY NO MEANS SAYING THE PEOPLE THAT LIKE THE STUFF I LISTED ARE BAD OR WRONG. JUST LISTING WHAT I PERSONALLY DONT LIKE.
People often forget that others exist outside their own suppositions about them, and are actual living, breathing human beings with their own issues.
Really?! Okay, if it is I apologize. I fail to see how I was being rude though. What I meant to say is I find the thought of our Captured Doll, our resident serial comforter of broken hearts and sexiness incarnate (you should see her on the Chat), thinking herself "asexual" so far off the mark, that I couldn't help finding it odd. If not downright funny. In other words, that's the last thing I'd call her. My apologies again if it was offensive, it was really not intentional, Dollie~
I really don’t want to speak for doll and didn’t intend to. She can speak for herself and I can see she has. But I read her comment as being sincere, and for any sexual person to feel they may be turning asexual, I just don’t find anything funny about that. I’m not going to drag it out though.
I completely understand what you mean. I like the lighter side of it. The fun, silly, playful side.I feel like I go against a lot of the things people love in these groups. Things I see a lot of that I hate:
1. The obsession with ticklish feet. I just can't relate. I enjoy ticklish stomachs and sides much more.
2. Desire to tickle people who don't want to be tickled. I don't get any joy out of tickling unless both people involved are enjoying it. Just because someone laughs does not mean they like it. It's involuntary.
3. Torture. I don't like people being tied down and tickled mercilessly to the point where they're peeing themselves, crying, out of breath etc. It's just too intense for me.
4. Sexual nature. As much as I like tickling between couple's, I like it in a playful nature. I hate when tickling stories go from playful to sexual. Like saying things such as wanting to make them cum from tickling sensation. Makes my stomach turn.
5. A lot of talking during tickling. When people repeat things like "tickle, tickle, tickle" or "coochie coochie coo" it makes me cringe. I don't mind a little bit of it but there's a fine line.
You may be wondering, what do I like? I like tickling between people in a relationship or at least flirting with each other. I like tickling that's relatively slow like sliding your fingers across the belly and when the person squirms be like "Ooh, does that tickle?" I like massage tickle stories. Like someone is getting a back massage and as they are getting closer to the belly or sides there's a giggle and it goes from there. I LOVE tickling if it's anything like that. I just don't know if there's anyone else out there that can relate to what I'm saying. Also please note, I AM BY NO MEANS SAYING THE PEOPLE THAT LIKE THE STUFF I LISTED ARE BAD OR WRONG. JUST LISTING WHAT I PERSONALLY DONT LIKE.
I feel like I go against a lot of the things people love in these groups. Things I see a lot of that I hate:
1. The obsession with ticklish feet. I just can't relate. I enjoy ticklish stomachs and sides much more.
2. Desire to tickle people who don't want to be tickled. I don't get any joy out of tickling unless both people involved are enjoying it. Just because someone laughs does not mean they like it. It's involuntary.
3. Torture. I don't like people being tied down and tickled mercilessly to the point where they're peeing themselves, crying, out of breath etc. It's just too intense for me.
4. Sexual nature. As much as I like tickling between couple's, I like it in a playful nature. I hate when tickling stories go from playful to sexual. Like saying things such as wanting to make them cum from tickling sensation. Makes my stomach turn.
5. A lot of talking during tickling. When people repeat things like "tickle, tickle, tickle" or "coochie coochie coo" it makes me cringe. I don't mind a little bit of it but there's a fine line.
You may be wondering, what do I like? I like tickling between people in a relationship or at least flirting with each other. I like tickling that's relatively slow like sliding your fingers across the belly and when the person squirms be like "Ooh, does that tickle?" I like massage tickle stories. Like someone is getting a back massage and as they are getting closer to the belly or sides there's a giggle and it goes from there. I LOVE tickling if it's anything like that. I just don't know if there's anyone else out there that can relate to what I'm saying. Also please note, I AM BY NO MEANS SAYING THE PEOPLE THAT LIKE THE STUFF I LISTED ARE BAD OR WRONG. JUST LISTING WHAT I PERSONALLY DONT LIKE.
(2) For myself, as lee, I get really excited over the idea of being at the ler's total mercy, and for her to be merciless. Realistically, of course, I would need a safeword and expect nothing less than for her to respect it. I'm pretty much the same way as ler, except it doesn't really give me the same rush to make someone else feel powerless. It's still fun and enjoyable, though.
I find it interesting that you used "her" in your response for point (2). Does that mean you wouldn't find tickling enjoyable/ be totally at the mercy of a tickler , unless it's a female?
I don't like guys tickling me, correct. As my profile explains.
I've always been fascinated by tickling. I like playing with women. Men, don't flirt with me, play with me, or try to steer while I'm playing.
So why is it that you find men so repulsive ?
Right, I don't like when guys flirt with me, play with me, or try to steer while I am playing (e.g. if they suggest to a girl "you know, you really ought to get gmt's feet.") You're the one that said repulsive. I just don't like it.
It's not what this thread is about either, so I would rather it not derail. It's not fair to the OP.
Got it!