How did you find a tickling partner?

I’m having trouble finding one...

Well firstly I am into way more than just tickling. Secondly I told myself I would only hook-up/date guys that were kinky. The amazing guy I am now married too, we met at a local general BDSM play party and this particular party was a 21+ party. They asked everyone to bring a bottle of booze. Well I brought Gin, which is my favorite. I noticed that my now husband and I were the only ones really drinking on it. He was young and I found him attractive. We started talking and later he sounded himself which also made me curious to try it. We chatted on FetLife, went to another play party(Same host not 21 and up), played at the party, statred to date/play privately, and the rest is history. He is strictly a Ler and I am a switch, we're in an open marriage, so we can hook up with others. Right now I also have an amazing sub, who I took on after he saw me for a professional session.