marvin10101984
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Hi everyone,
I want to ask you all something that has been annoying me.
I'm engaged to a wonderful lady but she is not into tickling. We have tried it but she doesn't like it.
I want to meet people IRL to talk about tickling but is that cheating? I can't help but feel it is but all I want is to talk to someone who shares this little fetishism as well.
What I would like to know from you all is, is it cheating to meet up with someone and talk about tickling?
All great answers to your question, this could be very costly on your part,are you willing to part with half of everything you own. To what you think is innocent (non cheating) your wife I guarantee will not see it that way and so will the courts.
While in a partnership the definition is no longer exclusively yours to make.
More importantly you may want to reconsider spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn't share your fetish. You're already talking about meeting other people, I assume without her knowledge, it'll only get worse once you're married
Hi everyone,
I want to ask you all something that has been annoying me.
I'm engaged to a wonderful lady but she is not into tickling. We have tried it but she doesn't like it.
I want to meet people IRL to talk about tickling but is that cheating? I can't help but feel it is but all I want is to talk to someone who shares this little fetishism as well.
What I would like to know from you all is, is it cheating to meet up with someone and talk about tickling?
It’s not cheating. Have fun and do what you want.
Yea! Meet with someone behind your future wife's back IRL to "just talk" about something you find sexually appealing she does not share, that we can assume the person you are meeting with does? Sounds like a great idea!
Yeah. Perfectly reasonable isn't it?
If he goes through with this: When he gets home... I wonder what the lie would be, that he would use as his excuse... as to his whereabouts. She might buy it. Who knows?
But then... when he's going to sleep that night... I wonder if he'll lay there and WISH he could tell his wife the exciting encounter he had with the person he met that day. People in love can't wait to share their fulfilled moments, accomplishements, desires. etc. That wonderful conversation he COULD share if he'd have been honest in the first place. But... he can't do that. He'll have to hide it. What a shame.
Lies build up. Big or small. And pretty soon... they'll catch up. Whether its being caught... or facing the mirror.
And btw... people tell each other where they're going in case something bad happens. That's a "My wife or husband is safe" thing to do. If you care about them. This is yet another case of complete disregard for his wife's feelings. (If he goes through with it.) (And yeah he's asking but... even HE put the term "cheating" in the title. So he's aware that this could be deemed cheating. At least to a certain degree.) Can you imagine if something bad happens to her while hes on his quest? And she can't get a hold of him? Wow... that's quality husband material right there if I ever saw.
If the roles were reversed... and his wife met someone to talk about HER sexual kink or... her marriage let's say. I wonder if he would be cool with it? If she didn't tell him of course. Because of course "She didn't think it was cheating".
Just simply don’t tell her.