Switches suppressing your 'Ler side?

mikeytheman921 · May 7, 2018

I'm a switch who has learned to be more of a 'Lee over the years. Most women hate being tickled, and i find it's a lot easier (never EASY easy, but easier) to find a woman to tickle me. I've tried to wean myself off M/F videos and M/F content since i don't think it's realistic that i'll be tickle torturing future partners. Every time i've tickled a past girlfriend, it's brought me bad karma in the relationship, so i've learned to enjoy being a 'Lee.

TicklishBlackGuy · May 8, 2018

Its not a matter of women hate being tickled, you just gotta find the right ones that don't mind guys tickling them. M/F is not unrealistic, it is very realistic. I mean me and my gf switch a lot even though she's actually a submissive. Its a matter of finding the right women.

barefeetarebest · May 9, 2018

mikeytheman921 said:
I'm a switch who has learned to be more of a 'Lee over the years. Most women hate being tickled, and i find it's a lot easier (never EASY easy, but easier) to find a woman to tickle me. I've tried to wean myself off M/F videos and M/F content since i don't think it's realistic that i'll be tickle torturing future partners. Every time i've tickled a past girlfriend, it's brought me bad karma in the relationship, so i've learned to enjoy being a 'Lee.

*FEELS

6empty6empty6 said:
You have to be a switch to get the best of both. Anyone who isn't a switch is missing out.

^^ THIS, Absolutely this. But it is decidedly not as simple as conjuring up someone to fulfill this need.

NibbleMyTootsie · May 9, 2018

mikeytheman921 said:
I'm a switch who has learned to be more of a 'Lee over the years. Most women hate being tickled, and i find it's a lot easier (never EASY easy, but easier) to find a woman to tickle me. I've tried to wean myself off M/F videos and M/F content since i don't think it's realistic that i'll be tickle torturing future partners. Every time i've tickled a past girlfriend, it's brought me bad karma in the relationship, so i've learned to enjoy being a 'Lee.

Hello, New here, btw.
I think it's great that you have opened up your Lee side.
I'm a switch. Unfortunately my SO is strictly Ler. I wished he was more open to being a Lee. I can make his jump but he absolutely HATES being tickled. I naturally have a dom side that wants to tie him up and tickle him head to toe.
Was there anything that helped open you up to being a switch besides not finding many ticklish females?

mikeytheman921 · May 9, 2018

NibbleMyTootsie said:
Hello, New here, btw.
I think it's great that you have opened up your Lee side.
I'm a switch. Unfortunately my SO is strictly Ler. I wished he was more open to being a Lee. I can make his jump but he absolutely HATES being tickled. I naturally have a dom side that wants to tie him up and tickle him head to toe.
Was there anything that helped open you up to being a switch besides not finding many ticklish females?

Hmm... i tend to go for the sweet, somewhat shy type. When a woman has a kind, sweet, gentle disposition in all other aspects of life, yet suddenly in a tickle session, she unleashes this whole other side! She suddenly becomes an evil vixen.

Something about it really gets me going.