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How old is too old???

That now makes sense. I think a year ago or two I joined the KIK tickling room to see what it was about, a member started chatting with me through messages, less than a hour later I got booted. I told her what happened and she said probably because I wasn't active, one hour? My age was it, I was 45 then.

I won't lie about my age, I am who I am. Hate me or love me. Also, fuck that KIK tickling group.
 
Darkknight said:
That now makes sense. I think a year ago or two I joined the KIK tickling room to see what it was about, a member started chatting with me through messages, less than a hour later I got booted. I told her what happened and she said probably because I wasn't active, one hour? My age was it, I was 45 then.

I won't lie about my age, I am who I am. Hate me or love me. Also, fuck that KIK tickling group.
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who wouldn't want Batman in a KIK group?
 
There's tons of other tickle groups on Kik

#thetmf
#ticklingforum

Just a couple
 
chicago said:
There's tons of other tickle groups on Kik

#thetmf
#ticklingforum

Just a couple
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This is true. I got removed from #ticklingforum for inactivity a couple of months ago, but I was legitimately inactive due to having to work as much as I've had to lately.
 
vainbetrayer said:
This is true. I got removed from #ticklingforum for inactivity a couple of months ago, but I was legitimately inactive due to having to work as much as I've had to lately.
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That is a rule.some groups have as the groups tend to have a limit of 50 members and some fill up.

Either way, removal means you can rejoin at least.
 
chicago said:
That is a rule.some groups have as the groups tend to have a limit of 50 members and some fill up.

Either way, removal means you can rejoin at least.
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I may in the future. I'm still busy with life right now, and will be for a good while.
 
Age means a lot to young girls.....They don't want to be tickled by "old guys"...
I do pretty good until they hear I'm 65....I could lie, but the grey hair gives me away.
Age shouldn't matter..A tickle freak is a tickle freak..But, .....oh well
 
In my opinion, one of the fundamentally superior traits of the Internet has always been is its ability to equalize by exposing only people's ideas as revealed by their text.

Unless the group you mentioned had some sort of rule you were violating, then that rejection seems unwarranted and unfortunate, b0xr.

I don't see how there could be any such thing as "too old" to exchange thoughts and ideas someone is capable of exchanging. If anything, I wish people could live even longer and continue to do so.
 
You're awesome "Doll." BE POSITIVE. b0xr, stay at it dude...stay on course...be happy...life is short so enjoy it while you can. :)
 
Many of you on THE might remember me. I've been here since almost the beginning. I've made videos, and hosted tickle parties and had many meet ups with tickle friends.when I was younger, I was always able to find someone for a tickle. However, as I got older, I noticed that there were less and less encounters. Now that I am 62 I find I have not been able to get anything going. It's frustrating and sad. I miss it greatly. I still try to get hookups going but with no luck. I just get weird looks and reactions. Maybe we need a special forum for people over 50. Just a thought.
The Laugher
 
isurrender said:
To be honest, I lie about my age here.
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First of all, this reply is absolutely hilarious!

Second, I must pile on that ageism sucks horrendously. Both upwards and down, in almost all walks of life. But perhaps especially for a tickling fetish. The fact this has been a big part of who I am since at least age 3 -- whether I wanted it or not -- makes it obviously not something subject to arbitrary age limits imposed by others.

It is preposterous to say you cannot speak of it to/with anyone younger than 18 or older than X. I doubt anyone reaches 18 without naturally tickling and being tickled many times! As for a "too old" line, ok, at what age should we no longer feel attraction or have fun? Are you kidding me?!

Individual preferences about whom you pursue tickling with, as with any activity, are fine. But acting like it's wrong for others to tickle, be tickled, or want tickling at any particular age is utterly wrong.

Sorry to join the rant, but I couldn't help it. I'm 45 now, and keenly feeling both sides of this.
 
CapturedDoll said:
Ageism sucks. And it occurs in every single age group. From 18-100. “Too young”. “Too old”.

Creating boundaries is something that occurs naturally in all of us. We’re all “guilty” of this.

Lately as a barrier, and to be funny, I’ve been using the phrase “Get off my lawn”. Some people SHOULD get the hell off my lawn. But that’s any age group. I will mentally escort anyone off my lawn if they treat me badly. The phrase “an eye for an eye…” … maybe should be altered to… “an eyebrow for an eye.” An eyebrow being higher. Not to say someone is better than. Just classier. Refined. The higher ground.

Someone said to me the other day “Hey CD you’re getting old!”. I said.. “What a Gentlemanly thing to say __. *rolls eyes*.

Seriously? This came from a man MY AGE.

I’m turning 40 this year and it's an age I’ve always looked forward to. What I don’t like is the negative attachment growing older has. It’s an honor and a gift to be given more years... for those of us still here. Not everyone gets that gift…

The fact you were kicked out of this group based on ONE person’s judgement of what HIS age limits are… are just that: ONE PERSON’S JUDGEMENT. I cannot sit here and say he’s wrong for what he wants for his group. It does suck being left out of certain age groups for certain activities. But... If I were single I would make a conscious decision to date people around my age and older. I would want to be dating someone who I have more things in common with. Music, movies, generational life stuff. That doesn’t mean I couldn't fall for someone younger. (I wouldn't be happy about that AT ALL.) But.. love doesn’t work by the rules.

Friendship doesn’t have rules really either. What draws us to friendship is based on a lot of factors. But... when starting out as strangers... there’s a lot more mental distance between us. Or rather, no preliminary emotional investment. I myself don’t write 99% of the people here or ANYWHERE online. It’s not because I don’t want to. It’s because I can’t! Too many people, too little time. In life we can only handle so much. There are limits. There has to be.

He is wrong for how he went about dealing with you. THAT was wrong. But as you yourself know… it takes times for people to learn how to treat people. There are SO MANY lessons to be learned in this life. We can’t learn them all in one day. And for those just entering adulthood. They aren’t perfect. Wisdom is learned as we go along. And we, as we grow closer to leaving this life…. aren’t leaving it as perfect beings either. He’s got a lot to learn… and I don’t envy him. I didn’t even value my own youth. I couldn't wait to be the age I’m about to become. I knew I would have the life lessons I sought after by this age. I don’t have all of them certainly. But I have enough now that my 20’s look ridiculous to me. I could do without some of the pains and such I experience now. But… I like my mind far better now. :) I wonder what I’ll be like by the time I’m 60. I hope it's an even better version of me.

He doesn’t know you. But, you don’t know him either. It’s wrong in turn to say you are X things better than him. That’s your anger talking. Of which I can understand. I’ve had similar anger. But as someone who understands that anger… I think I can point out to you that basically you just went beyond his age judgement to possibly an even worse place. “I’m better than you in X and X and X”. You can’t realistically say that either. The only thing that IS fair to say is… you are more open minded than he is, on the issue of age range with the people you talk with. And that, you wouldn't just ban someone based on age. Without a word to the person as to why beforehand. (Unless they are underage or talking about illegal or sick activities.) See.. there are STILL limits on how open minded we all can be.

Sometimes for me… all it takes is one sentence to be done with someone if I feel they are creepy, or shady, or jerks or whatever. I can’t help that. I am one person navigating a sea of strangers. That I may or may not engage with in real time. I try not to snap to judgement. But it happens. And it happens with everyone. And using age is one of the most common. It’s easy. It’s uncomplicated. It’s straight to the point. That point being… “I don’t know you well enough to kick you out of here for any other reason BUT age.” I myself don't do it. But I did it when I was a teenager. (In thoughts- from a distance. Never in person or to the person) And not for very long thankfully.

So, don’t take offense to it. He has nothing else to go on. I know this hurt you… but think of the alternative: If he knew you better... and threw you out for a reason that means something of value to you- that’s close to your heart. THAT I would think would hurt much more. This is an extremely trite reason. It’s so weird for me to see it still being used. THAT is OLD. So be it. I’m sure there is at least one person in that group that is now judging HIM in how he treated you. The cycle continues… and it probably always will. So just mentally tell him: ”Get off my lawn”. lololol :) ;)

Now... it is up to you, to turn this into a positive. Maybe consider making your own kik group. :) And avoid the very thing you were just judged on. Continue to use your wisdom and be the example you want to see in others. Be the eyebrow. :)
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Thanks for having this discussion. I'm finding it's all too relevant to me now two (I'm 47).

I've loved tickling (from both perspectives) my whole adult life, but I never have had a chance to explore the kink until recently. There have been several occasions where I have been made to feel unwelcome in the discussion because of my age, and it was tempting to just give up, resigned to the idea that my opportunity to explore this had passed me by, never to return. It's encouraging to know that there are others of you out there in the same boat as me.

I wish I'd been able to participate in this discussion when it was still fresh, but thanks for giving me reason to think that all hope is not lost..
 
I'm just glad I got in so many ticklings in when I was in my 20's!!! That was a time when I tickled more girls and women than I could shake a stick at. Got layed a lot then, too. So, I guess I used up all my "action" coins back then and have no more to use now! :p
 
There are people into tickling of all ages. I mean like from 18-70 that I can think of off the top of my head. Dont worry about it.
 
Sorry that happened to you. That was a dumb move for that group to remove you because of only one person's judgement. Looks like the mods didn't discuss the decision to kick you out, but if they did, they didn't discuss it very well. It should have been their responsibility to set age parameters and have a mod explain their reason for removing you instead of you having to come to another member to find out why. I think that guy should have left himself.

I used to have a "too old" age bias too though. I was the bare minimum age of 18 when i joined TMF and i put anyone who replied to my threads that i found out was 50+ to ignore list, lol.
If you're part of any fetish community, you should learn and accept sooner or later that the age range of the people in that community is very wide. If you're uncomfortable around people that are decades older than you, that's fine, but you should leave yourself or come back when you're older instead of getting disliking someone just because of your age.

Don't let it get to you too much. I don't use kik but i think kik still has a lot of tickling community chats for you to find a better one.
 
I don't think you can be "too old" for anything that you like, but it doesn't hurt to be cognizant of age differences to avoid seeming creepy, or to avoid that "let me give you the benefit of my age and wisdom" bullshit.
 
Wolf said:
I don't think you can be "too old" for anything that you like, but it doesn't hurt to be cognizant of age differences to avoid seeming creepy, or to avoid that "let me give you the benefit of my age and wisdom" bullshit.
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I don't consider what I've learned over the years to be "BULLSHIT"! :mad:
 
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